WalkinInAdventure:
I have yet to find a feeder who was wlling to have an open conversation instead of giving me the silent treatment! Would love to find a feeder for long term and possibly marriage
I suspect you need to meet in person and discuss Feeding. Too much online and it gets no further.
6 years
SSBBW Monika:
I'm already immobile, but I would like to be 1000lbs by the end of the year! Then maybe 2000lbs in time. I want to be to fat to move, to move my arms my legs, all I can do is just eat and eat.
Perfectly amazing as long as you want that.
6 years
johnxyz:
Very few feedees exist in real life. So, I pretty much assume anyone who is fat is just fat.
That's not really the way to look at this subject. Everyone as a bit of Feedee in them but they also have a lot of other things too. Such as shame about gluttony and fat. Even if they have admitted it to themselves they won't want to admit it to you.
The best way to test the subject is with a few jokey hints and notice their reaction.
The TV has been testing the waters on this subject for many years. Every so often BBC East Enders or other TV soap will drop in a line about Feeders. Those who are in tune will hear that whilst everyone else will miss it.
When you watch say My 600lbs life it's quite obvious that many of these people are Feeders and Feedees but that's not how they present themselves or are presented by the TV in most cases. Instead the Feeder is presented as 'unsupportive' of her attempts at weightloss and the Feedee is presented as 'addicted' to food.
'Addicted to food' is their spin on being a Feedee. We are all supposed to be terribly sad for their struggle. I watched one with Zalynn but they don't tell you she was an SSBBW model and Feedee and her 'unsupportive' husband is actually a Feeder she chose because he is a Feeder.
So no, it's not that there are few Feedees it's that they won't admit it even when everyone knows they were at one time poster girl Feedees.
6 years
Bathe in Epsom Salts. You can get 25KG of Magnesium Sulphate for £20 off ebay.
Put a couple of large cupfuls in your bath before filling. Then soak for an hour. It should help with your stretchmarks too.
6 years
ObviousLurker:
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The visual ID thing would stink for those who do a lot of client facing business and would be shy/embarrassed to publicly display their interest in this particular fetish. Even if it is just sending in proof to hiccup alone. I mean, I'd like to think I been around long enough to not seem like a fly by night troll/spammer?
Exactly.
6 years
Hedonistic_Purity:
That wasn't meant to scare you, it was a challenge to go all the way.[/quote]
Accepting the challenge then takes away a lot of the fear. No need to avoidit.
6 years
Hedonist, I agree, suicide by eating is not very practical. Mostly people seem to die after the WLS.
6 years
Gingerbeard:
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What I've seen a couple dating sites do is a *really* good idea. And that's send photo verification. Ask a user to send a picture to the admin when signing up, copying a gesture (like one finger to the nose or something). ...
Maybe for a fee if you want the little badge next to your name.
6 years
GrowingLover, I did sort of hesitate about allowing members to judge other members because as you say it can backfire. However if you have limited 'likes' to award each day then that might moderate it a bit.
There should be no limit on reading messages.
6 years
Not having your messages replied to does hurt a little. Obviously people get accustomed to that online but then that all adds up to it being a cold place where people scam you and let you down.
We have all experienced these feelings at some time online.
StarSmoke, I'm not entirely clear why you don't bother using the message system at all. Is it because you just get 5 a day? In which case my idea that content creators could be awarded more messages as if they had paid for them could work.
I way of showing that a person is real is a good idea Gingerbeard but I don't think actual ID is a good idea. After a while it becomes obvious who the scammers are. There should be a way other members can award good people and maybe put a question mark against the baddies. Simply seeing the length of time they have been members is already helping me. I could improve my own standing by posting pictures but I don't wish to be that visible.
6 years
