Being Honest I hate that movie, how depict us FA and feederism, I know its true and like you say there are a lot of dudes being shit and all but not all FA are weirdos with mental problems or want to kill our partners, maybe someone just preffer heavy girls and that is OK.

Soo we can´t ignore the whale in the room, the movie is great still is a heck of a movie, compulsive destructive personallity from the character, death feederism from him, the fat suit while he takes a shower, the compulsion for being stuffed when deppresed and wanted to just die, the gainer aspect from Charlie and his "friend" what are your thouths on this "normal" movie about a part of our world, do you like it? cried? did you know originally was a play, I would love to read your comments for this one, I was not surprised from a movie since Feed from 2005

Just ask her how she feel that now is eating more and if she likes this too, comunication is the key for this, maybe she does not want to be huge but she can enjoy some weight gain and could be fun for both of you

If she really want to gain that much she need to keep eating the same amounts of calroies and the eat even more, i recomedn weight gain shakes, put butter, oil and lard in every food you do for her, give hes snacks to eat all day long and avoid walking as much as posible, embrace be lazy and do nothing.

The real answer, No, you can't get rid of this, you are on this kink forever, and not because i'm telling you, but because you like it and you know it, is what make you too and give you some form of identity in your life, is healthy being fat, of course not but that is not the issue here, you want be healthy and loved and attracted to more people in the traditional way, but that is selfish, that is not a good reason to be thin or healthy just to fit and being accepted, you could do it and felt better at first but then you will feel empty and would like to return to the old habit and remember how felt to be fat, watch fat porn again and enjoy life like the old days, you will have the same issue again and maybe if you losed weight you will gain the same weight or even more again, and then you will feel bad again.

The solution just do what you really want, no what you are suppose to do or what everybody in your life expect to do, just make sure you are comfortable with that, maybe a point in between where you keep some weight, enjoy the fetish with moderation, some days you have burgers some day you have salad and exercise and you switch depending how you feel, you don't have to be with just one option you can have both the real goal here is to be happy.

Really sorry for you husband, still lives go on and is really cool you want to keep enjoying live, that being said you will first need to find someone that likes it and are into this so you dont have to start from 0 with him, then you need to put things straight and put limits to what you will want to happen before, during and after intimacy like we can go for pizzas and to someone´s place, then you will feed him or you want to be fed and finally at the end you just go or he have to go and only appear when you plan it again, and if you see each other in street or grocery store you dont know each other, is cold but that is the point is not a relationship is a deal to satisfy each other and finally have fun, life is too short to not enjoy ourselfs in this kink that give us a lot of pleasure, good luck.