@Essex- besides the map, any hints on the possible changes or additions to the site?

Hope your having a good day caramel

Thanks @amber, and thanks for the sage advice @david, will try it

not enjoying this sore throat

damn, missed out on the chubbystuff marathon

Kudos chubbystuff! You have quite the appetite!

hopefully everything works out jamanda25

@Revelate- yup, I do the same. No point in wasting my time chasing false hope. If they're interested, then you'll know

yup that's the word Ditzy. People have grown too non confrontational with dating, etc. I think everyone should let the other party know what's up

with the growth of online dating.

Though I think what pudgeman is getting at is that instead of some people just flat out saying "not interested" they just ignore you until you give up. I've heard its gotten very common

@Ditzygirl- that is correct. Some people just tend to helicopter the other person too much. If the other party is interested they will get back to you, don't push the issue

@Ditzygirl- I've been on Dims since 06. I've been on here since 2010, though been actually "active" since Jan last year

@Revelate- very true

@Ditzy- yeah, you get quite a mixed bag of people on here. Of course judging by the nature of the site it comes as no surprise. I've heard stories from both sides of the aisle

There's plenty of New Yorkers chubbystuff, guess most are just too shy to say hi.

Yes there is Essex. Lived there once myself once. Think there is also an Essex county in Canada as well

So many people from NJ.

@chubbystuff- hello. So are you planning to surprise your husband when he returns?

chuybbystuff always willing to share helpful stuffing advice with everyone.