Mutual gaining content

Agreed with above……quality is key! But I am quite sure that there would be a good market for this specialty.

Whoever thought the weight gain women model market porn driven would be the top searched porn…..right….all of us did…but there are a lot of closet Fat lovers out there.
4 years

Can anyone else relate to having this weight gain kink much stronger at certain times?

I am a FA really into weight gain
A Feeder (more of an encourager)
A Feedee
Very much Into Mutual Gaining

I go in and out with varying degrees of this Kink. Weight gain on my wife and women is always on my mind…..but there are certain times where it is much much stronger than other times. Obviously it has to do with how busy I may be at these given times bit still it will come on like a storm. During these times it is when I intentionally gained myself.

I mean, I always notice a 2-3 lb. gain on my wife and get excited as I do noticing a gain on any woman I see…..but there are certain times where I need weight gain in my life like in an intense way…..more than always wanting it. Anyone else?
4 years

Do you ever feel shame for this fetish ?

Bringing back a great thread -

I identify with FA and really into weight gain, Fredee (more encourager), Feedee and Mutual gaining.

I think the ultimate is mutual gaining in a marriage or relationship. Mine was non-communicative. My wife knows I like her gaining weight (definitely not to the weight I would love to see her get to) we have never ever discussed anything about my discovery of me growing my own gut. It has happened a couple time at first accidentally and then intentionally. She played right into fattening us both up without us ever discussing it. It was probably the ultimate with this kink the way I am have ever felt in my life. She was getting fatter than she had ever allowed herself to get before and seemed fine with it, maybe because I was now the biggest as the couple. Possibly it was because I put on a huge gut at the hand of her cooking or so she thought (when I was stuffing myself intentionally when we weren’t together). She seemed to love the big gutted husband she created and didn’t even mind that we were now a Fat couple.

I believe I felt more shame when I was at my biggest and knowingly chugging heavy cream and stuffing myself when I wasn’t around my wife to later come home for dinner and have her stuff me even more. I guess the reason I felt that which is also the reason it was so damn arousing is that it was kind of secretive from her….but she is the type that doesn’t like to discuss kinks in any way. I got over it because I felt everything was working favorably for both of us during this time….she seemed fine e with her weight and certainly loved the much bigger bellied husband of hers and it was all very fun and really arousing. There were times when I was by myself where I would feel a bit embarrassed if I saw someone I knew that I had t seen in a long long time and here I was with a gut sticking out in front of me looking as if I was 18 months pregnant. But most of the time I was totally aroused by my massive gain and would show off proudly and even engage in conversation at the grocery store or wherever with employees I knew but were not close to that still saw me with at least a 50 lb. gain. I would be buying tons (obscene amounts) of ice cream and sweets to pack the pantry and fridge…..and start a conversation about weight gain….you would be surprised how many people love to engage in these conversations.

I have never felt shame or embarrassment for my wife’s gains and only relished in them. Likewise I have done my entire life with heavier girlfriends or people in general. I have loved fatter women since I was kid and the weight that I love has only increased over time. I think that is probably the main thing I feel ashamed about a bit is my wife thinks that I like her Fat and in her eyes that is 170+ lbs. at 5’ 3”. When she was at 200 lbs. or slightly over she was definitely Fat in most people’s eyes and definitely in hers and probably felt as though I thought she was Fat. If I ever muster up enough courage to tell her I would love to see her at 300 lbs. or even 350 lbs. and would love her just the same but probably lust after her even more……she would say I am weird and disgusting. So, I have never ever said that yet. I long time ago early on when my wife was at her heaviest after multiple pregnancies in a row we were at the mall and she was in an inquisitive mood, she asked me looking at a very pretty woman that was heavier (around 250 lbs.) “does she got into your Fat catagory of liking”? I simply said I think she is pretty and not to Fat…..this is a tricky situation. Then she asked if another lady who must have been 300+ but not very attractive at all “do you tho i she is hot”? I was caught but I had an out because I didn’t think she was hot, but I certainly didn’t mind how Fat she was……so, I said No….she then said “Good, because if you think I would look Hot that Fat….I would think there is something wrong with you”! So, I do t think I am going to bring up that I want her to get Fat for me up to 300-350 lbs. anytime soon. I have definitely told her early on and several times though that she would never ever be Fat that I didn’t find her totally beautiful and love her at that size. I guess this is the only thing I feel ashamed or guilty of being scared to have her tho I I so strange for the upper end what I am attracted to with her gaining or for any woman!
4 years

Anyone switch from feeder to feedee?

voluptuouslover:
After I continued to intentionally gain along with her feeding us both huge fattening meals.....without one conversation about this she actually took on the feeder roll in our relationship and was making us BOTH much fatter than I ever achieved. She seemed to have a sense of excitement with verbally discussing how fat I got not to mention I think she loved the fact that she thought it was all her cooking and live that made me this FAT.....and the best was she didn’t even care how Fat she was getting for the first time in her life. Mutual gaining for sure became my total favorite.

canuck:
that is really great that you are both engaged in this, and that you both are so accepting of your growing bodies. smiley

was this a gradual shift over a long period of time?



