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LoraDayton
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thinking about making youtube videos, is it safe or a good idea?
Be extra careful beyond just not showing your face or voice. Set up entirely different contact information. Emails, accounts, get a Google Voice number. Have a plan to pull the plug on it if you ne...
thinking about making youtube videos, is it safe or a good idea?
Be extra careful beyond just not showing your face or voice. Set up entirely different contact information. Emails, accounts, get a Google Voice number. Have a plan to pull the plug on it if you ne...
LoraDayton
2 years
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stuffing tool - a bit of tech needed
I'm working on a scifi WG novellette that I may borrow this collar idea for as I am stuck with a couple of scenes with feeding mechanics!
stuffing tool - a bit of tech needed
I'm working on a scifi WG novellette that I may borrow this collar idea for as I am stuck with a couple of scenes with feeding mechanics!
LoraDayton
2 years
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fattening boyfriend
I would encourage you to reread your reply here. You're making some pretty contradictory statements. Especially about when he skips meals or doesn't continue gaining, because you're making it very ...
fattening boyfriend
I would encourage you to reread your reply here. You're making some pretty contradictory statements. Especially about when he skips meals or doesn't continue gaining, because you're making it very ...
LoraDayton
2 years
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throwing myself out there…
OP, feel free to ignore the *entirety* of @Wat's post. It's ableist, maladaptive, and rife with clear insecure projections that have nothing to do with you as a person.
throwing myself out there…
OP, feel free to ignore the *entirety* of @Wat's post. It's ableist, maladaptive, and rife with clear insecure projections that have nothing to do with you as a person.
LoraDayton
2 years
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will my gf blow up like her twin sister??
Why do you think it's acceptable to come out into public and openly bring others, without knowledge or consent into "just a fantasy" about someone you aren't even dating?
Because it's not "...
will my gf blow up like her twin sister??
Why do you think it's acceptable to come out into public and openly bring others, without knowledge or consent into "just a fantasy" about someone you aren't even dating?
Because it's not "...
LoraDayton
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LoraDayton
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throwing myself out there…
Everyone has negative qualities about themselves. Nobody is perfect and it's okay and a good thing that you recognize these things. But finding someone to fill that void will never resolve thos...
throwing myself out there…
Everyone has negative qualities about themselves. Nobody is perfect and it's okay and a good thing that you recognize these things. But finding someone to fill that void will never resolve thos...
LoraDayton
2 years
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throwing myself out there…
How about not referring to adult women as "chicks" to start. Or as property that you "call your own." Good grief.
What you're looking for isn't love. It's an object.
Having non-negotiab...
throwing myself out there…
How about not referring to adult women as "chicks" to start. Or as property that you "call your own." Good grief.
What you're looking for isn't love. It's an object.
Having non-negotiab...
LoraDayton
2 years
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for women, femme, and non-binary/gnc friends: what would a safe fa space look like to you?
My name is Lora. It's literally right in front of you. And you are the one who wandered into a thread meant for others to just complain because it didn't apply to you. And then proceeded to do ...
for women, femme, and non-binary/gnc friends: what would a safe fa space look like to you?
My name is Lora. It's literally right in front of you. And you are the one who wandered into a thread meant for others to just complain because it didn't apply to you. And then proceeded to do ...
LoraDayton
2 years
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the game is afoot
This all sounds enthralling! I actually wrote a lesbian story *very* much in this vein (Stuffing Season). The feedee is never even allowed to know how much she gains, her job is simply to eat a...
the game is afoot
This all sounds enthralling! I actually wrote a lesbian story *very* much in this vein (Stuffing Season). The feedee is never even allowed to know how much she gains, her job is simply to eat a...
LoraDayton
2 years
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for women, femme, and non-binary/gnc friends: what would a safe fa space look like to you?
That's the point actually. To keep discussion moving. To be open to learning new things and understanding where the people come from. I'm glad you observe the same!
for women, femme, and non-binary/gnc friends: what would a safe fa space look like to you?
That's the point actually. To keep discussion moving. To be open to learning new things and understanding where the people come from. I'm glad you observe the same!
LoraDayton
2 years
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for women, femme, and non-binary/gnc friends: what would a safe fa space look like to you?
The irony of how their username also embodies exactly what we're talking about: person not interested in connecting with us as people, just seeing us as blubber. On point.
for women, femme, and non-binary/gnc friends: what would a safe fa space look like to you?
The irony of how their username also embodies exactly what we're talking about: person not interested in connecting with us as people, just seeing us as blubber. On point.
LoraDayton
2 years
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getting asked for a picture of yourself
Eh. If there's no reason to ask a question then it's never just a question. There's a purpose to the question I would hope. And if the purpose is to see someone, is that really "just" a question? T...
getting asked for a picture of yourself
Eh. If there's no reason to ask a question then it's never just a question. There's a purpose to the question I would hope. And if the purpose is to see someone, is that really "just" a question? T...
LoraDayton
2 years
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getting asked for a picture of yourself
The double standard arises when you ask at all if you do not have one of yourself. Of you would like to ask for someone's photo and you do not have any up yourself, then you offer first. "Would...
getting asked for a picture of yourself
The double standard arises when you ask at all if you do not have one of yourself. Of you would like to ask for someone's photo and you do not have any up yourself, then you offer first. "Would...
LoraDayton
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for women, femme, and non-binary/gnc friends: what would a safe fa space look like to you?
I don't want to derail the thread because this is about what makes a space SAFE for the people mentioned in the title. Munchies didn't single out white people, she mentioned a specific type of ...
for women, femme, and non-binary/gnc friends: what would a safe fa space look like to you?
I don't want to derail the thread because this is about what makes a space SAFE for the people mentioned in the title. Munchies didn't single out white people, she mentioned a specific type of ...
LoraDayton
2 years
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for women, femme, and non-binary/gnc friends: what would a safe fa space look like to you?
Duly noted!!
for women, femme, and non-binary/gnc friends: what would a safe fa space look like to you?
Duly noted!!
LoraDayton
2 years
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for women, femme, and non-binary/gnc friends: what would a safe fa space look like to you?
TIL another take on WASP. I thought it was White Anglo-Saxon Protestant
for women, femme, and non-binary/gnc friends: what would a safe fa space look like to you?
TIL another take on WASP. I thought it was White Anglo-Saxon Protestant
LoraDayton
2 years
A lil' snack does the body good :)
LoraDayton
2 years
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for women, femme, and non-binary/gnc friends: what would a safe fa space look like to you?
by verification, do you mean up to the user/recipient or by a moderator (or both)? or perhaps a karmic-type system a la reddit?
for women, femme, and non-binary/gnc friends: what would a safe fa space look like to you?
by verification, do you mean up to the user/recipient or by a moderator (or both)? or perhaps a karmic-type system a la reddit?
LoraDayton
2 years
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for women, femme, and non-binary/gnc friends: what would a safe fa space look like to you?
Many of us know how wild it can get out there and how frustrating it can be in these spaces.
I'm working on a couple of fun projects and worldbuilding things and it got me thinking. I know what...
for women, femme, and non-binary/gnc friends: what would a safe fa space look like to you?
Many of us know how wild it can get out there and how frustrating it can be in these spaces.
I'm working on a couple of fun projects and worldbuilding things and it got me thinking. I know what...
