Just look into intermittent fasting. You can eat whatever the heck you want during your feeding window to have fun and keep your weight in check.

That's what happened with our 2nd. The weight just kept on coming on afterwards and the desire and power to lose it became more unrealistic given the new lifestyle she loved.

Frankly, does anyone else feel like society's obsession with a young girl's almost pre-pubescent skinny figure being the 'pinnacle of beauty' is almost creepy at a certain point in life?

I mean, if you're in your 30's, 40's, 50's and you're still obsessing over these 19yr old skinny girls portrayed in advertisements, the runway and pornography that look like they're 17, there's a certain point it should feel a bit disturbing, no?

I feel like every guy should naturally start to evolve to appreciate what life does to almost all women: produce a more full figured, curvy body.

That seems like what should be natural and not some 'fetish'. Obsessing over bone thin prepubescent girls seems like the 'fetish' to me.

I could see Findom being a natural pairing with feederism.

The man being financially dominated by his obese princess who runs up his cards on constant eating out, delivery meals, snacks and verbally lets him know his place and how the money is all hers if he wants to see her grow.

Aroused by checking his bank account and seeing the countless food charges.

I get aroused when the wifey continually texts me at night for specific snacks to bring to her because she's just too lazy and greedy to even get off the couch during her Netflix binges.

She used to always make the multiple trips to clean up her trash, keep the house tidy. But now the night ends and the chip bags and packaging remains sprawled across her couch area. Just too lazy and fat to care about it - she knows I'll get it in the morning.

Pregnancy is what revealed my actual feeding fetish. I couldn't believe how insatiable my wife was during pregnancy. The constant eating until in pain, and then continuing to eat beyond the threshold of pain. Continually expanding her belly. Pregnancy was the first time I was aroused by the act of eating.

Allow things to naturally progress and show genuine affirmation about her body without OVERDOING IT. You'll come across that you simply love this kink and not that you appreciate HER.

And be mindful, a women's self-image about her body is directly linked with her libido. Though a gain may be what you want, you may be playing with fire if things start to go south in your bedroom if she feels insecure and saddened about her appearance.

Heavy cream is effective because of its fat content. But there are other foods with even more fat - there's nothing magical about heavy cream.

For example, peanut butter has TWICE the amount of calories as heavy cream per tablespoon. Making a peanut butter shake or simply eating peanut butter would get you fatter faster and be easier to digest if you're struggling with dairy.

As a feeder I prefer BEHAVIOR goals.

Weight and eating come naturally when you change their daily behavior.

Ooooo a shaker? Now the gloopy comment makes sense. A powerful Nutri Ninja with some ice is a game changer if you're going to do daily shakes.