Lynn, Please try actual dating sites if your goal is to meet a serious partner. While some people do meet on fetish sites or social media, it seems like more of a long shot.

I met my wife on a BBW dating site years ago. She had no idea a guy could absolutely love, rather than overlook, her fat body, much less know this site existed!

I also realize your orientation narrows the possibilities. There are always traditional in-person venues like gay bars and clubs. We have cousins who met in a gay bar in Boston 20 years ago and the rest is history!

Two hundred pounds over six years is a rather significant gain for someone starting out at 165. What is her goal weight?

She can gain by consuming the same foods just in increased quantities, or with less duration between meals.

Drinking melted ice cream or cream blended with chocolate or other sugary syrup as an addition to the current meal plan should trigger a gain.

Keep in mind mobility issues or other negatives may come into play when gaining to 400+ lbs, particularly on a small frame.

Consume lots of calories, fat, and carbs.

Ice cream, soda, milkshakes, processed foods, cold cuts, fast food, nearly anything breaded and fried. Eat and repeat several times throughout the day and night.

Everyone has different preferences, you'll need to find the foods most palatable and effective for you.

I'm 175
She's 315

We both love the contrast.

She's 315, curvy and bottom heavy. I'm 175. Our weight has increased over many years together, her lightest was 235 and mine 145.

Missionary is nearly always our default starting position.

She often likes to get on top and ride me, her weight has never been an issue.

Doggy style works best with her standing bent over or on the bed, although can be done fully on the bed as well.

Spooning is logistically impractical w/o several pillows, so therefore we refrain.

Back in the day we also used the passenger's seat of my car, fully reclined, her on top. It was a smaller car but surprisingly accommodating.

I too am surprised there aren't more Aussies or even Kiwis for that matter participating here.

Given the severity of lock downs and home confinement you folks have been going through, it seems there's not much to do in person anymore.

I tried looking back using the forum search feature to find the post to no avail. Unfortunately I don't recall the user's name to search by member.

I just recall she was from the UK and absolutely "loved it" when her fit, toned feeder ex-boyfriend got fat and flabby, like a dose of karma for him having fattened her and others in the past.

Perhaps an admin would know if the posts get deleted, say when a member deletes their account, or if there's an archive?

My wife had a '98 Ford Taurus years ago when we met.

I didn't mention it in my previous post simply since it's so old I doubt anybody would be in the market for one today.

She drove it for several years until about 200,000 miles and found it very comfortable. The driver's seat didn't fare well under her weight though. The upholstery was still intact but the cushion was compressed into oblivion.

This concept intrigues me despite always having been an FA but not a feeder.

The idea of a woman exacting revenge on a fit feeder (or more likely enabler) boyfriend, FWB, or roommate, especially when she wasn't necessarily a willing participant, but simply couldn't avoid overindulgence, is a huge turn-on!

I have never seen this play out in real life, a feeder getting one-upped by his victim turned aggressor, but did read a story here a few years back that was pretty much on the mark.

A woman from the UK did exactly that to her feeder boyfriend. She turned the tables on him, made him gain some serious weight, then dumped him. The best part was how proud she was of herself, bragging about it in this forum!

Considering my wife and I met years ago on a BBW dating site, this was never an issue. We had both just joined the site, hit it off the night we met, and never looked back.

The girl I was hooking up with prior didn't take it so well. She was also a BBW but hated being fat. She didn't quite believe me when I mentioned how hot certain features of her body were, and when I tried caressing her fat, she would giggle with embarrassment yet became instantly turned on, typically deflecting attention by immediately getting sexual. The sex was amazing every time. Years later I discovered she had bypass surgery, so kind of the exact opposite of coming around to like being obese. Too bad, she used to have a body that would've been very popular here.