I've always been a foodie. I love to try new foods, read restaurant reviews extensively to find the perfect bowl of tonkotsu ramen or the best gyros in town, cook, bake, serve my culinary creations to others... you name it, if it has to do with food I'm into it. I have a sensitive nose and a discerning palate, which makes food that much more enjoyable for me.
To me, food only has to do with kink in the context of kink. Otherwise it's a wonderful part of everyday life, but not necessarily a sexy thing. Most people I know locally come to me for restaurant recommendations now, because they know I know good food! Last time I went to the dentist she was all excited to hear about my latest restaurant finds.
1 year
And restaurants that pile their sandwiches high with meat and cheese rather than skimping! There's a diner about half an hour from me that serves the best Monte Cristos ever, so tall that you have to squish it down some to take a bite.
1 year
My favorite parts of getting fat are the amazing softness of my body and the ability to eat whatever I want, however much I want. I love the sensation of jiggling when I move, of my belly hitting my thighs as I huff and puff my way up the stairs. I'm heavy and ponderous. I waddle and break a sweat almost immediately when I have to walk somewhere. It all brings home the fact that I've reshaped my body into something completely different, suited only for lazing around and eating.
The worst parts are other people's attitudes toward my body and the expense involved. Clothes are definitely an issue, especially since Avenue and Catherine's were both victims of the pandemic. But food gets expensive too. I'm hoping to get a decent job in the next year to 18 months that will allow me to eat more and buy bigger clothes.
1 year
To me fat is comfort, indulgence, and most of all control. I'm not letting other people tell me how I should look, what I should eat, or how much anymore. I indulge in whatever I feel like eating, until I'm fully satisfied, and my body shows it. My flab is a monument to self-indulgence and a rejection of society's attempts to shove me in a box.
1 year
My feet and the scale vanished long ago! I have to bend over to see how much I weigh.
1 year
Chubster87:
Resting my phone on my new belly when im using it while sitting down.
Haha, I was resting my iced latte on my belly the other day! It’s quite handy.
2 years
Strongerthanyou:
It's definitely a sign of submission in my eyes... Don't see how a round soft tire of around your waist can be perceived as powerful
Munchies:
It really depends. For some, being big means being powerful. They get to literally throw their weight around. Have you ever heard of squashing? It's a kink where someone bigger than you crushes you under their weight. You see it more on Dimensions than on FF.
Then you have dominant feedees with submissive feeders. The feeders wait on the feedee hand and foot while the feedee indulges as much as they want.
That's me! I love it when a partner is considerably slimmer than me, especially when they want me to squash them. I also like it when they're shorter than me- short kings, take note. I want to be large and in charge.
Not sure if I'll ever find a submissive feeder, since they seem to be even more rare than feeders in general. But that would be the dream. A feeder serving my every whim while I laze around and gorge myself.
2 years
Hi, fellow autistic folks! I was just diagnosed last year, and in retrospect it explains a great deal about my struggles in life. Nobody who knew me was really surprised at my diagnosis; reactions were more like "Oh yeah, that explains a lot."
I'm not sure if neurodivergent people are more likely to have nonstandard sexuality, or if we're just more likely to admit it to ourselves.
2 years
I love being noticeably bigger than my partner! A short, skinny partner makes me feel even bigger. Excellent for squishing.
2 years
