Being a mutual gainer/feeder/feedee is such an odd experience as a dude. Like I can personally switch to being just a feeder, to just a feedee or in between in just a moment. Some people can't grasp that though.

From personal experiences either people are put off and assume I'm trying to be a feeder in the moment when I'm not. Or vice versa. It can be a bit isolating. Not fat enough for feeders, not skinny enough for feedees. It's an odd in-between to exist in sometimes. There's just BHMs or BBWs or FAs who aren't into feedism who only think that's what I can only be into. Like I can separate the kink from the situation. I can appreciate a large or skinny body while also appreciating my own without imposing a kink onto someone else.

This has been something on my mind as of late. Thank you for the venting outlet. Carry on

If i gain a lot of weight, can i avoid double chin?