You are talking bollocks.
We are all individuals, and you are trying to stereotype people into your own misconceptions of what a certain skin coloured person should be like.
History might affect some people today, but again, you cannot just say it automatically affects everyone, stop talking rubbish.
I'm English, and proud, and we have a MUCH longer history than most other countries, especially America/Canada (which I assume you are from, with your 'dude' thing). As such, yes I know all about my history.
My whole point is DUDE, this forum is about fat people, fat appreciators, fat fetishes, etc, and it is NOT about racism, history, or any other bollocks you are coming out with.
Mods please delete this thread, for heavens sake, this DUDE is spoiling the forum with his racial bollocks.

It is also unfortunate than alas, generational imheritances of intersocial and intrasocial dynamics between different communities are still embedded within the violent colonial roots of the power dymanics between the European (so to speak, Anglo-Saxon) colonizer and "once-"subjected native or enslaved populations.

Does everything have to be political, and/or about skin colour ?

Christ.....
Can't we all just appreciate fat people no matter what colour they are, and forget about what happened 100's of years ago, because it really has nothing to do with anyone living today.

One part of me thinks 'poor bloke, he's obviously been taken advantage of'.
Other part of me thinks 'gullible bloke, serves him right'.
Maybe I'm too tight, but I'd never just send money to anyone online. I have to buy my own food, and I work hard for the money.

I don't think it is a simple as 'am I gay or not'.

People have many different sexual desires, and not every bisexual or gay person is exactly the same.

I am a straight, married man, but I have certain fantasies too. I'd love to try frotting & docking with another man, even though I don't find men in any way attractive, and I certainly don't get any feelings if I happen to see men kissing on a porn clip or something.

Am I gay or bi ?
I don't think so, but there isn't really a line that you cross, which decided if you are or not. It's more of a large grey area.

I'd just accept that you are sexually attracted to what you are attracted to, and carry on enjoying life :-)

I thought Feabie looked great at first.
After a couple of years I realised that it was full of cliques and if you didn't ass-lick the dominant posters you would be attacked and outcast.
It's like being back at school, with the drama queens, attention seekers, and gang mentality.
Best thing I did was close my account .
Just my opinion of course.

My apologies to the staff of FF.

I certainly didn't want to turn the thread into something unpleasant.

I found it offensive to be accused of something I didn't say or mean. It is perfectly ok for me to say I don't like hair on myself or other people, we have free speech thankfully.
I certainly did not want anyone to feel like I didn't like them as people, no matter how hairy they are.
Again, apologies.

My exact words were :
Really hairy men are horrible in my opinion, and it just makes me think of big gay hairy bears, which is brilliant if that's your thing.

You have twisted my words, and are trying to suggest I said that I find the actual man horrible as a person, just because they are hairy.
Only a stupid person, who is deliberately trolling for an argument would think that.
I don't like hairy men, because of the hair. I am a man, and I would not like to look like some other hairy man does, I think it looks horrible IN MY OPINION as I said.
That is not even close to saying what you are suggesting, which is why I told you to back up and shut up, because you were trolling.
I also said (which you conveniently forgot to QUOTE me on - probably because it doesn't support your feeble trolling attempt) that it is brilliant if that is your thing.
So again, back up and shut up you troll.

Woah, just calm yourself down a moment.

I said 'personally I hate body hair and facial hair'
That is my opinion, and I'm very much entitled to it. I didn't say I hate the person, or any person, I just said I hate body & facial hair.
I choose to shave mine off, because I hate it.
So back up and shut up, suggesting I am a 'hateful' person, you should be ashamed for thinking and saying that.
I live in a Country with free speech, and I can have an opinion on hair thank you.
My comment about facial hair on a woman was a joke, hence it was in brackets with a lol after it, so stop trying to make me out to be something I am not, and deliberately take me out of context just because it suits your agenda ie I have a different opinion to you.

Also @ expandingCuriousity - It is my opinion, and I can do exactly what I want about hair, even if I was born extremely hairy, so your comment 'people don't get to decide' is rubbish. Yes I do decide where my hair grows, I shave and if I wanted I could wax, and have laser treatment if I so wished, and any other form of hair control/removal, so I (and anyone else) have a choice.
I have not said I 'hate' any person, and I would never say that, I am a very respectful, humble, and friendly person.
I am annoyed that people like you two can take my post completely out of context and twist the truth to suit your own arguments.
I hate hair, It's fine for me to say that.
I find really hairy men horrible. It's fine for me to say that.
I did not say I hated the person, just the hair ffs, so shut up the pair of you.

Personally I hate body hair, and facial hair (especially on a woman lolol).
Seriously though, I consider myself to have fairly light coloured and not too thick body hair, and I have shaved my pubes off for about 20 years.
Really hairy men are horrible in my opinion, and it just makes me think of big gay hairy bears, which is brilliant if thats your thing.

If you have something to say John, say it.
I am always mature and respectful to anyone, not just on forums, but in life generally.
Feel free to expand on your little comment.