It depends on how you word it. If you keep touching his fat, and tell him how much it turns you on, it might be a problem. If you tell him you don't mind larger men, then it might make him feel more comfortable.

You can ask some of the people here about stopping once you reach a goal. For many people that is just physically and mentally impossible. So, keep that in mind as you are gaining. I know one woman who planned to stop at 300, then 350, then absolutely at 400, but she has blown past that now. Her goals are not controlling her weight, her weight is controlling her goals.

Living with your parents isn't going to help if you outlive them. Although at 800 pounds, there is probably a good chance that you won't. How do your parents feel about taking care of you for the rest of their lives? It might be a turn on to make such a high goal, but if you spend your life in a nursing home, in pain, and unable to care for yourself, it may not be as much fun as you think.

Nobody knows where the fattest states really are. It's not like someone asked people what they weigh. They use criteria like the proportion of fast food restaurants to gyms. They do not take into account how many people use the fast food places or gyms, what people eat, or how long they exercise. And they assume that people only get fat at fast food restaurants, and only get thin at gyms.

I like Mrs. Goldfarb by Alan Sherman. Definitely a feeder's song.

I think it is about being in control of your weight, whether it is losing weight or gaining weight. Besides the physical things you mentioned, there are a lot of psychological similarities too. I also think it is very hot to see a woman go from one extreme to the other. Good luck!

I love to see non-pregnant women in maternity clothes. Any kind, but especially obvious maternity clothes with panels and pleats.

Your boyfriend does not run your life, you do! If you don't want to do it, then don't.