This sadly seems to be a common thread in many kink relationships. "My partner is/isn't into X but I am not/am into X. How do I choose between their happiness and mine?"
Since clearly the fetish is important enough to him that he is not willing to give it up, and it sounds unlikely that you will get to the point of enjoying the sort of gains he desires, you have a tough decision to make: Is it worth being unhappy for the duration of your relationship if it means he is happy and the sex is good?
I know that is pretty blunt and harsh, but in a healthy relationship, both/ all partners are happy both with themselves and with their partner(s). If that isn't the case, you'll need to decide how much you are willing to sacrifice for the sake of staying together.
Good luck figuring things out, I hope whatever you choose is for the best.
4 years
Miss Behavin:
Oink! Oink! Oink!
Music to my ears.
4 years
fat:
you cannot evangelize a niche fetish lol
Lol that's a good way to put it. There may be more folks into it here in the US but that doesn't mean the general population accepts it.
As far as trying to get a lot of people interested, good luck. Human nature means most people will attack anything they see as abnormal, even if it was considered normal a few years earlier.
About the only way you would make this fetish widely popular is if there was an easy way to make money from it and you appealed to people's greed.
4 years
Happy Star Wars Day.
4 years
What a shame you're so far away. Que lastima!
4 years
I would like to know more.
4 years
Only you can decide to stay or go, but you need to decide what your needs are in a lasting relationship. If having a good love life is important to you then you need to look for that. If what you have is enough then fine, but if you're questioning it I don't think those doubts will go away.
P.S. Sorry to hear he doesn't like your belly. Those can be great fun to play with! He's missing out.
5 years
No matter what you look like there's someone out there who will find you attractive. When it gets rough is when folks hate on their admirers for liking their "worst" features.
5 years