Your stuffing fantasy

girlstuffsgirl wrote:
lesbianasexualstuffer wrote:
holy shit I got a little carried away there... sorry for filling up the page!! :o


My god, you write well!


Agreed.

*rushing to lesbiansexualstuffer's profile to see if she has written any stories*
10 years

Your kinkiest fantasy

I love this notion very much! What a delightful fantasy....

ScrumptuousSarah wrote:
My kinkiest fantasy is a feeding one combined with a psychological one.

I think that I'd be into a situation of not just simple sub, but total control. Like if I met someone who slowly fattened me up and fed me, making me huger and huger, but at the same time started doing more and more things for me and keeping me on a bed more and more until I'm just so dependent on them... A point where I literally couldn't survive without them, and they have total control over me like I'm just a toy to them. I want to be trained to react to food, and have my will and choice taken from me... I would be force fed until I couldn't even get up or flip myself over, and my internet and phone would be taken away so I couldn't call for help if I wanted to stop. I want to be totally enslaved to someone, and as I eat and eat they would slowly break my spirit and drain me of my personality and free thought... To become just a mindless blob, an eager-to-please pet. Fed and dominated to the point where I'm no longer a person, just a drooling, stuffed lump of rippling blubber...

So yeah... I'm into REALLY extreme submission.
10 years

Encouraging submission?

I agree with this idea about showing him your stories. That way, you expose a bit of yourself and your fantasies for him to play against.

I also think that exploring his weaknesses makes sense. While he might not mind the weight gain, and he might seem very confident, is there anyone who he might feel embarrassed around regarding getting fatter -- perhaps a co-worker, an ex-girlfriend, family members, friends?

Also, is there a favorite thing of his which you can control? Sex, of course, comes to mind, but that is the obvious one. Maybe even telling him he can't play computer games or watch football (how sexist I sound!) until he eats or gains a certain amount. This way, you create a bit of roleplay which puts him in a sub position of pleasing you in order to get what he wants.

The other idea is to find something he dislikes and threaten punishment if he fails to meet your expectations. Again, being I am being sexist, but, for example, he has to attend the chick flick of the week with you (or concert or opera or get his haircut in a style of your choice, or let you choose his clothes to wear) unless he meets whatever random goal you set.

I know this all seems a bit simplistic (expecially with my examples here, sorry), but I am sure you can come up with something very fun and interesting in order to challenge his sense of security, self-esteeem and comfort.


fatrnfatr wrote:
junepearl wrote:
I have a great feedee who is fantastic about eating everything I suggest (and more)...he's just not a submissive person.


A feedee can be in charge in the world and still be submissive to the feeder in terms of food and sexuality in the privacy of the bedroom. My best advice is to explore his feedee tendancies to find what can turn both of you on. Have you shown him your stories? Might be a conversation starter. Best of luck....
10 years

Humilating men by feminizing

Love this thread! Very interesting how many are into something like this.

I remember some time ago, chatting with a woman who had finally "come out of the closet," so to speak, and had openly started dating and bedding a fat man -- which had always been her fantasy, but she had restrained herself because of what friends/family would say.

She was bi, and I'll never forget what she said about the first time having sex with him (she's always only been with slender men):

"It is so wonderful! Like f*cking a big fat woman who has a d*ck!"

By the way, this is a fantasy of mine also (from male perspective), the notion of growing weaker and more unfit and more submissive as well as more feminine (curves, boobs, hips) is quite enthralling.

junepearl wrote:
"They become more tearful like real girls and can only be consoled with a chocolate bar."

LMAO, you're hilarious.
10 years

Gluttony is no sin!

AskDrFeeder wrote:
Jerry Falwell was a pretty fat guy...I reckon he knew at least one glutton and saw him in the mirror every day.


As always, Doc, I love your sense of irony!
10 years

Gluttony is no sin!

In many of the stories I write (and in many of my fantasies), I make gluttony out to be more than a little sinful.

And isn't that part of the fun of all this -- to enjoy the good feelings of being so ba-a-a-a-a-ad!

Many Christians, though, look down upon us gluttons (and those who enjoy gluttons' bodies) as children of the devil or something just too horrible to contemplate. This is nothing more than fat hatred -- and an inability to have fun or let others have fun.

