junepearl:
Glad this got bumped, it actually sounds like heaven
Today, talk of cruises and air travel seems like a vestige of a bygone era, though corona weight gain is au courant. What a difference a few months can make.
5 years
Zelda64:
I also fear that when they start gaining, I will just be constantly aroused by them.
If you accept yourself and find someone with compatible needs this could be a blessing. As people age, they tend to gain weight. If your sex drive remains strong over time (as it does for many feeders), this might help in maintaining a strong sexual connection as you and your partner age.
5 years
FattyFat25:
Doctor said I should plan for at least 40 lbs... I am going to be huge.
The average weight gain on Zyprexa is 1 to 1.5 pounds a week. Patients have gained 8-15 percent of body weight in a short period. So, a 40 pound gain is not unusual:
www.nytimes.com/2009/10/28/business/28psych.html
5 years
it's almost like these secret FFAs were getting fat vicariously.
I've heard feeders talk about their feedee's growing belly as "mine", and in pictures, you'll often see a feeder resting his or her hand on the feedee's belly. So there is definitely a sense of ownership there.
5 years
canuck:
just a quick update... i am now 100 lbs heavier than before my gain. my gf has casually thrown out the idea of 300 lbs as a new milestone, which would be double the weight i was around the time we met!... i guess 300 here i come?
You're going to be 300 before you know it... but your gf probably has even bigger plans for you:
www.confessionpost.com/8908/My-wife-is-fattening-me-up
5 years
Zelda64:
whenever I see a guy I‘m attracted to [I] instantly feel aroused... Am I overthinking or underestimating myself.
Having a high libido is not a problem per se, as long as your partner is compatible, and from what you describe, you may have dominant tendencies, in which case a submissive partner would be a good fit. Of course, in a relationship, you’ve got to have more than just sexual attraction to make it work long-term. After all, making a life together is as much (or more) about working as a team as about great sex (especially after you start a family).
5 years
canuck:when i passed 200 lbs (50 lbs heavier than my first pic here on ff!!!) she lavished attention on my flabby parts, and surprised me - she didn't want me to lose the weight. she wanted me to put on another 50 lbs, instead! ...she is also taking on a far more dominant role in our sex life...showing that she can easily dominate the fatter, weaker me, having her way with me. at the moment, heading into the holidays, i don't know where this is going to lead... she is calling the shots over the holidays, and i am ok with that, and look forward to time off work with her, doing (and eating) as she pleases!
what have i gotten myself into?
You are now a feedee who will soon have put on 100 pounds for your feeder girlfriend who will continue fattening you. Soon you will be too big to easily lose weight and ever be fit again. Prepare to become as fat as your girlfriend or even bigger.
5 years
Exactly. I was at the airport recently and saw a child throwing kettlecorn at an elderly woman in a wheel chair and clapping her hands when the kettlecorn bounched off the woman's head. I walked up to the child and shouted "stop it". The mother then accused me of damaging her child's self esteem.
5 years
You have doubled your fat cells that now want to be filled. Once they are full they will double again. So if your lean weight was originally 120 + 15 pounds fat, now you have 30 pounds of fat.
If your fat cells double again you’ll gain up to 180 pounds before you plateau after filling the new fat cells. Next plateau would at 240 pounds. This is why weight gain is exponential, not additive.
Building muscle may help stabilize your metabolism.
5 years
