Fantasy Feeder has always been a welcoming space for people to connect with like-minded individuals. Whether you're a feedee, gainer, fat admirer or a feeder, our site provides opportunities to build meaningful connections, whether through online chats, friendships, or even real-life romance.
Many people turn to online platforms for various reasons, including generating income. We understand that some individuals identify as content creators, online models, sex workers, or even feedees seeking donations. However, we have unfortunately receive numerous reports from our members about scams.
Beware of scammers!
The reports we receive often involve people posing as models or people offering to exchange content for money and gifts. Scammers may ask users to leave the site to continue their interactions, demand upfront payment for content, and then fail to deliver anything in return. In the worst cases, users have lost money, and in even more concerning scenarios, scammers have obtained financial details, leading to significant losses of hundreds of dollars.
The reports we receive often involve people posing as models or people offering to exchange content for money and gifts. Scammers may ask users to leave the site to continue their interactions, demand upfront payment for content, and then fail to deliver anything in return. In the worst cases, users have lost money, and in even more concerning scenarios, scammers have obtained financial details, leading to significant losses of hundreds of dollars.
Protecting your safety
We take these matters seriously and want to remind everyone to always exercise caution when interacting with others online. As moderators, we do our best to monitor profiles and new accounts daily, and we respond to your messages and abuse reports as quickly as possible to ban scammers. However, it's important to stay vigilant and be proactive in protecting yourself while using the site.
We take these matters seriously and want to remind everyone to always exercise caution when interacting with others online. As moderators, we do our best to monitor profiles and new accounts daily, and we respond to your messages and abuse reports as quickly as possible to ban scammers. However, it's important to stay vigilant and be proactive in protecting yourself while using the site.
Protect your personal information
- Avoid sharing sensitive information like your full name, address, workplace, or financial details on your profile or in initial conversations even when you have initiated the conversation.
- Use the Fantasy Feeder messaging system to communicate instead of sharing your phone number, chat apps, or email until you’re comfortable.
- Avoid sharing your account, or password with others including people you meet online.
Verify who you’re talking to
- Whenever possible, we recommend looking for verified profiles. These profiles are marked with a blue shield and a tick, visible both on the profile and in the thumbnail image used in other site areas. Verified users have submitted a photo that has been approved by our site admins to confirm that they are indeed the person in their photos.
- Use reverse image searches to verify that photos aren't stolen or fake. In our niche community, some individuals are easily recognizable due to their well-known content or figures. However, with the growing popularity of Feedism, it's important to keep in mind that a photo could be taken from Instagram or other platforms, even if the person isn't a well-known model or creator. By performing a reverse image search, you can help ensure that the profile you're interacting with is authentic and not using someone else's image without permission.
- If someone contacts you using photos of a well-known web model, it’s unlikely they are who they claim to be. Proceed with caution in your interactions and consider verifying their identity.
- Consider requesting a video call to confirm a users identity and ensure they match their profile.
- Ask them to send a photo holding a specific object or sign as an additional way to verify authenticity.
Be wary of red flags
- Beware of anyone who pressures you for personal information, asks for money / gifts, pressures you to sponsor online feeding or seems too good to be true.
- Trust your instincts: if something feels off, it probably is.
- While we welcome many new members every day, it's important to be extra cautious when interacting with newer profiles. These accounts are more likely to be the ones to watch out for.
Take your time
- Don’t rush into sharing personal details, going off site or meeting in person. Genuine connections take time to develop.
- Use video calls as a way to get to know someone better before meeting in person.
- If you’re participating in online feeding sessions, thoroughly vet the person beforehand. Avoid handing over any money until you’ve built a strong and trustworthy rapport.
- It’s easy to get caught up in the excitement of a new connection, especially when you feel like you’ve finally found a feeder or feedee that aligns with your interests / kink. However, it’s important not to rush things, and take your time enjoying the experience of getting to know someone on a deeper level while building trust.
Stay vigilant against scams
- Be cautious of sob stories, especially if someone asks for financial help. Scammers often target users with elaborate schemes and stories.
- Report suspicious behavior or profiles to the platform immediately using our ‘Abuse Report’ feature. Alternatively you can contact our moderator team directly via their profiles or via our customer support email address.
- If you decide to send someone money for food or content, it’s important to use a service that allows you to claim your money back if needed. With PayPal, for example, you can choose whether you're sending money to friends or paying for a service. While there is a small fee for selecting the "goods and services" option, this provides you with greater reassurance, as it allows you to file a claim and potentially get your money back if anything goes wrong.
Keep initial meetings public and inform others
- Always meet in a public place for your first meeting.
- Inform a friend or family member of your plans, including the location and time of your meeting.
- Consider setting up a pre-organized time to check in with a friend or family member during or after your meeting.
- Arrange your own transportation to and from the meeting to maintain control over your movements.
Trust your gut
- If someone makes you uncomfortable online, don’t hesitate to end the conversation, and block / report them to a moderator.
- If someone makes you uncomfortable in person, let your pre-organized check in person know. Get the attention of staff at the venue or contact emergency services if required. It's important to remove yourself from an uncomfortable situation as quickly and calmly as possible.
- Prioritize your safety and well-being above all else.
Report issues to the platform
If you encounter scammers, harassment, inappropriate behavior, or anything that feels unsafe, report it to our moderator team:- Report profiles or content by using the abuse report feature.
- Or contact our moderator team through the contact us form.