Many fat-haters will recount that gluttony is considered one of the "Seven Deadly Sins". In reality, though, I think gluttony is not a sin at all. In fact, it may be a virtue.

A few excerpts from a 2003 article on gluttony as a sin (I have put my comments in parentheses):

According to a 1998 Purdue University study, obesity is associated with higher levels of religious participation. Broken down by creed, Southern Baptists have the highest body-mass index on average, Catholics are in the middle, and Jews and other non-Christians are the lowest. When this finding was brought to the attention of the Reverend Jerry Falwell, he was unperturbed. "I know gluttony is a bad thing," Falwell said. "But I don't know many gluttons." That is one way out of the dilemma -- to deny that overweight people are necessarily sinful gluttons. But it could also be that gluttony is not really a sin.

. . . Nor is the idea that gastronomic indulgence is an outrage against the divine order to be found in the Bible. In "Gluttony," the latest in a series of short books on the seven deadly sins published by the Oxford University Press, Francine Prose observes that most of the feasting in both the Hebrew Bible and the New Testament "is, as it should be, celebratory, unclouded by guilt, regret or remorse."

It was not until the sixth century that Pope Gregory the Great classified gluttony -- along with pride, greed, lust, envy, anger, and sloth -- as one of the gravest perils to the soul.


(Growinluvhandles: See, nothing in Jesus's teachings about gluttony; it was a Catholic pope six centuries after Jesus who declared this. If you want to consider gluttony a sin, go worship Pope Gregory.)

St. Thomas Aquinas -- a hefty fellow himself, as it happens -- declared that gluttony had "six daughters": "excessive and unseemly joy" are the first two, followed by "loutishness, uncleanness, talkativeness, and an uncomprehending dullness of mind." Others have claimed that gluttony paves the way to lechery. "When the belly is full to bursting with food and drink, debauchery knocks at the door," wrote the medieval German monk Thomas a Kempis.

(Growinluvhandles: Yeah, he got this right. There's nothing like a full belly to put me "in the mood".)

Thus our expanding national girth is more a matter of economic forces than of moral failure. Yet, as Prose observes, many obese Americans still view their condition in terms of guilt and punishment. Those on group diets like Weight Watchers are especially prone to use religious language -- "sinner," "saint," "confession," "absolution" -- to describe their struggle. Perhaps we have not come so far from the sixth-century worldview of Pope Gregory the Great.

(Growinluvhandles: And of course, in modern America -- and particularly during this economic decline -- the obese and specifically the obese poor make easy targets for those who conjure up hatred. May all those who espouse such hate on their plump fellow sisters and brothers, may they be thrown into the lake of fire for eternity! No, I cannot be that cruel even to them. May these fat-haters at least have an afterlife where they learn to enjoy large quantities of heavenly food without guilt. And may they grow into such fat angels that they can no longer fly.)

Here is the link to the entire article from the Boston Globe:

boston.com/news/globe/ideas/articles/2003/11/23/the_deadliest_sin/

In conclusion, I say, "Grab some love handles, grab some deliciously fattening food, and enjoy this life to the fullest!" May our afterlives be even more heavenly!
10 years

Are there any christians here?

I have found this all so very interesting. I am an Episcopalian, and we know well the pleasures of food and feasting (at least in my church). I am starting a new related thread on all this: "Gluttony is no sin!"
10 years

A good article about gaining

OnyxStar wrote:
Its no secret that more and more people are becoming familiar with our little neck of the woods. This article is actually good and unbiased. I like this
www.vocativ.com/underworld/sex/stuffers-pack-pounds-satisfy-sexual-desires[/quote]

I had never seen this before! What a wonderful article! Thanks for bringing it to our attention!
10 years

Who are the doms and who are the subs?

88orangez wrote:
Switch. I like to see what any situation needs and behave accordingly. Much appreciation for any Dom who is strong, smart, and on-the-ball enough to make me mind my P's and Q's.


I feel much the same. You express this so well in so few words!

I would love anyone interested in this topic to check out my story "The Switch". Let me know what you think, if it seems right or if there are any problems with it!

This is an area I have yet to explore in real life, but my imagination runs wild with it!
10 years