Getting in the way is probably the best part of it. It shocks you and than as a full on FA and into weight gain it makes you want to get it bigger.

I remember the first time I realized my gut had become pretty big was when I went to go I. For a kiss from my wife and as we got closer to touching lips my gut pushed her back....and from that point t on she had to place her hands around my neck to pull herself in so my gut wouldn’t bump her away so we could touch lips. It was a Wow moment....she happens to be almost a foot shorter than myself so as I began to get even a bigger gut she would place one hand on my gut and the other stretched to reach around my neck to hold a long embrace for a kiss.

Truly the struggle of having a ball gut get in the way of your loved one is the sexiest thing......and two big guts in the way is even more arousing.

When I intentionally gained and mine was at its biggest.....I definitely loved it.

It definitely got in the way of so many things....it literally was like a big beach ball sitting out in front of me. Just tieing my shoes as someone already mentioned takes your breath away....I would have to sit and lift me leg up while sitting down with a lot of effort to try and tie them. Not even seeing your toes is a pretty big turn on as well. When you go to pick something up that falls you tend to bump your butt into something else feeling a little clumsy ....just from simply having the huge beach ball gut sticking out In front of you and not realizing you need more room to maneuver. Probably the sexiest for me was the struggles having sex with my new huge ball gut getting In the way.....my wife seemed to love it so it sex was almost an everyday occurrence during this time....I would love the way during sex she would say literally while we were trying to position ourselves and have full penetration ....she would say your belly is to big and getting in the way....move this way a bit while she would hold and move my big gut out of the way to fit better.

Yea....people won’t really get it till the extent of how it makes us tick and is the main focus of arousal at times. For example several of my long time friends have known for a while that I like thicker girls / women back in the day.....and that if they saw one when I was single they would point me in the direction....little did they know I was looking at the one they pointed out as being skinny and that I really liked the beautiful Fat girl beside her at times. Not to mention that they knew I find total arousal and desire in watching them fatten up while I am with them.....and to way heavier amounts than they would ever think. Do I feel it n cessation to tell them exactly...NO. With all that said my wife knows and even all my past girlfriends that I loved them gaining weight but I do t think any of them including my wife would ever think I would love for her to get to 300 lbs. or more. This becomes more of a touchy subject and kind of leave it for if it ever comes close to happening addressing it then....that I love it so much....otherwise I am happy with what gaining g she does by over eating.

Now ....you will find yourself stuffing and eating more often that you can see the reactions and evidence. It will become like a double edge sword.....seeing yourself fatter will make you want to eat more to gain even faster and eventually you will need so much more to eat.....you will get much fatter with this being the real starting point.

I am 6’ 2” and have mostly gravitated to all my serious girlfriends in this order:

5’ 2”
5’ 3”
5’ 1”
5’ 7”

My wife is 5’ 3”.......so I generally go for shorter girls back in the day and women now.....but I guess it just worked out that way. I tend to look at body type more than anything usually.

Yea....I have definitely never heard a story about a guy that was was so far off base....I mean he was into anorexics yet he was dating a full figured woman. I don't know all the details but I can tell you my personal perspective.

I have always been an athletic type guy every time I dated any of my girlfriends when I was younger my friends would always tell me they were really pretty but could stand to lose some weight. These used to be girls that I continually b=visioned them being way heavier than they currently were.....because i considered them just normal and wanted them to gain weight. As the years have gone on my interest in more and more weight on the women I find most attractive has gone way up in Lbs. and Fat.

I personally have always like heavier girls and as time has gone on prefer more and more weight on them.

So in summary I think you had a very confused guy......I would never find interest in a physical relationship if I was not attracted to the woman physically and that usually requires them to be overweight and Fat.....so I feel as though you were lead on or he didn't know how to communicate this to you early on. But I know for myself and most all the other guys on here......definitely love heavier Fatter women....and there is no way denying that at all.