I just noticed I had a huge typo. It was supposed to say without not with. So, it was basically a non verbal thing going on….in which she was feeding us both and we were both gaining a bunch but we didn’t discuss it openly. I believe she liked the big gut I put on and didn’t seem to mind herself getting fatter since I got so big. Usually when she is gaining she puts a stop to it where as this time she kept eating huge along with me and getting much fatter than she would typically allow herself. I tacked it up to just indulging my fattening ways of filling my huge gut with her help and not really minding how big she was getting because I was now the biggest one in the marriage.

Although, I did relate to mutual gaining in my marriage being the absolute biggest kink and arousal I have now. Something not only about your wife fattening up continually but seeing your own big gut sticking out in front of you and having your ever gaining women feeding you both all the time knowing you both keep getting fatter and fatter. It is certainly true in my discovery that getting fatter together leads to a much much more satisfying sex life. Both stuffed and bloated cuddling and making love with their ever expanding figures is the highest arousal in my book.
4 years

Starting to realise i'm a feedee

I have always been into women gaining weight my whole life and especially my SO and now my wife.
This weight gain thing does manifest itself in other ways as things go on. I have found myself a few times throughout the years accidentally gain and I then turned it into an intentional gain. I believe it was because of a lack of weight gain for a while on my wife…..but I found at that time I became more interested in myself gaining than even my wife gaining. I had the biggest arousal and desire to have my wife tease me or even scold me for putting on such a big gut in a fairly short amount of time.

I would recommend what I did at the time. I stuffed every day when I wasn’t around my wife and would have plenty of sweets (which I know craved) donuts, snickers ice cream directly following a normal work day lunch. Before I would go hone for dinner I would suck down a couple fattening milk shakes from a drive thru. At this stage I had already packed on a good size gut and my wife was used to cooking us some pretty fattening large meals because both of our appetites had increased pretty big over the last several months. I would be so bloated that I didn’t tho I I could even eat dinner and my wife would come over a put a massive plate of lasagna, and Italian bread in front of me, after my first bite I just kept going, before I was even finished she would come over with the pan and scoop my an even bigger piece of lasagna as well as given her plate another huge piece. I continued this overly obnoxious stuffing day after day, week after week and before I knew it my appetite was so huge I almost didn’t get full anymore just kept eating and eating. But what I did a couple months prior to get to this stage was when I was completely stuffed and didn’t tho I I could eat another bite, I would then make fattening milkshakes. I was surprised that I could put 3+ milkshakes and then follow by a couple tall glasses of milk and then water. For one, it is pretty fun to see how stretched and distended your gut can become and it became a bit of a contest with myself to see how big I could get it. The other thing it does is it stretches out your stomach and I got to the point when not my even hungry I could easily eat 3-4 times what I would eat in a normal sitting without feeling sick from the big meal. I honestly believe that in order to get really big and fat this is something that occurs in everyone of that size. I would wake up in the morning with hunger in my stomach….if I didn’t eat a huge amount I felt as though I needed so much more to feel even close to satisfied. Eventually when you are at this stage you can basically eat and eat and eat even more even if you are not hungry.

Try this out and see if you surprise yourself the way I did.
4 years

Expecting pants to fit - and they don’t

Ditzy:
Since this covid thing everything I own has gotten tight.
My skirt waistbands are stretched just about as far as they will go.
My PJs barely fit and just roll down at the waist.
Had to break out some of my old fat jeans because 28s were just too hard to button and not comfy at all when I sit down.
Back in the 4 and 5X tops now too.


Love your new pic….and all of your commentary and input!
4 years

Period stuffing, anyone else?

My wife has a big increase in her appetite for not only meals but chocolate and ice cream even more than usual. I can always tell that she is pms’ing because her Breasts are over flowing / double bubbling out her bras. She definitely gains 3-5 lbs. in these few days if not more….and it is very clear to me❤️
4 years

What does rapid weight gain feel like?

So many have replied to the first question I don’t want to be redundant …..but with regard to the second one.

Always stuffed big gut from morning to night when you stuff all day. Your appetite increases to the point your not even hungry when it is time for the next meal but them once you start eating you just keep going like a bottomless pit. During my time of four months my gut was huge, distended and bloated all the time. You have to adjust for so much more belly sticking out in front of you with size not really weight in my situation. Bumping into things with your gut sticking so much further in front of you, not seeing your feet…..bending over to pick something up your but hits something else because you have addressed the situation of making more room for your new frontal.
4 years

How much did you gain before weight visually oiled on faster?

I think for me in the beginning was the most dramatic change going from thin sinewy muscles to bulky muscles with a belly in a matter of three years. People that hadn’t seen me since early college to right after where extremely shocked. I was more of. Muscle chin with lifting but in a matter of three years my metabolism changed and became very muscular thick with a small gut. Another change was when I intentionally gained. While back. It’s funny how once you are bigger you sometimes don’t even notice an extra 20 lbs. gained …..and them all of a sudden you do with reminders of walking by a mirror (must be one of those weird fattening mirrors), or your T-shirt not pulling down over your gut (must have shrunk in the dryer) or these slacks don’t even fasten (they must be an old pair from a long time ago that are several Inches smaller in the waist). U til you recognize how much food you pack away in a given day. I am a fairly tall guy but I would say when I was over 250+ lbs. I definitely felt bigger and heavier…..although I didn’t think I felt as Fat as some may have thought I looked. I guess the best answer to your question is it may come as a surprise all of. Sudden when you are not paying as much attention.
4 years

Gf doesn’t like skinny bf’s

So, since the last posts have both of your bellies been growing?
4 years