I don’t know! I am not in the same situation as you....the more my wife gains the more I enjoy it!

I agree with you...my wife seemed to like me having a big gut because it made her feel smaller I think. Also, it does tend to make them relax more and my wife would eat a lot more along with me and kept gaining as well.

As for the sex...my wife couldn’t get enough of me and my big belly. She started initiated sex all the time unlike before and it was almost an every night occurrence. She climaxed faster and had way more bigger orgasms....I got to imagine it had something to do with my be big belly and it turning her on. She. Ever came right out and said it....only a few times when she was slightly intoxicated. So I think she has fat fetish tendencies but they are not nearly as strong as mine.

As the one gaining I guess it is better liking the gain. I guess I would be into it more.

On the other hand I find it pretty arousig when my wife accidentally gains without trying. I remember several times where I being such an FA could tell her appetite really increased and she was eating all the time.....she either didn’t pay attention or didn’t notice until she couldn’t even get any of her right jeans up over her thighs and butt not to mention even being able to button them. What I found even sexier was when she tried to control her appetite and couldn’t do it ....giving into her sweet tooth and her bigger appetite and watch her gain even more.

[quote]MrCotyledon:
I believe my preference for fatter girls and becoming fat myself weren't necessarily innate, but certainly shaped early in my childhood. I had always struggled to gain weight as a young adult so I always preferred a partner on the heftier side.

My wife had problems with her weight since childhood and is now easily above 200 lbs, which is at least 60 lbs heavier than when we met. She easily gains weight and has blown up over the years, especially after our wedding. While she doesn't get turned on by weight gain and doesn't plan to gain more, I've noticed that the affection and encouragement I give her has made her much more comfortable and confident in her chubbier body.

Now that I'm older the possibility of being a gainer becomes much easier. I've been able to put on weight with less effort and get turned on by the idea of catching up to my wife's weight. I've always had the desire to gain myself but my life circumstances and body have changed to make it more feasible.

Now when my plump wife isn't around to squeeze and tease, I have a little back-up gut of my own to play with.[/quote


Does your wife like the bigger you? Does she know of your fetish with either her gaining? Or you gaining?
I was similar to you could never really gain easily a while back and them my metabolism changed and I was able to get bigger. A couple times I have accidentally gained at first and then intentionally to see how big I could get. The crazy thin was is my wife seemed to love it the bigger I got. She even was feeding g me extra fatting meals and more and more of them.

This is a great thread! I have thought about this as well... a lot.

I have had a girlfriend a while ago that was able to gain weight really easily. When she was a teenager and shortly after (didn’t know her then) she would try every fad diet to lose weight and this messed with her metabolism later on. When we became serious I shared my desire of likin it when she gained weight. Which she seemed to still try and diet to lose after she first gained it. She all of a sudden began to keep gaining and playing into my love of her extra fleshy figure. It only did she tease me seductively with her gaining but she seemed to get into it as well.

It kind of makes sense early when someone posted that most have always had the fetish but they need some stimuli to bring it out. I think that is certainly true....I also believe there are varying degrees of the fetish. My wife as well as other women I have met seem to have the attitude “if you can’t been them why not join them” or on another phrase if I can’t lose weight easy enough why not just enjoy myself and the great food I want and have an appetite for and just eat it. My man likes me heavier and then we are all happy. My wive has done this over the years and just doesn’t fight it anymore and she also has seemed to not only accept her extra 50 Lbs. But she even seems like she likes her heavier figure better than her thinner figure now.

Has anyone else seen this happen?

This is definitely true!
My wife was already plumper and heavier and I decided to I tentio ally gain myself after an accidental gain to start. I have a weight gain fetish but I didn’t think my wife did. As I got a big Fat gut my wife couldn’t stop having sex with me.....we had sex almost every night as opposed to once a week or every two weeks. She seemed to love my new big fat gut and she seemed more relaxed about throwing her weight around in the bed. She climaxed harder and constantly was holding onto my fat belly and even talking directly about us getting to fat for certain positions while she manipulated our bellies to get better penetration. Having both of our bellies getting in the way during sex made us both that much more sexed up.

Yes fat sex is so much better

I experienced this as well....and it has been discussed in another HC thread somewhere on here. It definitely is true...just when you think after not drinking it for several weeks you continue to see effects and growing. The other thing is it develops in areas where you may have not gained before....I happen to be a muscle chub build with a big ball gut when I was intentionally gaining but the HC made me gain in my butt, hips and back like never before.....as well as making a lower soft layer of Fat on my bottom belly or under belly. Still today i have much softer Fat on my lower belly now. Women I am sure get really soft Fat eventually with the HC gaining.

This is pretty damn hot...I never thought about it like that....but it is pretty arousong!

That is pretty insightful. I knew a few girls in high school that were beautiful and ended up gaining a lot of weight....probably in the 250-280 lb. range.

I thought it was interesting that you mentioned “blissfully aware”....you must have had a lot of fiends and we’re pretty cool and self confident (which I would assume was the case). I am sure you had your overwhelming male attention even then. I honestly believe there were other guys that liked heavier prettier girls even back then that were to imitate to admit it. It would be great to hear a few stories of guys that you could tell that were like that.

Yea....I like pregnancy...and when my wife was pregnant and gaining three times in a row....it was very intimate and sexy.

Even better was after she delivered all our babies/kids.....she maintained her big appetite and started gaining more weight even a year plus after....and that was even better having her get bigger, softer and fatter