Food recommendations for some sexy play?

being on all fours and eating without using hands very much can be a lot of fun. anything bite sized and relatively soft works well. those two-bite brownies were the tidiest thing we've used during our play sessions. i don't mind messy play, but i am lazy and cleanup can be a hassle, lol.

in other sexy food play, my absolute favorite is being asked to eat creamy food from my partner's body. strategically placed/spread, this can be pleasurable for both. smiley
3 years

Why does he want me to stop shaving completely?

a lot of people find body hair sexy. some like the feel, some like the smell.

you will have to judge based on your other erotic activities if you think he sees it as a degradation/humiliation tactic - i have never encountered that myself, and i've been with a number of kinky partners with a variety of body hair preferences.
3 years

Eating slow

i am with you - that first mouthful, discovering the flavours, how they change as it moves across your tongue, and as you chew... the texture... i just love it.

if it's really tasty, and if i am hungry, i think my enthusiasm tends to take over. so while i start out savouring, i gain speed and momentum as i eat.
3 years

Fat celebrity crushes


occamslaser:
Matty fucking Matheson
beyond being hot is also a big man fashion icon


i didn't know of him, but thanks for letting me know. he is hot!
3 years

Fat celebrity crushes

rebel wilson was super cute before she lost weight! now she looks... ordinary.

lizzo is pretty hot.

i can't think of any hot fat celeb men at the moment though.... there must be some!
3 years

Healthy gaining

great topic!

i have gained a lot in the last three years, and i might still be gaining, but i was fit and athletic before that. i am kind of hoping all that good behaviour in my 20s and 30s is going to pay off in my 40s, lol!

health is a spectrum, and you have to weigh your risk vs benefit of the enjoyment of your lifestyle, i think. i love enjoying food, i love drinking good craft beer, and i want to keep enjoying those things as long as i can.

last year i found out my blood pressure was getting high. so i have cut a tonne of salt out of my diet, and i try to be a little more active (just walking right now), and my blood pressure came down. it's at the high end of normal, but ok. the biggest thing i cut out of my diet was chips and some of the cured meat (i couldn't bring myself to cut out bacon entirely!).

and i've continued to put on weight, but i probably consume probably double the "normal" amount of recommended calories daily. i just try to make most of that "quality" calories, and my partner is a big help that way.
3 years

Changing self image


NewBalloon:
There was alot to like about those sensations...alot of shock as well. It's exciting but there are some doubts in the back of my mind too. When you saw yourself in the video or the elevator, how did you react? Was there any panic? Before I would've told you I never really noticed my weight in public but not now...


there was definitely some panic! at a couple of points i resolved to go back to the gym and start getting back in shape again.... obviously those attempts failed, lol. but for a moment, i was stressed by what i was becoming and felt an urge to stop.

the best thing that happened was my partner at the time convinced me not to lose my mind, to relax, and gave me time to adjust. as i went through that time of relaxing, i got used to it, and the benefits of my lifestyle change started to win out in my mind.
3 years

Gaining at 35

Eirtae feedee:
Do you think I can become really fat starting my weight gain at 35?
Is too late?


i was about 40 when i started. i figure it may be better for me - my diet and cardio health was good for so long, i hope it is benefiting me now that i have put on a substantial amount of fat!
3 years

Changing self image

NewBalloon:
Hello, everyone! I'm new to the site. I'm a 6-foot tall male and have gained over 100lbs in the last three years, going from a fit four-workouts-a-week (and as a former fat kid/teen, fittest in my life) 175lbs up to an accidental, then intentional but temporary 307lbs (heaviest ever) before life events caused me to drop down to my current weight of 275lbs. I haven't been below 270lbs since gaining.

Obviously, I'm not the heaviest I've ever been. But today something happened to me that made me feel fatter than ever and I'm afraid/excited that it may have completely altered my self image. I guess I'm just hoping for feedback, shared experiences, or thoughts on what took place and how, right now, I feel it really changed things. But I don't know how yet...and I don't really know if it was a good experience or not.

Today I went to be fit for a suit. The employee who helped me was a young, short, and skinny young woman and the seamstress who made notes for alterations was a little older, tall, and slim. At first I underestimated my jacket size, asking to see a 44 when I needed a 50. Then I asked to see a size 42 pants but had to go up to 46 easily. When I asked for a shirt she took my measurements -- as I stood there I felt huge and heavy. She went and found a shirt, I put everything on and stepped up onto the viewing platform surrounded by panoramic full-body mirrors.

I don't know if it's because of the fit of the suit, or the look, or the tucking in of the shirt (I don't often since gaining), or the mirrors, or the two slender women standing beside me...I saw myself in a new light and to be honest, I freaked myself out.

I felt big and round and wide and like I was exposed. My love handles were so wide and pronounced even sucking in my gut seemed vain and pointless next to my whole silhouette. I didn't know how round my waist was or how padded and fat my back has become. I'm a little panicked, a very excited, but I feel like I've misunderstood what people's perception of me has been for so long. I'm 275, down from 315...so what must I have REALLY looked like before? I feel like a veil has been lifted and I don't know if I'm going to diet hard and try to drop it...or, since I'm here already, push things further...maybe lose later? I don't think my mental image of myself kept up with my gain.

Has anyone else freaked themselves out with their body? What did you do?

Tl;Dr: Suit fitting made me feel my size like never before and I'm both excited/terrified of what happens to my self image from here.


i think your reaction is pretty common. i have gained 200 lbs over several years, and i have felt that way a number of times.
the first time was when someone showed me a video, and in it i stood with my hands on my hips. at first it didn't register that it was me, one of those "who is that fat guy?" moments. i was probably 240-250 lbs, so almost a hundred pounds into my gain.
this has happened a few times since. most recently when i was at a hotel and the elevator had windows on each wall - the first time in a long time i had seen my body from all sides. it was another, "wow, i am *fat*" moment. until then i didn't realize how other people saw my body at over 350 lbs.

so i think what you experienced is common for people who gain a lot. how did those sensations of feeling exposed make you feel?
3 years

Most weight gained in a short amount of time.

chubbybunnywriter:
*ahem* about to hit 200lb gained in less than a year...


ok, you should win an award for that gain. i thought my gain of 100 lbs in a year and a half was a lot - but now i think i am in the little leagues! smiley
3 years