Falling down as a fat guy


Edxl:
Also you were tired. Being out of shape and fatter probably had you more drained than you had realized, at which point you are clumsier, your reactions are slower, etc. Something to think about in the future, be a bit extra careful any time you've had to exert yourself for a while.


good points, and i think that is accurate.

after a week of being laid-up i don't think my stamina has increased much, lol, but i am up and about again. it seems like the bruise is going to take its time fading.

funny side effect of laying around all week - my t-shirts seem to be riding up my belly. hmmm, wonder why? smiley must have shrunk in the wash!
4 years

Thoughts on heavy cream

Ggggggg:
So I’ve been starting actively gaining over the past week and it’s been pretty fun. I’m taking it slow for now but thought about trying heavy cream bloat and was wondering anyone’s opinions on it. Is it fun? What does the bloat feel like? Does it really help? Or good ways to drink it, by itself or with flavorings.


a lot of people on here like to use cream - personally, i can't stand the taste/texture and after i've had a little my gag reflex will kick in.

ymmv so get a little, try it out, see if it is for you.

personally, i have gotten fat just eating regular old normal food. you can feel bloated on anything, you just have to eat lots of it. smiley
4 years

Falling down as a fat guy

NYCBellyBlimp:
Luckily no one had you on facebook live or social media as it would be an instant meme.
Slip on shoes and grabbers have been a way to go to avoid falling.


good point! i am lucky my buddy didn't have his phone out, lol! smiley

i have no excuse, i wasn't paying attention toward the end of the day. it was a stupid mistake on my part. i will like, although i have a hell of a bruise right now!
4 years

When do we stop gaining? and how do we do it?

william keay:
This is by far the million calorie question asked by so many of you.

This is my situation

I'm almost 18 stone (248 pounds) and I'm 5"6 so not so tall but that's ok, being shorter makes it easier to look fat and round but anyway.

In my life the people who know about my big fat fetish (which is most of my friends and family) have often asked "when will you be big enough" and "when will you be happy with yourself" and when you get there and wish to stop gaining "what if you have problems because of your weight what then"

Well it's a damn hard question but at the moment I'd like to reach 20 stone (280 pounds) and at that weight I know I'd be the most confident and sexiest' I ever felt

But what happens after I finally get there?

Well I guess I'll just hope I don't get any bigger because I don't want problems with my back and legs or anything else weight related but If I did get bigger I'd probably like it even more and be ever more confident and sexy

So the chance of me doing a hard diet to lose the weight is out of the question because that's a shit way to live lets be honest lol

But what if I end up with weight related problems what then?

My older brother had this problem last year when he got to 26 and a half stone but he never wanted to be fat in the first place (or did he? I'll never know he never talks about anything to anyone)

As high as my IQ is I honestly don't know smiley

I hate being in pain but to lose my fat and power that makes me so happy well I'd never live it down so I guess I'd just drink more alcohol and carry on xx


lol, your last comment sums up my strategy pretty much. smiley

once you get to a certain size, and become accustomed to the larger appetite, it can be hard to slow down or stop - that is what i am experiencing right now. i think it has more to do with lifestyle than anything, and if you can maintain a healthy lifestyle of staying active, that should balance out the extra calories you are consuming. for me, working from home for the last 14 months has taken a big toll on my physical fitness, but i am still normally not experiencing any significant pain or discomfort from my increased size.

words of wisdom from my gf (who is much smarter than i): "why worry about something that hasn't happened yet?" smiley
4 years

Falling down as a fat guy

this weekend i helped a buddy move his stuff out of a storage locker... it was notable for a couple of reasons.

first, this friend used to be a gym buddy of mine and we had not seen each other since before the pandemic... suffice to say he was a little surprised by how much fatter i've become in that time!

this was also the most exercise and activity i've participated in a year (since i moved), and wow, did the extra weight ever make itself felt! i was quickly exhausted.

and finally, near the end of the move i slipped and all 340 lbs of myself fell on my fat ass. at first i thought i was more embarrassed than hurt, since i managed to get up (with some difficulty) and drive myself home. but after a few hours the soreness really set in. so much for ass fat providing a cushion.

the next day i was really stiff and sore (partly from all the lifting, not just the fall), and pretty much laid up. i have been in bed pretty much since then.

luckily my gal has taken pity on me and is bringing me meals (and treats in between meals) smiley

so my safety message for you fatties is: watch your step, don't fall down!
4 years

Who was thin and got fat

Captain Cake:
I started out around 120lbs, but didn't really gain much at all for many years because I was more of a feeder type. I was actually toned, and very athletic. The thing is, spending more time around feedees and have multiple feedee girlfriends over the years, I ended up gaining some weight to around 180, and in my last relationship she basically properly pushed for me to actively gain, so the pounds rapidly piled on and I became obsessed with growing larger as all the body changes started to happen and I enjoyed them. It kind of hit me first when a friend had a bar for pull ups, and I used to be able to do many of them with ease, but when I tried it I could barely manage 1.


i had a very similar experience. i was 150ish for most of my adult life until i started seeing my most recent ex. she persuaded or influenced me to take a break from all the working out and food denial... and it has stuck, even after we split up. now i am about 340 lbs.
4 years

Alcohol and weight gain


amazingem:
Alcohol has a lot of calories so absolutely it can be a factor in weight gain.


i don't know if this is unique to me, but i tend to eat more when i am drinking (beer is my beverage of choice). so not only am i getting the empty calories of the beer, but i am consuming above and beyond what i normally would, too.
4 years

How to let yourself go?

everyone has made really great points so far (well, with the exception of the poster directly above smiley).

we were having a discussion last night at dinner around how people get to the point that they do what they want, or follow the path they want to, rather than do what pleases others or others expect them to... it's a complicated, difficult subject.

i think my advice would be, don't feel badly if you haven't figured it out now. or this summer. or this year - there's lots of time. you might find in your mid-20s you feel differently. it's not a race. i think the worst position to be in is one where it creates a lot of anxiety for you. so just relax, enjoy the fantasy in a way that is not stressful for you.

experience will help open your mind. the biggest leaps in my understanding of myself resulted from being placed into new situations - moving away for school, moving to a new town for a job, breaking up with someone and moving into a new apartment - it doesn't necessarily change you, but it pushes you out of a comfort zone and accelerates your development. well, that has been my experience. you meet new people, get exposed to new things, and hopefully you get a better sense of yourself along the way.

best of luck!
4 years

Average daily calories?


EvilFeeder:
“Fat Secret” is a curious name for an app that presumably is intended as a weight loss resource.

Or is it in fact a covert feedist resource?! 😮


lol! i would love to see more fat and gaining people on it - most of the updates are coming from people trying to lose weight, though. the tracking tools are really great, easy and fast to use. if it wasn't easy, i wouldn't bother, lol!

yesterday was a 6000 calorie day, btw. smiley
4 years