A great Muffin Maid video comes to mind as I read this question. I can’t seem to find it anywhere now.... if someone may now and can give us a link to it.

This is very true. My wife would gain and lose the same 10-15 lbs. always regain just a little bit more forever early in our marriage. At times she would gain even more and then lose it.....now not even being ultra heavy ....but she has stopped dieting or trying to lose.....she has a soft but protruding hanging slight apron belly. I agree that this is a sure fire way accumulate soft fat in your belly.

When I intentionally gained I put on a house distended bloated gut ....but years afte I lost weight my stomach has much softer fat ....even when I would start to gain and get a bigger belly again it tended to be softer ....especially lower down. Genetically one may never get a hanging soft belly that is blueberry but the above mentioned will aid in the process of getting it there.

The thread heading "accidentally Fatter" had me thinking you were going to touch on a little bit of a different topic. More like how can one accidentally be fatter and not realize or something to that effect.

So I will try and touch on that as well as what you are talking about. I had been thin and then sinewy muscular but still thin my whole life ....couldn't gain weight....tried everything weight gainers while playing football etc. but still was thin. I graduated college and had more muscle but couldn't really bulk up in any way and considered myself thin still. So I lived with my girlfriend at the time ...had my first corporate desk job, wasn't playing sports and was watching my girlfriend blow up before my eyes making us some great carb loaded dinners .....and as I cam home one evening to see my girlfriend sad....I asked her what was the matter as I pulled her in for a hug....she said "I had my annual check up today and was scolded by my Gyno for gaining so much weight.....I have gotten so Fat" I was aroused and consoled her even more telling her she was more Beautiful than ever....because she was....That is when she said "should we go on a diet" I said "Huh" as if I heard her wrong and probably had a weird look on my face.....she then said "You don't even realize you have gotten big also". Ok now I was in a little bit of shock but then even more aroused hearing my sexy Fat ass girlfriend say we were both Fat......this was an absolute first for me. So I had always thought of myself as thin and didn't even recognize that i had gained so much weight with her.....and I was also to busy admiring her gaining....I know it is hard to believe but ask someone that could never gain weight and then all of a sudden did.....they still view themselves as thin and can't believe it. I guess it is like a Girl who grows up being heavy and even later in life she thins out she still views herself as heavy....it's kind of a mental thing......and changing perception.

So enough of that....touching on your point....there or so many variables (people) on this site from age, metabolism, busy , not busy the list goes on.
I can certainly sympothize with someone who wants to gain weight and can't first hand from back in the day.....but also as especially as a few years ago can understand the other side of things being able to gain easily once you have created your body to do so or for someone that is prone to gain really easily.

So for you......you seem to be lucky that it is so easy for you to gain without even trying. Possibly you can give some advice of your daily eating and activity to some of the less fortunate gainers on here.....because it isn't easy for them.

I say if they want to gain....stuff themselves with carbs and sugars, and when fully stuffed from eating at the end of the night drink several glasses of heavy Cream, Milk or water to stretch out your stomach....and after several weeks you will have stretched out your stomach enough that you won't get that sick feeling and you will notice yourself eating so much more without really trying. It's all in stretching out the stomach to be able to become a bottomless pit. It does take a lot of effort and work for 2-3 weeks but after that it gets easier and then after several months if you maintain that end f the night habit YOU WILL BECOME FAT! I think you are at this stage 2zerozero....am I correct?

My wife is visiting her cousin tomorrow night for dinner. I am not going to be there because I have a work function so I am anxiously waiting to here about the evening.

I have always suspected her Husband was a Feeder and they had that arranged in their relationship even before they were married and dating. Her cousin is probably 5' 6" tall and used to be around 140-145 Lbs. before they got together. Definitely thinner than my wife because her cousin was taller for similar weights. When my wife and I first met him which was probably 6 months since we had seen her cousin last we all went out to dinner together....when they got to our house my jaw almost hit the ground when my wife welcomed them in and I saw them in the kitchen.....she was easily 190+ Lbs. huge belly, breasts and even her face was big and round almost unrecognizable from the time I saw her just six months ago.

So we all greeted each other and I felt kind of uncomfortable giving my wife's cousin a hug knowing how fat she had gotten....and I don't know why I just felt a bit awkward knowing I like weight gain so much.....as I did she had the softest yet endearing warmest hug the type where everything is pressed into you (squishing into you) and she held the embrace for a while. You know how at the grammy's there are professional seat savers???? Well she was a professional hugger. As she introduced us to her Boyfriend he was nice and my wife went out of her way to be super friendly and family oriented.....he was 5' 9 ish skinnier with a thin beard...seemed normal enough.

