lol, i didn't know what this meant.

i am old, sorry, lol, my slang is vintage.

my partner, who is both trans and more than a decade younger than me (but still probably old from urchie'...

i love drinks - beer, wine, scotch... i was a real beer aficionado, and love the exotic (and strong) styles, like triple IPAs, russian imperial stouts... big flavours, big alcohol content!

i cre...

it's so different for everyone. my arms did not get really big, even after gaining a few hundred pounds. my partner, who at less than half my size, has nice, fat. jiggly gorgeous arms.

great point - everyone has to do what they feel they need to.

as soon as i started hearing about ozempic, my first thought was, "i wonder what horrible side effect they'll discover five or s...

i think this belongs in the personals section, not general.

hey, great post - i suspect you are not alone in how you feel. and the fact that you've done some math to try to figure this out is pretty cool (to me), although i have an innate distrust of al...

i have been a part of various kink communities over the decades, and i would agree with your assessment - compared to others, feedism has a higher degree of masc-identifiying participants tran...

i was about 150lbs at the start of 2018. i started to gain by accident while dating a fat foodie... based on that initial gain of 25 lbs or so, i thought i would "give it a try" and i took a br...

yes - that is what i meant. and it will help keep any responses together, too, rather than splitting (or duplicating) them across two posts.

does it make more sense to reply to your first post, and continue it in the same thread?

here is a really good collection on soundcloud, "massively fattening:"

i have found through the course of my adult life that new things turn me on, on a whole bunch of occasions.

part of it is just getting exposed to new things and you learn, oh, i like that! but t...

we used to have several community meet-ups here every year here in toronto before the pandemic. since then there's been fewer, but i've been to two. i think for large cities they aren't uncommon.

congrats to the winners!

(i think the link to the picture needs to be fixed, though)

yes, happy boxing day! i hope everyone is having a great holiday!

this is big for me, too... being touched, held, squeezed, it is totally different than when i was thin.

the feeling of weight, of my body resting on itself, the feeling of how my flesh moves...

initially i resisted it, but quickly it turned into a bit of a humiliation turn-on... like, "you used to be so fit and strong, and now look how weak you are, look how easy it is to control you....

when i was younger and fit, like you, i had some of the same feelings with fat partners. i enjoyed being able to dominate them by being quicker, having better balance, being more flexible and a...

i think water and liquid in general is less effective at stretching your stomach than just eating more food. i don't know the science behind this, but i suspect it is both absorbed into what you've...

i am not sure what your post is for... are you putting this out there in search of a dom? or are you just sharing what's been in your head for a long time, in a safe space?

a lot of what yo...