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Malvineous
1 year
How to meet people online when you're an introvert
I'm also an introvert that used to have terrible social anxiety. Here are some of the things that worked for me.
- Don't hesitate to send the first message. If you understand that people enjoy h...
- Don't hesitate to send the first message. If you understand that people enjoy h...
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Malvineous
1 year
I talked to an ai chat bot about "taking the plunge" into weight gain
I tried talking to it as a feeder, and it was having none of that. It kept ignoring my wishes and trying to push me into gaining weight. It even offered to be my feeder, lol. I think you may have m...
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Malvineous
1 year
Consensual... abuse?
I did read the whole thread. Personally, I'm not convinced that OP meant what you suggest, since he wasn't clear about that being every aspect of his life, only the sexual dynamic. OP specifica...
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Malvineous
1 year
My dreams and desires have changed since i gave in
I'm curious to know what specific changes you made in your life to enjoy things again. A lot of people seem have difficulty doing that. (Even outside of kink)
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Malvineous
1 year
Consensual... abuse?
Forgot to add this, but Goreans really go the extra mile with eye contact restrictions, certain speech requirements, and even specific body postures when sitting or kneeling. Every moment is microm...
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Malvineous
1 year
Consensual... abuse?
While I agree with many of the points you made, I have to disagree with the overall message, as it sounds discouraging. I've seen a lot of posts on Fetlife of people saying how they made a 24/7 B...
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Malvineous
2 years
Malvineous
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i am straight, yet turned on by the male gainers.
In addition to what everyone else has said, I think you should know that being "mostly straight" is completely valid, and a lot more common than you'd think.
In a 2013 survey for the National He...
i am straight, yet turned on by the male gainers.
In addition to what everyone else has said, I think you should know that being "mostly straight" is completely valid, and a lot more common than you'd think.
In a 2013 survey for the National He...
Malvineous
2 years
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throwing myself out there…
Ugh, I wrote out this great response that addressed every point Wat made, but there were so many points raised that I can't edit it down to fit in the character limit, lol. The TLDR is that most of...
throwing myself out there…
Ugh, I wrote out this great response that addressed every point Wat made, but there were so many points raised that I can't edit it down to fit in the character limit, lol. The TLDR is that most of...
Malvineous
2 years
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throwing myself out there…
You're listing off all of these negative personality traits, and maybe there's some truth there, but I don't think they're as bad as you say. Depression has killed all of your self-esteem, and so y...
throwing myself out there…
You're listing off all of these negative personality traits, and maybe there's some truth there, but I don't think they're as bad as you say. Depression has killed all of your self-esteem, and so y...
Malvineous
2 years
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slow eaters?
Same here. When I try to rush I get heartburn as well. I think because when you're hurrying, you're not taking enough time to chew, so you end up with more solid food in your stomach that's harder ...
slow eaters?
Same here. When I try to rush I get heartburn as well. I think because when you're hurrying, you're not taking enough time to chew, so you end up with more solid food in your stomach that's harder ...
Malvineous
2 years
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folks , what is the sexiest position a bigger girl can take nudes in? (advice)
Low angle shots are usually pretty great
folks , what is the sexiest position a bigger girl can take nudes in? (advice)
Low angle shots are usually pretty great
Malvineous
2 years
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for women, femme, and non-binary/gnc friends: what would a safe fa space look like to you?
Personally, I'm not bothered with women making a girls only club if they want to. Although, I think the objections Munchies raised are all valid.
Bumble has a mechanism for preventing men from m...
for women, femme, and non-binary/gnc friends: what would a safe fa space look like to you?
Personally, I'm not bothered with women making a girls only club if they want to. Although, I think the objections Munchies raised are all valid.
Bumble has a mechanism for preventing men from m...
Malvineous
2 years
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fat fetish/feederism study
I was filling out the survey until question 10. I agree that there are problems with how it's framed. Seems like your options are either to encourage weight loss, or be manipulative. For me it'...
fat fetish/feederism study
I was filling out the survey until question 10. I agree that there are problems with how it's framed. Seems like your options are either to encourage weight loss, or be manipulative. For me it'...
Malvineous
2 years
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butthurt scams?
My bad. I guess I just assumed because of how active you are on the site. I don't really expect that from regular users anymore. This community has changed a lot in the last decade.
butthurt scams?
My bad. I guess I just assumed because of how active you are on the site. I don't really expect that from regular users anymore. This community has changed a lot in the last decade.
Malvineous
2 years
Malvineous
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came out to wife, advice?
This advice is generally good, but what makes it manipulation is the secrecy and the intent to pavlov her without consent. Don't do that to people. Instead, just have open and honest communicat...
came out to wife, advice?
This advice is generally good, but what makes it manipulation is the secrecy and the intent to pavlov her without consent. Don't do that to people. Instead, just have open and honest communicat...
Malvineous
2 years
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butthurt scams?
I don't know why I'm wading into this minefield, but here goes. I think the point that was being made was that most people are out here treating each other like objects. Men treat women like a piec...
butthurt scams?
I don't know why I'm wading into this minefield, but here goes. I think the point that was being made was that most people are out here treating each other like objects. Men treat women like a piec...
Malvineous
2 years
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butthurt scams?
I, too, am butthurt about scams. Not this situation though, I mean the real ones.
butthurt scams?
I, too, am butthurt about scams. Not this situation though, I mean the real ones.
Malvineous
2 years
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sports for bbw bhm and ssbbw ssbhm
Anything involving swimming. It's low impact exercise, plus floating might be an advantage.
sports for bbw bhm and ssbbw ssbhm
Anything involving swimming. It's low impact exercise, plus floating might be an advantage.
