Selkie:
Dearynight98 & Vestalund: We should all discuss tips on how to gain in an androgynous shape, a lot of people want bigger butts and the 3 of us most likely want the opposite, thicker waists and less hips?
Baba Yaga, lol, bodybuilders are sooo anti-fat I think that's what made me rebel and join this site! 😉
OMG YES. You’re on the right page. I’m ok with a little ass fat but I want a big belly for the most part. I don’t like the idea of wide hips or big thighs on me either.
5 years
None of my other jeans would even fit now. Looks like I have to order a new pair soon before these ones tear 😉
5 years
Basically known ones that I can follow on social media? I’ve always been on the more androgynous side myself and it would be cool to have inspiration. However, it is hard to find any known female gainers that are tomboyish.
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Dearynight98:
Okay, either own it or lose weight. You are going to have people point fingers and judge no matter what so you might as well be happy with your decision. You should be able to shake off any criticism at the end of the day if the positives outweighed the negatives. Not to sound condescending but if you’re so self conscious of your gain otherwise to the point where you’re asking us what to do then maybe this lifestyle isn’t for you. It is never too late to turn back if that is what has you worried.
Harvcrest:
See, I don't understand responses like this. I approach the topic with hopeful uncertainty, genuinely curious about others' experiences with the intent of gaining (heh) insight into my own life, only to be shot down with "maybe this isn't for you". If you read my post thoroughly, you can see I've happily embraced the lifestyle on a personal level, but am struggling with it on a social level.
Eh. :/
No, I’ve read your post. Like said, if you are this concerned with what others think about you, then maybe this lifestyle isn’t for you. You are free to take my advice with a grain of salt but the criticism will only get worse with every pound you gain so you might as well be secure enough with it that you’re not going to too concerned about what others think. You activitily comparing yourself to others does sound like you’re also having second thoughts. Trust me, if you’re not completely on board with this, it will fuck up your mental health so you might as well stop and do so when you’re ready.
5 years
Okay, either own it or lose weight. You are going to have people point fingers and judge no matter what so you might as well be happy with your decision. You should be able to shake off any criticism at the end of the day if the positives outweighed the negatives. Not to sound condescending but if you’re so self conscious of your gain otherwise to the point where you’re asking us what to do then maybe this lifestyle isn’t for you. It is never too late to turn back if that is what has you worried.
5 years
Like being forced to eat so much that you just crap yourself? Or when an obese person can’t make it to the bathroom in time and has an accident? I also like it when a forceful feeder won’t permit a feedee to go to the toilet to relieve themselves and lets them shit right where they are.
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Louiefat:
There's a 99.98% chance that those are just fantasy scenarios in an erotic fiction. I also read a story about someone using a spell to exchange their fat with someone else. Probably a good chance that hasn't actually happened IRL either
justcurious04:
Lol yes, I edited for clarity on where I'm coming from. I'm new to this community (but not new to the fetish) and I just am trying to grasp a sense of where people are at, and where I'm at.
Is it normal, have people experienced being secretly fattened? And it scares me to think someone would interpret fantasy as repressed desire and try to manifest that.
There are definitely people who have been fattened secretly by abusive partners because they don’t want them cheat/leave them or because they are fetishists.
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I live with my family and my dad is a total health nut. He has seen that I was recently buying unhealthy stuff and is threatening to throw me on the streets if i don’t comply with his demands not to. It sucks because now I can’t gain weight the way I want. I feel like it has slowed down my progress some and since I can’t get my hands on much sugar, I’m not gaining as much visercal fat which would mean a big belly.
I know it is in his interests to try to help but it does still piss me off that I’m not allowed to do what I want with my body. Obviously, I have not told my family that my gain is intentional, they just think I have low willpower or whatever. I’m thinking of ways to sneak in junk food without getting caught but the problem is that my dad is always nosing around my business and (privacy is not a requirement apparently in this household) and I’m afraid he’ll find it or get the idea that I’m hiding something.
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Even something like fruit juice, which has added sugars. They don’t fill you up too fast and so you can easily drink as much as you please and get all needed calories.
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