Yea....I definitely am like this as well....and I know there are many FA’s Into weight gain on women that have followed in this direction to varying degrees as well.

It has taken many years but the best way to describe my situation is my liking of more and more weight on women has increasingly gone up over many years....it wasn’t quick or overnight. I to early on likes chubbier girls. Then it was not just overweight but had a particular body part that was even more extreme fat....such as a much bigger belly or huge breasts and butt and so on.

Having a real Liking to shorter women 5’ 3” - 5’ 5” .....I always thought 180 lbs. would be heavy and Fat enough....an currently I would love to see my 5’ 3” wife to be 300 or even more lbs. I also like seeing a bit taller women at 400 + Lbs. I have other attraction things to women other than just their weight aesthetically that I find attractive.....but yes my weight range in my wife and other women has gone way up over the years.

My wife has broken a heel after a 40 lb. gain in a year and a half a while back.
She kind of tacked it up to her shoes/heels being old....which was a good sign for her denial I thought.

This is true for me a bit.

With my wife and women I always want to see gaining and Fat. With me there has only been a handful of times where I actually acted on and intentionally gained and it usually came after a accidental gain as a starting point. I do think about it maybe 2-3 tines a year but don’t really act on it.

So with my wife I am always thinking of it with me only once in a blue while.

Agreed!

My wife used to have much stronger will power....but now she doesn’t 😜 and I find that so sexy!

She will try eating less before we go on a vacation or before an event she has to be in a dress for....and it typically lasts 2 days and then she is logging out more than before......and piling on some extra Lbs.

Honestly all of them are definitely good with me....as long as they are gaining!

With that said I kind of gravitate when my wife can’t control her appetite and keeps gaining weight.....it’s almost better than if she was trying to on purpose....but like I mentioned gaining weight is all very good any way mentioned.

What I've recently noticed: Her genitals seem to start getting really squishy.
Her butt and hips seem to broaden quicker than usual.[/quote]



I know exactly what you are talking about. My wife after gaining a good 40 lbs. in a year and a half.....which she has now kind of settled in at her current weight..... it after that gain her genitals not only got squishy and much puffier but she even got fatter down there as well. Which I found so sexy because it even added to the sexiness feel.

[quote]johnxyz:
Well, if you are significantly bigger than they are, you can say that you used to be their size, then you dieted and it slowed your metabolism. If that doesn't get them to change the conversation, just keep on talking. Say how they will get used to being your size, etc.[/quote



This is pretty funny😂!

Not Co workers....but when my wife would hang out with friends that all were pregnant around the same time after they all had their kids (multiple). The women would all complain how fat they were still after being pregnant and they couldn’t lose all the weight. Well my wife happened to keep gaining after her last pregnancy and was getting heavier and heavier each time this group would get together (much to my liking). But I could only imagine how my wife would feel when they would all be down within 5-10 lbs. if there pre pregnancy weight while my wife was easily 50-60 lbs. heavier than her pre pregnancy even after a couple years. I asked her what she would do after complaining to me about there conversations.......she said a lot of times I would pig out right in front of them having an extra piece of cake or really over doing it with cookies and stuff that were laid out for our get togethers. I thought it was pretty funny and she would also come home looking really stuffed and sexy.....and I loved it.

I would say that he probably likes you for you as well as your physical appearance.

So you should play into It with him that you have been gaining weight but can’t seem to control your appetite. When you go out to dinner with him or even when you are not with him text him what you are eating and how much as well as over doing it with deserts and sweets.....this will surely make him very aroused. Also, if you are really eating a lot he will probably notice the gains but you can also try eating an extra amount in front of him and comment how big of a pig you are becoming and if you keep this up you are going to get really fat. If he is anything like us FA’s on this site I to weight gain with our women he will be totally aroused and you will turn him on something fierce. Hope this helps....I can give you some other good ones if you like this.

I don’t know! I am not in the same situation as you....the more my wife gains the more I enjoy it!

I agree with you...my wife seemed to like me having a big gut because it made her feel smaller I think. Also, it does tend to make them relax more and my wife would eat a lot more along with me and kept gaining as well.

As for the sex...my wife couldn’t get enough of me and my big belly. She started initiated sex all the time unlike before and it was almost an every night occurrence. She climaxed faster and had way more bigger orgasms....I got to imagine it had something to do with my be big belly and it turning her on. She. Ever came right out and said it....only a few times when she was slightly intoxicated. So I think she has fat fetish tendencies but they are not nearly as strong as mine.