My wife also enjoys food a lot and has the biggest sweet tooth. In fact she sometimes sacrifces eating all her meal just so she has room for desert.

She tends to feel sick if she over eats or eats to much. But what I have found out is that she needs to slowly increase her food intake and amount she eats over a lengthy period of time and then after a long while she is not only eating double the amount at meals but still having room for deserts and most of the time multiple deserts. It's all about stretching out the stomach to not have that discomfort or full feeling. Once her stomach is stretched out is when she really starts to put on weight.....and at this stage it is hard to eat to much less than what the stomach wants and is used to. It's the same as when the stomach is not stretched it is hard to increase how much you eat and it is easy to keep the weight off or from piling on. My wife doesn't want or try to put on weight....her appetite just increases over various times of the year and she can't hold back piling on some weight.

From my experience though the best way to make someone or yourself a bottomless pit if they are willing. Stuff yourself with food you like and fattening stuff always allowing maximum carbs and sugar.....then what I found was the real secret....once you feel so stuffed from eating in the day......drink several milkshakes or you may even want to start with just several big glasses of milk. For me it is easy to get down even after I feel I couldn't eat another bite.....inn fact it actually settles my stomach a bit and you will have the biggest bloated belly you could imagine. It's definitely something you have to be determined to do......and after 2 weeks I guarantee your appetite will increase at least double if not triple. After the next couple weeks you are not even thinking about trying to eat more .....you will actually just NEED to eat more because your stretched stomach will require it....and you will get hunger pangs if you don't eat as much or more than what your stomach is used to now. I got to a stage after this stuffing all the time....that even though I had been eating all day huge amounts I would come home for diner and my wife would make an amazing home made Lasagna and have the hugest plate laid in front of me for dinner.....I wasn't even hungry in the slightest but the minute I started eating I just kept bringing fork full after fork full to my mouth and before I knew it I had three huge helpings. This is at the point where one can really get Fat.

Recap: I would say in the first few weeks after one is completely full from eating at the end of the day to consume dairy liquids...this will help stretch the stomach and if always done continue to stretch. If one can't consume dairy lot's of water at the end of the day of stuffing will help stretch stomach but just won't add the extra calories at the same time.

Great description! I was wondering my wife and I have never been on a cruise.....I have heard that most people gain a bunch of weight while on them.....but you bring a new thought to me. Even after the cruise with all the over eating it will continue after you get home because your appetite will increase so much. It would be really cool to see my wife come back from a long cruise knowing she gained a bunch of weight and thinking....Ok ...I will go on a few walks and lose some of this weight in a few weeks to a month but the reality is her appetite will be so much bigger that the Lbs. she gained on the cruise will actual double or triple in a a few months after.

How much do you think someone could gain on a longer cruise 10-15 days?

How long was the one you were on that jump started your weight gain?

I have heard....don't know if they are tall tales....but on a longer cruise.... a woman not even fitting into the same clothes she brought on the cruise....not even being able to get them on as toward the end of the cruise and needing to buy bigger clothes on the cruise ship....just wondering your thoughts....if that could be true?

Some say some male feedees were originally frustrated male feeders who couldn't find someone to share it with.
Mutual gaining/fattening is an even deeper niche.



This is what kind of happened to me. My wife is a foodie and loves sweets......she tends to gain from this alone if she doesn't workout or otherwise try to contain her eating. Working out gives her the license to eat what she wants and sometimes get a bit out of control (which I love).
WHen she doesn't workout and her appetite takes over she can pack on the lbs. pretty quickly other maintain a curvier softer figure with working out.
After 3 pregnancies back to back to back.....she blew up nicely becoming what I envision as my dream girl..."ex cheerleader with a Beautiful face, shorter at 5' 3" great voluptuous body that gets Fat. That's basically what she became and I was so content and happy. While it did take her several years to lose the weight but kept some.....I all of a sudden craved for her to be back to her heaviest weight....if not just to gain a little more again. This would happen in 5-10 Lb. increments and then her lose it again for the next several years. I accidentally put on a belly myself and developed a sweet tooth out of no where and when I finally noticed my own gain decided to intentionally gain to see how big I could get.....and I was interested in my wife teasing me, scolding me or discussing how Fat I had gotten. I do believe that I had this interest because of the void of weight gain with my wife. Crazy thing was as I was intentionally stuffing and bloating myself all day for several weeks with tons of calories and fattening foods I would come home looking 6-7 months pregnant and not a single peep from my wife. This drove me to increase my efforts since she seemed to not even notice. After about a month and stuffing myself all day with massive amounts of food, snacks and deserts I would come home and my wife would have a massive portion of a fattening meal of lasagna or the like....an before I would even be finished she would grab my plate and plop on seconds that were usually even bigger than the first massive plate full. This was kind of a struggle for me because I had been stuffing all day and didn't even feel hungry but I wanted so much to get a reaction or comment from her I persisted through and finished everything. This behavior continued both on my part and hers...she would stuff me with fattening dinners and always refill my plate before I could say no and then after my second plate was about to be cleared she would come over with the pot or pan and say just finish the rest of this off so we don't have left overs and it would usually be like a whole third massive plate. She also would then bring over a huge bowl of ice cream as I resided to the couch where we would settle in and watch television munching away. The great thing was that I only picked up over time was because I was so concentrated on my eating and gaining all of a sudden and trying to show her what a Fat pig I have become to get some remarks or teasing from her......was that she was also eating seconds and enjoying pints of Ben n jerrys almost every night and she was gaining as well.....although she wasn't gaining nearly as much as I was because I was doing this all day and all night.

