Basing everything on looks is indeed very shallow.
If you have to lose weight for health reasons by all means do so.

Its a big decision really.
Lots to think about as far as family and friends and what they will think.
There will come a time where you figure out that maybe you should do what makes you happy.
Gain some and see how you like it. If you don't then lose what you gained simple as that.

Double chins can be very cute.

Being open and honest about what you like and dislike has always worked for me.
He knows how you feel now and isn't that better than worrying about it?

Not to worry it will come back it always does.
Eat larger portions at each meal all the weight will come back quicker than you think.

Whats it about?

Well when you look at it that way I see your point.
Thanks Lora.

Why is being verified such a big deal anyway?
A website glitch perhaps? Ask a moderator why it changed.
I have been here 13 years and never paid much attention to "likes or views" or if I was verified.

I'm a D cup but my belly has gotten so big it makes my boobs look smaller.

Been a while since I could fit in a booth.
I like to try sometimes LOL