FF2 will allow people to search via city and distance from city though - check the re: maps + blocking topic in the General forum for a pic of the new search system.
Re: maps - blame Google for that, they updated their map system so we couldn't use the one they were using anymore.
@FeedMeLove8: It's a daily limit, once midnight or so passes for you you'll be able to send messages again.
Lots of scammers have been on here of late, all their profiles have been removed when found, also banned.
People will usually say stuff on their photos and profile like "tease me and make fun of me
" when they want it anyway.

Oh yeah, that said, humiliation shouldn't be pushed onto people who aren't into it either.
Oh, the sexual kind is when people get off on being called a flabby, blubbery pig and stuff like that.
It's generally pretty obvious when people are trying to get off vs being genuinely nasty on here anyway.
Yeah, they got the sexual kind of humiliation mixed up with just plain insults.
If people are rude, don't hesitate to report them either, best to take care of those kinds of people.

There's tons of people on here for either a fat fetish, a relationship, or both.
I got very cynical myself after being on here a few years. Better being that way though.
That's the problem though, you can't read their mind and tell their true temperament.