It isn't so much that bothers me just the whole.. "guy's are this, guy's are that" rants... I try and ignore em.. But then it just get's to me eventually. =/
I have received a taste of that and it's bloody danm shitty. And once again it's the whole boy's vs. girls argument Where each side goes on how the grass is greener on the others side.
They aren't trying to be cruel though. They are in a similar boat as you. Looking for something they want in a partner they feel they can't get elsewhere. =/