Bicepsual


Columbus, Ohio, United States  
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Bicepsual 3 years
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tell me, how do you cope with negative reactions due to your weight?
The best thing for my wife' mental health was when she switched jobs. Everybody on her new team only knew her as heavy. There was none of that underlying comparison or judgement any more.

And mo...
Bicepsual 3 years
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loving when people lose and regain
I've witnessed friends lose for a vacation. The girl wants to fit in a bikini and will crash diet for 3-4 months to prepare for this cruise/trip. Usually it's to celebrate an anniversary.

And th...
Bicepsual 3 years
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how large do you like your partner until you find the gain unattractive?
I really loved it once my wife started wearing my old big t-shirts around the house because it was the only shirts that fit her loosely.

It then just became another excuse why she needed to la...
Bicepsual 3 years
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how did you become a feeder/fat admirer?
It something that aroused me as a teen. But I never entertained it in real life or dated heavier girls. But then those embers roared later in life when my wife gained weight in pregnancy.
Bicepsual 3 years
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sneaky ways to fatten someone up
I swear, the bagger for our grocery store's curbside pickup is a secret feeder. For a month now they've now subbed in fried chicken for our rotisserie chicken. We even had a random large bag of her...
Bicepsual 3 years
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avoiding gaining as a feeder
I almost always eat a different meal than my wife. She'll share a pizza or fried chicken with the kids. But it's been normalized for a while that I have a different meal prepped for myself.

It ...
Bicepsual 3 years
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quarantine weight gain
I feel left out, haha – my wife has lost in quarantine!

Her office life of the ladies bringing in donuts every morning, dragging her out to massive fast food lunches, constant trips to the ve...
Bicepsual 3 years
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i lied about my weight for the first time ever!
The first time my wife's doctor confronted her about her weight my wife came home so enraged. Thought it was insane someone could think of her as obese.

In her mind, she was still 140-150lbs. T...
Bicepsual 3 years
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i lied about my weight for the first time ever!
My wife could never admit she was 200lbs.
She was always "190" until she was about 225 and couldn't get away saying 190 any more.
Bicepsual 3 years
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loving when people lose and regain
I've noticed among our circle that after a wife is done having kids, there's usually one last fitness/diet hurrah to try to get the old body back.

And then once they regain, that's usually wher...
Bicepsual 3 years
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do you have kids? does that change anything for you?
So much of my wife's weight came because of the kids (not the pregnancy). We never had snacks in the house until them. First she started coming home with party-size snacks for the kids' sleepovers....
Bicepsual 3 years
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what is your sign?
Taurus.

Shameless plug for a story I wrote about it:

https://fantasyfeeder.com/stories/view?id=305410
Bicepsual 3 years
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why thin to fat?
From my experience, most unwittingly put on 30-60lbs. And then once they and their peers are used to them being heavier, they completely let go and become large.
Bicepsual 3 years
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i don’t know what to do with myself anymore
My wife had that comparison anxiety hanging over her for a while.

Her family got used to it very quickly.

And then after a few years she finally realized that everybody she interacted with ...
Bicepsual 3 years
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do you get embarrassed?
It's a guilty pleasure of mine to be in line and taking tabs on some 350lb woman's cart.

As a fit guy, it still blows me away to see someone casually buy an entire small cake for themselves as a...
Bicepsual 3 years
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arnold press/rotator cuff
Not the right forum. What was your injury, a muscle tear? Tendon tear? If you're experiencing pain at even 80% of a "working" weight, I would halt any shoulder work, period. What has your docto...
Bicepsual 3 years
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pregnancy fetish
My wife lost weight her first pregnancy as well. She was barely 100lbs after nursing with our first. It was the 2nd where she had the conviction that she was going to "enjoy this last pregnancy" an...
Bicepsual 3 years
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pregnancy fetish
I never even discovered this fetish until my wife's 2nd pregnancy and the appetite and weight she gained.

If money was no object.....
Bicepsual 3 years
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for those who have a fat wife/husband, what is it like?
How often do you have sex?
2-3x a week. It has gone way DOWN since she's gaining and all she wants to do is eat and watch Netflix at night. She's simply so passionate about her nightly takeout and...
Bicepsual 3 years
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have you ever known a couple you suspected of being feeders/gainers?
The first person I ever met that was an FA was a college roommate. I didn't really know how to process and perceive it at the time because I wasn't into it.

But he married a fairly thick girl. A...
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