So ....this kind of sealed the fact that a Mutual Gaining relationship was my ideal.....even though we didn't verbally discuss it like a fetish. I was the one intentionally gaining and I think she thought she was being a good wife and fattening up her man. Sex was absolutely the best ever and her hands always seemed to find a way to rest and touch my massive "Muscle Chub Gut" that looked like it was 15 months pregnant by this point.

Very true.....definitely!

I appreciate your response. It seems there are so many differences and similarity's with regard to this Fetish (Desires, appetite, how easily or fast one gains, how much one appreciates on themselves or others etc. etc.)

The fatter my wife gets....I just keep loving giving her oral more and more.

Her puffy FUPA now and her huge belly crease with her slightly hanging soft Gut to move out of the way jiggling with her huge soft thunder thighs spread and bouncing with ecstasy as I slowly lick and then rythmically speed up.....Her fatter outer lips swell even more as she gets closer to orgasm....and then finally explodes sending gyrations and ripples through her Fattened soft belly and thighs and she remains breathing heavy for many minutes.

This is almost a pre requisite before intercourse as she comes over after her shower and gets into bed with the intoxicating aroma of Dove Soap permeating off of her skin and filling the room as she then looks at me as she climbs naked into bed and seductively spreads her massive thighs for me to assume position.

This is a Great question:

Talking about and showing how big you want to get for him....while being on top of him cow girl you can show with your hands how big you want your belly, butt and hips to get for him. You can use a soft but serious voice and then ask him if he would like that and then hold his hands and help him show you how big he would like for your belly to get with your hands still on his. Gently ask him won't I be to big and heavy for you at that size? I am sure he will say NO...and be completely brick hard....and then say "I will be so heavy and big and Fat you will be my prisoner underneath me and you won't be able to even move and I will just keep making love to you all night....and if you complain that I am to heavy I will bounce up and down more and more until I am so out of breath because I will be your huge Fatty and so out of shape and then just lay on top of you where you feel all of my luscious skin and Fat engulfing you and breathing so heavily.

Whoops...I may have got kind of carried away....but this would work on me every time. Also...this kind of seducing with weight gain talk is so Hot.

I enjoyed your candid post on all levels. I was wondering because it is always funny to me outside of this website and community how people that have gained a bunch of weight or that are heavier say they don't even eat that much or they eat very healthy and so much less than people that are skinny. Now I have gained weight intentionally a couple of times and my wife gains mostly because she adores food and Loves sweets. I can almost tell when my wife is going to gain a good amount of weight because I see her appetite increase for a week to two weeks and I know 10-15+ Lbs. will surely show up in another week. Sometimes her appetite continues like this for longer periods and she starts to really pack on the Lbs. For myself I was intentionally gaining and as I was stuffing myself for the first 2 weeks I had to make much effort to continue to keep going and keep adding more food......most of it was really fattening food and deserts and sweets (which I never had a sweet tooth before this). After a couple of weeks I didn't even need to try and force feed it was like I needed so much more food to even feel full....and I craved deserts and sweets after every meal all of a sudden. As I continued I basically got to a point where I never really got full anymore....or even if I didn't feel hungry if my wife put a plate of food in front of me I could just keep eating and eating.

Tell us a little about how your appetite has increased as you have gained at certain stages r has it been after a certain weight you just can eat way more now and require so much more to get full....or where you like me with not really ever getting full and can just keep eating. I think in my case the forced stuffing really did a number on my stomach and appetite changes.

