BBW_Lover_Forever, don't take this the wrong way, but if you could clone her I'd most certainly be interested.
That said, there isn't really any reason to have to choose one or the other... so go with both.
Well, I've gone more than 2 years without sex, but I had food just a couple hours ago. In a pinch, my choice is obvious.
@bloatedbellygirl65: Wow, you are pretty damn lazy if you're too lazy to log in to YIM!

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Some guys on here give the good ones a bad name. Just like the last girlfriend I had. I blame her for shooting me in the heart and giving love a bad name.
@bloatedbellygirl, I know it was probly just one of a whole lot, but did you see the pm I sent?

bloatedbellygirl, I know it was probly just one of a whole lot, but did you see the pm I sent?

Okay, so if it's different for you and these two friends of yours, why is 400 unhealthy? Seems like sort of an arbitrary number to pick as the point where it becomes TEH DEATHFATZ.
And that problem is how everyone has a different concept of what is and isn't "too big"- based solely on their own wants and experiences.
"400 pounds isn't healthy" How is this different from saying "250 pounds just isn't healthy". There's an issue with the concept of "too big".
And you can't claim to have "emotional maturity" and then turn around and dismiss an entire group of people because of an extreme scenario.
You're right, only a real loser would dump someone for becoming healthier. But you're acting as though those losers are the majority.
You would be a lousy piece of shit if you left someone because they lost/gained weight/got their face fcked up in a car accident/whatever.
Okay, you've got the "emotional maturity" to love someone beyond their appearance. Hate to break it to you, sunshine, but you're not the only one. The vocal idiots don't define