When we got to dinner and were ordering he took the liberty to read the menu and decide for them both after conversing with her a bit about what they were going to order. Not all that strange but different than I do it (maybe I am doimg something wrong) ...she seemed almost unconcerned what she wanted more so engaged in conversation with my wife. We all ordered and he ordered an appetizer for each of them and entrees and beers. During this stage of our marriage my wife was probably 135-140 Lbs. and didn't have the appetite she has now although she still had her sweet tooth. They plowed through the dinner with him mostly putting more of both of the appetizers on her plate and even making her try some of his meal multiple times.....she even would from time to time take her fork and eat off of his plate.....although he never did this to hers. She basically finished bi=oth appetizers, half of his entree & She absolutely cleaned her plate. Both of the girls ordered desert and plowed through it quickly not leaving a spec on their plates.

After we got back to our house and they left and I sat there for a minute hanging with my wife before we went upstairs......I didn't say anything and she didn't bring anything up but I so wanted to start the discussion somehow....not knowing how it developed .....but my wife brought up something about her cousin enjoying her boyfriend's meal (in a funny way) something like "she seemed to enjoy her meal and his too"....I chuckled and said "I noticed that to....and he seemed to put all of the appetizers on her plate also".....my wife cracked up and said ....Wow I barely recognized her when she walked in. I didn't really expand but I thought the same and that doesn't usually happen to me but she changed so much especially in her face......it was like the kind of weight gained that is super fast from stuffing like crazy..........and my wife said "but I don't want to be mean ...I love my Cuz.

So....we haven't seen them in several years but my curiosity is not with her so much because after they were married for several years they moved away and then moved back closer a little closer to us and when we got together she was well over 300 Lbs.....so I kind of to myself knew he was a feeder or at least a bIg time FA into weight gain. But the crazier thing was he know was easily a good 50-60 lbs. heavier than he was sporting i big belly out in front of him and a chubbier face and thicker beard now. So silently I have always been intrigued by their relationship. It will be interesting to hear from my wife.....she is meeting them at their house and they are going out to dinner.

Judging by the last time I saw them both maybe I should have my wife move in with them for 3 months.....they seem to turn out pretty good work over there. I will save that Fantasy for another post.....but I was giving some serious thought to it. So, I am actually more curious about her husband because I am sure my wife won't even be able to tell much of a gain from her cousin from last time because she was already pretty heavy.....but I have a sneaky feeling that he might have gotten pretty big.....especially known what I know now after a few years ago when I tried out my little stint at gaining......and seeing how my wife kept eating and gaining and we got in such a routine together and it seems like they were fully into it from the start. I

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How about Golden Corral? (they're opening one up on my neighborhood where Hometown Buffet used to be!!!)[/quote]


My wife is kind of picky when she doesn't like a place. I used to try and get her to go to a chain restaurant called Red Lobster.....they have the most amazing Fattening rolls that they bring out endless in a basket and they have all types of sea food.....she didn't like it. She definitely doesn't like Hometown buffet......but I have a good story about that place. My friend's wife was skinny when we they met and even when I met her....years after their marriage still tall and skinny.....one day i saw her she looked to be gaining a bit of weight.....my friend told me later nothing about her weight but said they are going to Hometown Buffet for dinner and that is her favorite restaurant and that they go there 2-3 times a week. He is a tall guy... muscular....we used to work out together a long time ago.......I don't see them all that much but being that we all have families now.....well i saw him probably a year later and he was over 300 Lbs. I said he was going to work out with a private trainer....this coming from a guy who we all use to work out together and no our way around training and the gym....I said really.....he said well it's Jen's Trainer and we are doing a combo session. I said when did she get into working out so much......he said after she weighs as much as I do.

So believe me I know Hometown buffet and the like can do some serious good for all of us in this world.

I agree with many things that have been on this thread but up until Allfatthings wrote this....that was kind of what I was thinking while reading through the other posts.

