Many of you who have been on the scene since the 1990's may remember my wife SQMS or SqueezeMeSuze. She had a page on my Feeder site for a few years and had many followers.
Sadly she passed away last week peacefully in the local Hospice. She was still a big gal when she went and her weight was not a factor.
She was fit and strong in 2015 when she injured her leg. Unfortunately we have a failing medical system in England and they kept misdiagnosing the problem which was an infection in the joint.
To cut a long story short it led to two botched hip replacements and being bed bound. Then in January this year she developed stage 4 cancer throughout her body which is what killed her.
She achieved two important things in her last few months, had the surgeon struck off and got me to marry her.
I will miss her forever.
2 years
Fat Street Boys
Back Street Boys ripoff.
"Her arse is wider,
Than a bus tyre"
"I wanna a fat girl"
It's an animation obviously created by a Feeder and it's hilarious. Look it up.
2 years
July is Eat All You Can month put on by the fast food restaurants in the city. The catch is you need a BMI over 30 to qualify.
2 years
Plenty wrong with trying to conduct a romance on here. The 5 message limit creates anxiety when the person does not respond for instance. This then puts pressure on people to take it to another communications platform that may not be so anonymous. It could be that one feels ghosted because the other ran out of messages. They then urge the other to join them on another platform which may come across as controlling or needy.
It really is a bit crappy. I raised the point that FF can be a bad place in past conversations and people proved me correct. This time you've been careful not to prove me correct because I signposted the trap for you.
If people are going to have a successful romance on here they need to keep it lite and short. Then meet before the flame burns out.
2 years
Blubberbellym:
So, recently I was talking to someone on here. & we switched to kik so that texting would be easier since there's a 5 message limit here.
We were chatting & getting to know each other, started talking about the possibility of meeting up since we were local.
He mentioned he wanted to feed & help grow someone, but would want to feed them irl which Is great.
He asked to see pictures of my weight gain over the years, and stuff like that. I shared it with him. & then he asked for NSFW pictures, and a video saying how big I wanted to grow, I thought it was an odd request as it was random, but I still did it,
He asked again for more a couple hours later & I told him no, he told me that he was not interested in feeding me if I can't do what he asks.
I said okay, and cleared him from my conversation feed. Early this morning he sent me a unsolicited photo & told me if I do the video he will feed me.
I got the vibe tgst he was just a creep looking to get off. I don't think I'll be interacting on this site much more after this
It's possible he was a creep however online is not a good place to get to know each other. The very caution required online comes across as cold. I know this cuts to the very heart of a site like FF but it's a modern day problem. These are not good places to meet people. There are far more Feeders and Feedees than you would realise from the members of FF. You're really dealing with a sad subset of people who think it's practical to build a romantic relationship online. If you do click with someone it's likely that they are more than 2000 miles away so that's a huge problem. It's also likely that they themselves have been hurt in some way by online relationships which makes both them and you act in a creepy way to each other.
I would suggest that you actually meet people in person in a safe place rather than try to conduct an online relationship.
If you don't realise how toxic online can be then just read the replies I get to this post.
2 years
I agree. I just made a new post saying the same thing. That's how it always was but giving a vague age in weeks or months is considered very fashionable. Why would anyone want this?
2 years
I know it's fashionable to have dates expressed as age of the post but it's annoying. Especially in the Gainer when it gives an approximate number of months. If you must do that at least give the actual date stamp of the entry as well.
I love the Gainer section in principle but it's so vague. It would be very cool if it could include a photo at the current weight. Gainers could really make use of it then.
2 years
If you have a problem with alcohol then you can completely abstain in order not to trigger the problem. However if you have a problem with eating you cannot completely abstain. You must do a controlled amount of the thing you have a problem with.
2 years
You're likely to offend the sensibilities of the prudes in FF. Not that I'm into this stuff but you may need to baton down the hatches.
2 years
Weetabix:
If people want to be slim more than they want larger meals then they could achieve that. People should simply accept what they want and the consequences that come with that. You want to be slim then no more pie and more exercise.
So don't say you know what the VAST majority of people want unless you can acknowledge the pressures on their decisions.
LoraDayton:
What a way to contradict yourself. It is a lot more than simple diet that affects anyone's weight whether surplus or deficit. If you understand the pressures of someone's decision either way, then you certainly know that the determinant of whether or not someone is "naturally" large have a lot less to do with their food intake and a lot more to do with where they live, the policy that affects their daily life, their income, hereditary conditions and other genetic causes, and a multitude of other marginalizations or circumstances.
Also "religion" doesn't mean just one. Not all religions view gluttony as a sin.
You are not the center of the universe or have any of the answers. Get a grip.
From your position at the centre of your universe it may look that way.
In Christianity Gluttony is a sin, in your universe another religion is dominant, fair enough.
If you look at the mask wearing and jabs lots of people felt they had no choice so went along with it. It turns out they did have a choice but the coercion was so strong it affected people's actions.
Diet and exercise are actions people can take if they chose not to be fat. Like entering a shop without a mask or not taking the jab when your job requires it, these are not the easy option but they are available choices.
I know someone who took one jab to keep her job but ended up losing it because it made her too ill to work. Heck, she could just have told them she was not taking the first. She'd have a her job back by now but she's still too ill.
We have more choice than we think even if it looks easier to go where we're being herded.
Choices are not always easy but they are available.
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