You know the deal.

My wife's thighs have always been greater in diameter than any part of my body. While soft and fat, they're strong too! She can push multiple reps at 400 lbs in the leg machine at the gym!

It doesn't matter if you funnel feed or simply increase normal consumption. Either way will cause weight gain.

Some folks like the control dynamic associated with funnel feeding.

In the US, building or retrofitting a home to ADA (Americans With Disabilities Act) accessible standards should suffice for the majority of large and even morbidly obese folks.

This can be done in any community in the US and its territories. ADA compliance can be designed into new homes, or retrofitted into existing ones.

It is of course not an inexpensive endeavor, but donating such dwellings is absolutely not an obligation of billionaires, multi-millionaires, contractors, communities, or other entities.

Those individuals and families who meet certain income criteria however may qualify for an ADA compliant accessible apartment or home subsidized by the local housing authority.

My guess is most people in this situation are not poor enough to qualify for subsidies, yet not wealthy enough to afford to build or buy the home they need that fits them properly.

The most wine I consumed in one day was about 1/2 gallon or 2L of Carlo Rossi. This was before I began eating keto, so lots of carbs helped mitigate the alcohol. Kept it down and slept like a baby, but was wicked hung over the next morning.

Lynn, Please try actual dating sites if your goal is to meet a serious partner. While some people do meet on fetish sites or social media, it seems like more of a long shot.

I met my wife on a BBW dating site years ago. She had no idea a guy could absolutely love, rather than overlook, her fat body, much less know this site existed!

I also realize your orientation narrows the possibilities. There are always traditional in-person venues like gay bars and clubs. We have cousins who met in a gay bar in Boston 20 years ago and the rest is history!

Two hundred pounds over six years is a rather significant gain for someone starting out at 165. What is her goal weight?

She can gain by consuming the same foods just in increased quantities, or with less duration between meals.

Drinking melted ice cream or cream blended with chocolate or other sugary syrup as an addition to the current meal plan should trigger a gain.

Keep in mind mobility issues or other negatives may come into play when gaining to 400+ lbs, particularly on a small frame.

Consume lots of calories, fat, and carbs.

Ice cream, soda, milkshakes, processed foods, cold cuts, fast food, nearly anything breaded and fried. Eat and repeat several times throughout the day and night.

Everyone has different preferences, you'll need to find the foods most palatable and effective for you.

I'm 175
She's 315

We both love the contrast.

She's 315, curvy and bottom heavy. I'm 175. Our weight has increased over many years together, her lightest was 235 and mine 145.

Missionary is nearly always our default starting position.

She often likes to get on top and ride me, her weight has never been an issue.

Doggy style works best with her standing bent over or on the bed, although can be done fully on the bed as well.

Spooning is logistically impractical w/o several pillows, so therefore we refrain.

Back in the day we also used the passenger's seat of my car, fully reclined, her on top. It was a smaller car but surprisingly accommodating.

I too am surprised there aren't more Aussies or even Kiwis for that matter participating here.

Given the severity of lock downs and home confinement you folks have been going through, it seems there's not much to do in person anymore.