I mean if my wife was a Feedee....yes that would kind of be the perfect situation I guess.....but things don't really work out that perfectly. Have there been times where I wished it was like that.......YES. But I have become more creative and may get just as turned on or aroused by watching my wife over eating continually and not because she is trying to but because she is turning into a greedy little pig and she can't control her appetite....which is very sexy to me.... then if she was a feedee and telling me to feed her and having it more like a script and trying to gain for me. Granted I do need her to be gaining weight or at least eating a lot and not dieting.....which she did diet many years ago.....she would gain 10-15 Lbs. and it would excite me a bit more than usual and she would get frustrated and then diet. It wasn't about me....it was about society making her feel bad and guilty....even though I felt like she should be more relaxed and not care so much knowing that I loved her gaining anyways. But time changes things and it did for us in many ways.....in fact it has me scratching my head sometimes to thinking she has this fetish to a degree with me being the Feedee.....and only when I started putting on a Gut is when this was discovered. What I have found out in our relationship is I buy at the store her favorite food and snacks and keep them around and she will eat them and Thank me but at times she won't buy them for herself....but if I do it she will feel in some weird way it is ok....kind of like.... put the guilt on me that I made her gain weight and get Fat.....even though she know's I want her Fat....It is very strange I know. The other thing as I mentioned earlier while I accidentally gaining 20 lbs. and a bigger gut by snacking and eating sweets along with her every night.....I decided to Intentionally gain....primarily to have her tease me or scold me for putting on a big gut. I was stuffing like crazy for many weeks and then over a month and she never said anything even though my Gut got huge. This when I started thinking she had Feedee desires or tendencies.....I would come home after stuffing myself all day looking so bloated just to try and get a reaction from her....and she started making us more and more Fattening dinners.....and she would grab my plate & fill it with with seconds even before I was done with my first helping...and even do thirds sometimes just to finish everything up so we didn't have leftovers she said. She was eating everything along with me and both of us pigging out with ice cream afterwards on the couch watching TV....it was like a Mutual Gaining relationship without any teasing or discussion of us getting Fatter together.....it was GREAT. In the last 2 years she has steadily gained primarily from her new desk job, not enough time to exercise and her eating. But the best thing is as I said as time goes on things change....she doesn't even discuss diet or say negative Fat things about herself.

Ultimately things can work,,,,,but there is always the grass is Greener situation. Another bad thing is as time has gone on so has my desire for more and more weight on my wife or women in general. So I think that could be kind of mute because some Feedee's never get as heavy as the feeder may want......but my wife is heavier now than what I use to think was really Fat ....when I was in High school let's say......but I dream of her getting to higher weights like 300 or even 350 Lbs. but I don't think that is reality.

Hopefully this thread answers a lot of your questions.

I can relate to this....back when I was gaining intentionally ....I without even realizing lost almost complete motivation for working out. I didn’t have any reason with injuries at the time I just became so interested in gaining and being around my wife anytime I could and us eating together became the main driving force. But it is crazy to think because even though when I was working out it would help increase my weight with muscle but if I didn’t work any abs I would tend to put on a little gut as well.

Taking 6 months off I noticed a lot of differences in my bulkier muscle physique....I was still muscular and big by most people’s thoughts but I had a huge gut now and my pecs softened considerably and I lost a bit of size in my arms and they softened a bit as well....my wife seemed to love it.....but gaining when I did certainly made me more passive and definitely more submissive. I said at one point knowing how I created such a huge appetite that if my wife were to actually be vocal and tell me she wanted me fatter.....she could have fattened me to over 300 lbs. very quickly.... cause I couldn’t control my appetite and I was a bottomless pit. I think knowing this first hand and how I was so vulnerable and would have been puddy in her hands.....it makes me think if she ever gets to that point with her weight gain.....I am going to turn on the full court press and really help make her Fat.....when she won’t have any desire to try and control it. Even where she is at lately with her weight she doesn’t have any will power and she has seems like in the last 2 years that she even cares if she keeps gaining weight....she just seems happy and doesn’t want to give in to everything she is eating and drinking.....which is perfectly fine by me.

That’s a pretty good & simple way to look at it.

I am not talking about BMI charts or any of that but more a physical look (aesthetic), movement and normal things that can not be achieved by size?

I remember when I was stuffing like crazy all the time .....I would be so bloated that even when sitting down in some positions (because of the bloating and my stomach pressing against my lungs or something) that I had shallower breaths and felt slightly out of breath.

I think when you gain especially from stuffing quickly everything needs to adjust a little bit. Not to mention as the belly grows you can almost feel off balance a little more getting used to the new fit of your body....and in my case most everything gained stuck out in front of me. My belly would bump into things....when I would go in for a kiss from my wife my belly would actually bump her back a bit....she Hagan to naturally reach one hand up around my neck and the other on my belly to keep from getting bounced back and to try and hoist her up and squish into my belly to reach lips without getting bumped off and disconnected.