Last thing in the world I want is to hurt someone 😰

@Munchies thank you for sharing your experiences! I've never been into BDSM so I need to learn how to do it properly, like I know he wants to be tied up, pinched painfully, slapped, but I don't know if he's into degradation or humiliation. I'll ask and make sure one way or the other.

The one thing I do know is that, for tying, you can't just use regular ropes or cuffs, but need to get special ones for the purpose that he could get out of if he wants to... right?

I'm like the "sweet and tender" empath kind of type, so to make him happy I need to learn how to act like the total opposite, lol 😆

@Munchies Thank you for the tips!! I will talk about safe words/gestures with him, and I'll be sure to monitor his belly and give breaks for digestion. The "no give, no room" tip is very helpful!

So, I am going to meet up with a submissive feedee to stuff him (🤩🤩🤩). He already stuffs himself alone, and he loves to be so full it hurts. He's still thin, though, because he works out a lot.

How can I know when he's actually had enough? Because I'm not sure if he would tell me, he keeps saying he wants me to push his limits and feed him more than he can take, etc. This is my first time stuffing anyone. He can eat a lot, but his eyes are way bigger than his stomach and pain just turns him on. While pretending to be a sadistic dom feeder, I have to somehow know when to stop. How do I keep him safe from his own desires, how do I know what his limit is when he wants to go beyond it? I can't use my own appetite as any kind of guide because I eat very little.

If I wasn't an FA it would be way easier to meet someone I like. Instead it is very lonely.

Seconded. I thought all stories had become premium and had to order by oldest. Very off-putting and frustrating. It just encourages seeking stories elsewhere.

Problem: I am afraid of meeting people. 😂😭 But I will try to do it anyway for the sake of meeting new friends!

What if we have a monthly Florida meetup? It would just be nice to meet people in person, and maybe having it monthly would increase the chances of people coming out. I'm thinking it should be held at an all-you-can-eat place.

Fully acknowledging that this is selfish because I live so close, what if we meet in Tampa? It's a big metro area in the middle of the State.

And, what if it is arbitrarily chosen to be the first Saturday of the month?

Florida is such a densely populated State, and I just want to meet other people who love fat bellies.

That's awesome. I'm happy for you both. Man, I would love to be in a feeder/feedee relationship one day. That's awesome that she is happy to gain.

That is so unbelievably hot 😍