vintage smut wrote:
This is a fetish site....to question ones 'morality' is really amusing, come on
Why is fetish material- especially that which is acted upon- exempt from morality?
9 years
Nomoreskinnygirl wrote:Manipulation only happens when both parties participate. My hubby tried for years to get me to eat more in various ways, not all straight forward. I didn't participate until I wanted to. If someone is dumb enough to fall into that without realizing it, then they got worse problems than their SO trying to feed them up!
Carry on.
So it's only manipulation if the other person agrees to it?
What sort of ass-backwards definition of "manipulation" are you working with here?
9 years
osubuckeye101 wrote:
I dated a girl for a few years and every time I see her or go over her house I'd make sure to stop by the store and pick up some chocolate bars or desserts, she never really caught on to it. By the end of our relationship she went from being 5 feet tall 105 lbs with nice C cups to 5 feet tall 120lbs with DD's, it was a dream come true .
Did the relationship end when she realized that you were using underhanded methods to alter her body into what you wanted, or...?
9 years
okapi wrote:Elanor wrote:
Are women more likely to be shamed for sexually deviant behaviour? Or for displaying behaviour that could be interpreted as sexually forward at all, for that matter.
It's tricky to compare directly. A man openly sharing his sexuality is more likely to be ignored, ridiculed or criticized than to receive any sort of positive comments, which I guess could be a why a lot of us simply don't do it. I'm willing to bet most of the men here come to look, not share.
And yet the posters here, especially those sharing their sexual interests, seem to be overwhelmingly male
9 years
peggysasha wrote:
I personally feel fat girls don't deserve much respect. Just like fat flabby men.
You're either a troll or projecting your own desire for humiliation on others.
Neither of these are okay.
9 years
Nomoreskinnygirl wrote:
Always put too much food on your own plate or order too much when you're out, and then encourage him to take care of it so it's not wasted.
This is deceptive and manipulative. Don't do this.
9 years
Women, please note:
According to Essex, if you don't want to be harassed, don't be here.
9 years
JumpingJack wrote:Murphy wrote:
Someone else's body and their happiness is far more important than how attracted you are to them. If you wouldn't be able to have a happy relationship with someone because they're unhappy and decide to not be massively huge, they deserve better than you anyway.
They deserve someone more suitable perhaps. Saying that one persons desires overrides another persons desires is the thing you were attempting to avoid but you said it anyway.
No, I pretty much straight up said that one person's desires regarding what they want for themselves is more important than another person's sexual desires regarding the first person.
Or, more simply:
Your boner is not as important as what she wants to do with her life.
Why is this something that has to be argued?
9 years
RoyalFreyeness wrote:Murphy wrote:
Watch 110 movies.
That's it.
You should be able to get that done in what? A week? Maybe two at the most.
Hah.
I'm well into the 90's for this year's count, but it's made a bit more difficult what with having other obligations to take care of and a multitude of distractions including, but not limited to, TV shows, video games, books, school, and work.
9 years
crescit_eundo81 wrote:
I have tried threapy but it was like talking to mirror, I can do that home in plenty and I need feedback. Therapist can't really give any feedback / advice because that would be like unprofessionla behavior.
That's not unprofessional, that's what a good therapist would do. Find another therapist.
9 years