Yes...just like most have replied...I have had this desire and fetish since I was young. I remember liking the chubbier girls in elementary school with the pretty faces. They were all just a little chubby as far as their arms and faces and little fuller belly than all the skinny girls. I was on a family vacation at around 9-10 yrs. old and I remember seeing a mother that had on really tight jean shorts that were short and her thighs were Tan, really Fat and riddles with cellulite and I really liked it. About the same time over summer I was at the beach with a friend of mine and I had never met his Mother which drove us and stayed with both of our families at the beach and as she took off her large sundress she was in a gold one piece bikini and she was Big and Fat with the hugest thighs, butt, belly and breasts and I couldn't stop starring and I was totally turned on and fascinated by how she looked......and I specifically remember how she struggled to move all her extra weight walking in the sand and how she seem to jiggle and bounce and I was addicted with the fascination of all her Fat.

As I have grown up so has the interest in more and more weight on my girlfriends and now wife and basically on what really turns me on. Weight Gain is a very big fetish for me.....not just the Fat itself....seeing the changes in so many ways. The changes of all the extra weight with movements, how much more my wife eats as she is getting heavier, the more vulnerable care free attitude and even the loss of control with eating is so appealing and arousing. Also, the weight gain fetish has grown in other areas of my life.....a couple times I intentionally gained and became very aroused by it almost as much as witnessing my wife fattening up before my eyes....I guess part of that was I was actually able to do something about it to accelerate it faster by stuffing myself....where as my wife doesn't try to gain she just over indulges for periods and loses control of her appetite and tends to pack on some Lbs. fairly quickly.

I am not sure but have read many things about why we may have this fetish....but I think what is interesting to me is how much this fetish varies upon individuals. Some may like fat on themselves and not others and vise versa, some may like it on both.....and some the fetish can change and add more into ones life as they get older. I mean....if someone would have told me when I was in High School when I considered a 5' 3" girl/woman at 150+ Lbs. to be Fat and my ideal......and then today which my wife is 5' 3" and I would love to see her weigh 300 Lbs. or even 350 Lbs. I would have never imagined that. Not to mention would I have ever thought I would have enjoyed myself growing a big Gut a couple times.

Also.....I tend to wonder where my wife is concerned....based on what someone else mentioned above about this fetish. She happened to be a chunky and overweight kid.....and all her relatives and parents friends would always tell her she would be so Beautiful if she lost weight. She never told me any of this until after we were dating for a while and I mentioned to her that I wouldn't mind at all if she gained weight and encouraged her to eat big meals and allow herself her favorite treats and deserts. That was when she said she worked really hard her junior year in High school to slim down because she was a Fat kid and got even fatter when she first started High School. So she has always seemed to enjoy her food and definitely her sweets but doesn't like it when she starts to gain a little to much weight. Fortunately for me that attitude has subsided a lot over the years and what she considers Fat on herself before is like 40-50 Lb difference than she use to. But what really got me thinking is when I was intentionally fattening myself which added 40+ Lbs. to mainly my Gut in only 4 months she seemed to be really into it and turned on......so I feel like she does have a hidden desire for weight gain mostly on me but even a little bit on herself at times......not to mention she seemed to try and feed me fatter without ever mentioned how big I had gotten...only a couple of times when she was slightly intoxicated....and in an soft teasing endearing way. So there are so many differences to this fetish and how open everyone is about it.

A while back my wife was on one of her unintentional gaining patterns and she seemed to keep gaining for much longer than she usually does. We often make love with her on top quite a bit....but like you for some reason over the last several months we were in other positions.

Oe night after she got out of the shower and cam to bed she climbed on top of me....and the first thing I clearly noticed was how much heavier she felt when she settled on top of me not to mention all of her warm soft Fat flesh engulfing me.....as she slowly slid me in she started slowly thrusting I was brick hard and her moaning made her thrust slightly faster and shortly after she became very out of breath and even started to sweat which she doesn't typically do. With every heavy thrust her fat soft belly would slap into mine and her big thighs and ass would jiggle so heavily and sexy. Just a few more moments went by and she was even much more sweaty and breathing even heavier. She suddenly stopped and braced herself with her arms on the head board above me with her huge breasts right in my face smelling like sexy bath soap. As she rested....trying to catch her breath....I asked her why she was stopping.....and she said...."your Fatty wife is to out of shape to keep going and needs a break". Hearing this drove me crazy with arousal and as she started thrusting agin and breathing and panting heavily it kept turning me on more an more......until we both came and she rolled off breathing like she just ran a marathon I watched her massive breasts jiggling with each heavy breath and her now huge soft belly going up and down rippling with each deep breath.

It was pretty sexy seeing how out of shape she had became during sex and the fact that she noticed it and expressed it to me drove me to all new arousal levels.