MrClown:
Depends how much you want to gain.
If your aim is just to be "chubby", then it's relatively easy to lose the weight in the future if you need or want to.
But if you want to become morbidly obese the resulting changes to your body mean there's really no going back. Unfortunately there's not a lot of women* out there for obese men, so unless you want to be alone for the rest for your life I'd avoid gaining until you have a long term romantic partner who is okay with it.
(*your profile says you're male, and I'm assuming you're straight)
I'm a little conflicted with part of your response. Lots of fat guys have girlfriends and get married. To that extent I don't think gaining some weight will lead to a lifetime of being alone. The bigger trick is finding a woman who will except you being an active gainer. There's very few female feeders out there. It would be akin to winning the lottery to meet one. While plenty of women can be in love with a fat guy it's a different story if you proceed to pack on another 100 or 200 pounds. It's not the deal they made.
3 years
General65Sorin:
Part of me really wants to gain weight. I've been thinking about it more and more recently, and the thought of stuffing myself and getting bigger is quite exciting. However, part of me also realizes all of the downsides gaining brings. It would be harder to do some of the things I love to do, and I'm also afraid that if I start gaining weight, I either won't be willing or won't be able to lose it. When I think about it logically, it seems like a simple choice to not gain, but, at the same time, I just can't stop thinking about it. Any suggestions? Also, this is my first time actually communicating with this community, instead of just observing it, so I'm kind of new.
It's a tough spot to be in for sure. Unfortunately it's a decision nobody can help you with. It's a deeply personal choice and only you can know what you truly want. Good luck on whatever road you choose.
3 years
I was on Abilify for about 2 months and gained about 25 pounds. Certainly was enough that the wife commented on my weight gain. Being a closet gainer I was thrilled thinking how fat I'd get if I stayed on it. Problem was the other sexual side effects sort of made it pointless really.
4 years
JaidenYuri:
Does anyone else come in and out of interest for fat? Like when I'm talking to my feedee alot I get omega into it. But like the last few days I'm struggling to remember why I was so into it. Does anyone else have this problem? Cause I wanna stay committed for her, but the second we go a couple days without talking I go back to my normal self whos never been that interested in this stuff.
I guess the first question I'd be curious about is how you came to be in a feedee/feeder relationship if you never had any interest to begin with. Did you just happen to meet a feedee and sort of went with it? Do you get satisfaction out of being a feeder? It seems like there's a lot to unpack in that brief paragraph.
4 years
One of the things I've always known about myself is while BBWs hold the main attraction for me, I find I also have some attraction to female bodybuilders. I've put this down to having some fetishism for extremes in the female body. Just wondering if anyone else has the same attraction.
4 years
I prefer a bbw with a nice chubby face and double chin. Very sexy.
4 years
Maybe as you get older there's less single guys in your age group to hit on you. Could be your not hanging out in the same places you did a few years ago. Who knows really.
4 years
Give it a shot. It's the only way to know for sure. I'm betting you'll love it.
6 years
1. Proper grammar.
2. Keep your sentences short and to the point.
3. Have a friend you trust read it and get feedback. By that I mean do they easily grasp what you're trying to say. Is every sentence understandable.
4. If writing does not come naturally, avoid the urge to add words as filler. You'll only get yourself bogged down and make the essay confusing.
5. Don't overthink it. Make notes beforehand on the theme and the points you are using to back it up. Stick to the outline when writing the essay.
6 years
Yea, best to move on with your life. It rarely works the second time around. Been there, done that.
6 years