Ok....well there are so many things about a Fat girl/woman that is so appealing. The fact that there are no sharp corners everything rounded even the face....and the larger the rounding I seem to like better. The belly, love handles, hips, thunder thighs.....fat upper arms...big breasts....everything seems to get better with more fat and rounding.....not to mention feminine movements seem much sexier with heavier weight and fat. The next thing I will relate directly to my wife....as she starts to get heavier I notice she starts eating more and she becomes way greedier with her snacking....it is so sexy to see that when ever she has a spare moment and turns on the TV she usually settles in with some sort of food or snack while watching which is not only sexy but I know will add to all her feminine curves and make her fatter. I really love it when her appetite gets so big she is eating as much as I am....and I can eat! Then noticing her enthusiasm and excitement before a meal is very cute.....and that’s when I know she will start packing on some extra weight.

As far as body parts Belly, Breasts, butt & thighs are all the typical ones that I love......but I really like fatter upper arms, massive love handles & a really big lower belly. There are just to many to list.

That is a good point above ...I guess there are several things that can be considered as secretly fattening someone up.

Secretly adding fattening stuff while cooking to increase calories.

Serving your partner more and more at meals until they begin to need that much more to be satisfied.

Serving them on new larger plates and bowls....and the begin to eat way larger portions all the time.

On a different note even though not verbally discussing letting them feed you that much more all the time and buying you fattening things.....and the end result is you get fat and can kind of blame it on them for you getting Fat....even though you were kind of aware as this was going on.

I was buying my wife all her favorite snacks and ice cream stocking the pantry and freezer weekly in hopes she would start gaining a bunch of weight again. She yah led me for all her favorites....and when i would buy obnoxious amounts ....say 8 pints of Ben n Jerry’s, 6 boxes of cookies....chocolates galore.....she would thank me and not ebbed comment on how much I bought. This went on for a month or so...and she started to show some signs of all the extra snacking but nearly as much as I thought. I all of a sudden noticed I was snacking along with her and developed a noticeable size gut. I liked it and decided to intentionally gain to see how big of a gut I could get....mostly to have my wife comment, tease or even scold me for getting such a big fat gut. I was gaining quickly and looking as if I was 6 months pregnant and then 8 months and then overdue....by this time my wife mentioned nothing....she just was making and feeding me more fattening dishes and loading my plate with seconds and sometimes thrived a before I even finished my other plate. She continued gaining also but she and I both were turning me into a very Fat husband which she seemed to be severely doing she thought ......or was it just the none discussion of it all that was the perceived secret feeding.....we were both gaining and getting bigger ....myself more than her....but no discussion about it.....she could blame me and I could blame her if it came down to it.....was his what she liked for the first time I have seen with her......I was clearly at the heaviest I had ever been and had a gut that sick way out in front of me....where she was almost as fat as she had ever been and seems to enjoy the fact that she made me Fat and that I made her Fat all of a sudden.

I mean with my wife I don’t verbally encourage her anymore....I merely stock her favorite sweets in the pantry and freezer and make sure when I cook I serve her big portions and take her out to dinners a lot. As her appetite increases she tends to eat a lot more....and always snacks and eats ice cream. She usually gains when her appetite at meals increases.....also she tends to not be as concerned with what she eats....we usually go to some good restaurants but she will choose a fattening loaded flat bread pizza or a juicy fattening burger. Meals become not only an exciting part for us but she enjoys eating and consuming plenty of fattening ice cream or desert almost every night.

I agree with you though in the past I have subconsciously sabotaged any attempts she had to control her appetite....because I never wanted her to lose any...I would buy her favorites to tempt her or continue night after night taking her to her favorite places for dinner.....I have always wanted her to gain more and more weight and be happy eating and enjoying herself....which by the way she is always happier not denying herself all her favorites. In the last year and a half she has seemed to give up on trying to control her appetite or making an attempt at losing weight.....she has steadily been stuffing herself and gaining fast at first and then now slow and steady.

I almost think she has got to a stage where she likes her heavier figure and it doesn’t hurt that guys check her out all the time....and she has given up trying to deny herself food when she knows if she does lose weight she usually gains it back.

Great topic and question....I will have to get back when I have more time to be very detailed.