Malvineous


Beaverton, Oregon, United States  
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Malvineous 3 years
Death feederism discords?
Here's a new invite for the discord I mentioned.
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i am straight, yet turned on by the male gainers.
In addition to what everyone else has said, I think you should know that being "mostly straight" is completely valid, and a lot more common than you'd think.

In a 2013 survey for the National He...
Malvineous 3 years
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throwing myself out there…
Ugh, I wrote out this great response that addressed every point Wat made, but there were so many points raised that I can't edit it down to fit in the character limit, lol. The TLDR is that most of...
Malvineous 3 years
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throwing myself out there…
You're listing off all of these negative personality traits, and maybe there's some truth there, but I don't think they're as bad as you say. Depression has killed all of your self-esteem, and so y...
Malvineous 3 years
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slow eaters?
Same here. When I try to rush I get heartburn as well. I think because when you're hurrying, you're not taking enough time to chew, so you end up with more solid food in your stomach that's harder ...
Malvineous 3 years
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folks , what is the sexiest position a bigger girl can take nudes in? (advice)
Low angle shots are usually pretty great
Malvineous 3 years
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for women, femme, and non-binary/gnc friends: what would a safe fa space look like to you?
Personally, I'm not bothered with women making a girls only club if they want to. Although, I think the objections Munchies raised are all valid.

Bumble has a mechanism for preventing men from m...
Malvineous 3 years
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fat fetish/feederism study
I was filling out the survey until question 10. I agree that there are problems with how it's framed. Seems like your options are either to encourage weight loss, or be manipulative. For me it'...
Malvineous 3 years
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butthurt scams?
My bad. I guess I just assumed because of how active you are on the site. I don't really expect that from regular users anymore. This community has changed a lot in the last decade.
Malvineous 3 years
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butthurt scams?
If the conversation is over, please lock the thread.
Malvineous 3 years
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came out to wife, advice?
This advice is generally good, but what makes it manipulation is the secrecy and the intent to pavlov her without consent. Don't do that to people. Instead, just have open and honest communicat...
Malvineous 3 years
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butthurt scams?
I don't know why I'm wading into this minefield, but here goes. I think the point that was being made was that most people are out here treating each other like objects. Men treat women like a piec...
Malvineous 3 years
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butthurt scams?
I, too, am butthurt about scams. Not this situation though, I mean the real ones.
Malvineous 3 years
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sports for bbw bhm and ssbbw ssbhm
Anything involving swimming. It's low impact exercise, plus floating might be an advantage.
Malvineous 3 years
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ethics
I agree with your first point, the gainer should explore this lifestyle with a supportive partner and try not to lay the responsibility for their needs at their relatives' feet, if possible. Th...
Malvineous 3 years
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sending photos in a message
I want to send photos to someone through a message, but there doesn't seem to be any attachment button, and it looks like messages are text only. Is there any way to send a photo through the site w...
Malvineous 3 years
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my conclusion
I'll try to rephrase. I hope you get free of your situation and find the guy you're looking for. You deserve a break. The kind of guys you want are out there for sure. However, they're actually pre...
Malvineous 3 years
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ethics
Good point, and I have noticed something similar regarding trauma. I agree that it depends on how they deal with it. For some, trauma is debilitating, and can lead to depression, kill their self-es...
Malvineous 3 years
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in your opinion are those with this fetish are more likelier to be autistic?
I think it has to do with having special interests. If you can obsessively fixate on Pokemon, you can also obsessively fixate on kink. lol

Fetishes - gotta catch em all!
Malvineous 3 years
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ethics
Finally, there's virtue ethics, which is based on the idea that everyone should cultivate good personality traits (virtues) and act in accordance, while avoiding bad traits (vice). "Be the change y...