LoraDayton:
I know exactly what he said very much thank you! There's no mistaking what sexual orientation is versus a kink they are not the same thing there is no overlap they are not a substitute for each other. And straight people, especially straight men, do not get to mansplain that to a bisexual woman especially a fat one. I know what I'm talking about more than you thanks!
Jelly rolls:
Hey bi trans guy here. I think that calling feederism a sexual orientation is justified since all the fatphobic stigma that surrounds liking fat or liking being fat. The hardest part of my identity was to accept that I’m a feeder and feedee. Being trans made me think about suicide but this was a lot worse for me to accept. I feel it deserves to be recognized as an orientation due to how hard it is to accept yourself as being into fat and having that be visible. Also demisexual is categorized as a sexual orientation even though it has to operate with the gay, straight, and bi gender orientations to be present. This shows that we can categorize things that are dependent on gender attraction as sexual orientations. Being into feederism is a marginalized sexuality minority and needs to be treated as such.
Some very good points in this post.
3 years
LoraDayton:
Literally nobody asked either of you lol
Literally nobody asked you either lol
3 years
Weight loss surgery seems pretty extreme for someone only 350lbs....
One thing to keep in mind whatever the cause of weight loss she goes with, is that fat bodies tend to bellow out when they lose weight. My girl lost 70 pounds and I thought she was fatter because of how much meltier she got
3 years
Bigwideland:
I am getting large, it is a challenge to live bigger. But I am draw to it like a moth to a flame. I am hard wired to what to be huge. I just love the feeling of weight, the jiggle of fat, rolls of fat sitting and pushing on other rolls for space to grow. A hanging belly that rubs on my legs and swings when you waddle.
Wow you just described an entire host of sensations that are so foreign to me I can't even come close to imagining it
3 years
Louiefat:
If I could push a button, or if there was a machine, that would make me 600 pounds I wouldn't hesitate for a second! But god damn y'all, gaining that much weight is A LOT OF WORK.
jremy83:
I feel like getting g to 300 is even a lot of work. I cannot imagine how hard it must be to be 600!
I believe some people are simply gifted with being able to gain weight easily. I myself have a hard time just maintaining my body weight and eating enough to keep myself alive. And even when I overeat, I just burn right through it and nothing sticks.
3 years
If I could push a button, or if there was a machine, that would make me 600 pounds I wouldn't hesitate for a second! But god damn y'all, gaining that much weight is A LOT OF WORK.
3 years
Tigerlily33:
I have been fortunate enough to help 3, people so far reach their goal of immobility. 2 of my feedees decided to move into nursing homes after becoming immobile. And the other feedee I fed until the day he died. Let the questions begin.
Myusername4fantasyfeeder:
Realistically speaking, how much money would a person have to give you, either up front or or in their will, to make this happen?
TigerLilly is most likely just a very skilled role player
3 years
FattyAndrew21:
It just takes time and you have to be careful on what your looking for in a relationship in this fetish.
"It just takes time' Is a viable strategy for finding a feedist partner if you live for 100,000 years
3 years
BBWcreator82:
Possible, yes.
Incredibly rare, also yes.
Most of us will be alone for the rest of our lives, or just keep this a secret and settle for someone else.
There aren't enough of us to go around. Lots of people, but not too many actually into it.
Most of the people here aren't really into the fetish, it's an act.
They are just looking for their preferences.
People who are into it, for real? Extremely rare. They will tell you they are. They will tell you all day but the truth. Not so much.
Basically, when you're in Rome, you do as
the Romans do. The real ones, they're special.
It is also sad that this is where the fetish comes to die, too. I can't tell you how many people I've talked to on here who've been just been catfished, lied to, abused in horrible ways just enough to give it up forever..or at least never trust anyone into it ever again, and for good reason.
I waited for 15 years to find someone I didn't have to hide this from because of how people react, and when I thought I finally did, I was too late.
The people of this place did what they tend to do the best. Destroy everything they get their hands on. It's a sad story and its one I'll have to live with forever, too.
I wouldn't hope too much. It breaks everyone who does.
Good luck, and if you DO get the chance. Don't waste it. Be grounded, realistic and honest. Don't make promises you know you can't keep. Don't be like the majority of the people on here.
It might never show up again and that is a regret that never goes away.
Wow. This is too damn true. Brutal truth
3 years
Louiefat:
Fatsexual should be a more common phrase. I'm not bisexual but there comes a point in obesity where people kinda become genderless and I'm all about it.
FAMGM:
THIS.
And I call that, “genderobese”.
Genderobese, Nice. I'd like to see if that one gets hate or not.
Fatsexual seems like it should be a homerun in the fat community but a TON of people will absolutely shit on you as some sort of sex bigot for using the term fatsexual
3 years
