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any girls into stuffing but not gaining?
my whole brand of feedism is that it's casual and based on a dynamic rather than results. I'm at the size I want to be and don't want it to change. Fantasizing, playing around with it in the bedroo...

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is fat sex dangerous?
Penises can in fact be broken! https://www.mayoclinic.org/healthy-lifestyle/sexual-health/expert-answers/penis-fracture/faq-20058154

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can you curb your feederism urges?
"she" is right here

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can you curb your feederism urges?
Oh spare me. I wasn't implying intent. I was literally explaining that "this can be harmful language and maybe we should try to find another"

the fact that you are taking it personally and choo...

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can you curb your feederism urges?
Firstly - probably best to let them answer instead of you guessing

secondly, you are choosing to misunderstand the point I clearly indicated. Comparing a kink to sexual orientation diminishe...

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i'm starting an advice column...
Most may know me as an erotica writer, but I also write essays on topics related to *gestures* all of this. Dating, socializing, social issues, intersectionality, etc. Readers often reach out to me...

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tight shirt or loose shirt over belly
that's not how bras work... they go around your ribcage... which definitely does not have your stomach in it where the band rests.

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medication safety?
Just because a drug is most commonly used in certain situations does not mean it is intended only for those situations. Sometimes you will be prescribed something that seems way out of left field b...

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can you curb your feederism urges?
As someone who is both queer and a feedist, I strongly disagree with feedism being "hardwired into your sexuality" because that is just... not how that works.

A kink is what feedism is for me. ...

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where do we draw the line?
That just simply boils down to kink negotiation. It's literally just about consent and limits and boundaries and who is okay with fantasy and reality mixing and when and where. Not having that conv...

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where do we draw the line?
Not only this but to put it bluntly, a ton of feeders and FAs do not have *any* idea what the hell they are doing or have any concept of either what it truly takes for someone to gain or how to...

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fantasy feeder feels like home
I'd say you would be the one who doesn't understand. Considering this is a privately owned forum whose servers are based in another country, "free speech" doesn't apply here the way you think it do...

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fantasy feeder feels like home
Literally nobody asked either of you lol

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fantasy feeder feels like home
I know exactly what he said very much thank you! There's no mistaking what sexual orientation is versus a kink they are not the same thing there is no overlap they are not a substitute for each oth...

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fantasy feeder feels like home
A kink is not sexual orientation

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online event - ffl cycles of shame workshop series
I've been meaning to get more involved and I will try to attend some of these events!

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lesbian feeder fic recommendations?
I think my old pseud was mentioned in this but I do write a lot of sapphic/lesbian erotica. My pipeline is a bit jammed at the moment with about 5 projects I'm trying to get out the door but Cuffin...

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underutilised story ideas
Most often I hear comments about the lack of true contemporary fiction, romance, etc—but because erotic fiction is by definition erotic and its own genre (when written correctly—structure and l...

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encouraging laziness
This reminds me of the first generation of the Sims where "house layout" was one of the things that contributed to how much they enjoyed their space. My brother and I would spend hours strategi...