Make sure you eat at Squid Lips. I have only tried one of their locations but if I lived closer to one I would be my own feedee pretty soon.

Based on the lovely pictures you've posted there is no reason the be self concious about your figure...but that said, our doubts about ourselves are rarely reasonable.

So we can hopefully provide more useful advice than "just do it," would you be willing to share more about why you don't feel confident?

Welcome!

This sadly seems to be a common thread in many kink relationships. "My partner is/isn't into X but I am not/am into X. How do I choose between their happiness and mine?"

Since clearly the fetish is important enough to him that he is not willing to give it up, and it sounds unlikely that you will get to the point of enjoying the sort of gains he desires, you have a tough decision to make: Is it worth being unhappy for the duration of your relationship if it means he is happy and the sex is good?

I know that is pretty blunt and harsh, but in a healthy relationship, both/ all partners are happy both with themselves and with their partner(s). If that isn't the case, you'll need to decide how much you are willing to sacrifice for the sake of staying together.

Good luck figuring things out, I hope whatever you choose is for the best.

Music to my ears.

Lol that's a good way to put it. There may be more folks into it here in the US but that doesn't mean the general population accepts it.

As far as trying to get a lot of people interested, good luck. Human nature means most people will attack anything they see as abnormal, even if it was considered normal a few years earlier.

About the only way you would make this fetish widely popular is if there was an easy way to make money from it and you appealed to people's greed.

Happy Star Wars Day.

What a shame you're so far away. Que lastima!

I would like to know more.