cyr117:
I've been dating my girlfriend for 3 years now, we even live together and I do plan on marrying her. She knows I like bigger women and she says it does bother her from time to time but not all the time, but over time I think shes slowly getting more and more comfortable with it. I mean shes still with me lol. Sometimes she asks "whats your weight limit?" to which I sort of low-ball and reply- " Oh, about 220ish" I said 230 not to freak her out since I would prefer around 290-320 range. mind you she's about 185 and her weight does go up and down, when I first met her she was around 150. She tries to diet and go to orange theory a couple times a week. I think shes trying to lose a couple of pounds to fit in her bridesmaid dress for a wedding we are going to next month. Obviously, I love her and want whats best for us. After the wedding I would like her to gain, but what do I do? Do I become more open about being an FA? Do I just encourage her to gain more? should I break it off?

nadac27:
interested!

biggirlsok:
Kid came up to the deli department one morning wanting a cookie (we had small kids cookies for those that asked) told the kid itd be another minute till they came out. Mom said something about "how dare we not have them ready" when we'd literally just opened the doors, and kids cookies being the last on the list of priorities (had to actually finish cleaning the department because night shift sucked) mom and kid get into small argument about waiting for the cookie, when suddenly she spins her wedding ring into the palm of her slapping her kid, I stop her after the 3rd slap when I noticed this giant bleeding gash on the kids face. Women on a "how dare you stop me from disciplining my child " speech ignoring her kid bleeding (thankfully coworker gave the kid some napkins to cover it while she ran to get the first aid kit) eventually the mom drags the kid to the front of the store screaming like a banshee for the manager, when he arrives she then tries to flip it to I cut her kids face.

Ensue a big shouting match between me, the mom, my manager and a random customer who joined in (had overheard the initial argument) that eventually ends in cops having been called (assistant manager called), and the woman bolting out the door when, after a cop asked if we had any security footage of the incident.

sharingstories:
So im with a guy and ive been open with him about my preferences. Hes expressed acceptance and even offered to go along with being fed/gaining weight, if thats what i would enjoy. Its worth mentioning that this man is my soulmate, (apart from not sharing this preference), i love him, crave him, dont want to leave him. But i nearly obsess about him gaining weight and.. i dont think it will ever actually happen. I actually tried feeding him weight gain shakes, cakes, cookies, all kinds of stuff. Hes so tall and so stick thin though, and he has such a physically demanding job, he�s basically working out 8-10 hours a day. He does have plans to go into IT, and is currently in school for a tech degree. This is my only hope.. maybe he will put on weight when he has an office job.
My problem is that i find myself fantisizing about this stuff daily, and it almost phyisically hurts to withhold or to engage in without any actual rewards. I basicallly stopped feeding efforts when i realized they werent going anywhere. Also the fact that i know he doesnt get turned on through it (other than being turned on by how turned on i am) really hurts the mood for me, most of the time. Has anyone else ever had a similar relaionship? Is this doomed to fail? I feel so selfish that this is such a big deal to me, but it worries me that i look at other *chubbier* dudes and start having thoughts...
Can anyone offer advice?

alanz:
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