this sounds like something you should post in the personal ads, if you want a bbw to squash you.

thanks for doing the research for us and sharing these sources!

it is still up. marilyn and stef still post regularly.

heather, who runs the site, has had some real health challenges over the last several years, going back to the pandemic. i think that'...

thanks for clarifying. not sure i agree with everything that you said, but that's fine. i am not schooled in psychology, biology, etc. so i am definitely not an expert.



i agree with you - n...

you lost me - who has no choice, and who is the dinosaur???

ironic stance given your user name.

i got the joke. i thought it was funny. you didn't like the joke. that's fine too. If urchie said what you said, no, it's not funny. but they way they sa...

i think the challenge is just number of calories... and something to do with the metabolism.

i never got to 500 lbs (kudos to you on that amazing achievement!), and at my heaviest i was con...

lol, i didn't know what this meant.

i am old, sorry, lol, my slang is vintage.

my partner, who is both trans and more than a decade younger than me (but still probably old from urchie'...

i love drinks - beer, wine, scotch... i was a real beer aficionado, and love the exotic (and strong) styles, like triple IPAs, russian imperial stouts... big flavours, big alcohol content!

i cre...

it's so different for everyone. my arms did not get really big, even after gaining a few hundred pounds. my partner, who at less than half my size, has nice, fat. jiggly gorgeous arms.

great point - everyone has to do what they feel they need to.

as soon as i started hearing about ozempic, my first thought was, "i wonder what horrible side effect they'll discover five or s...

i think this belongs in the personals section, not general.

hey, great post - i suspect you are not alone in how you feel. and the fact that you've done some math to try to figure this out is pretty cool (to me), although i have an innate distrust of al...

i have been a part of various kink communities over the decades, and i would agree with your assessment - compared to others, feedism has a higher degree of masc-identifiying participants tran...

i was about 150lbs at the start of 2018. i started to gain by accident while dating a fat foodie... based on that initial gain of 25 lbs or so, i thought i would "give it a try" and i took a br...

yes - that is what i meant. and it will help keep any responses together, too, rather than splitting (or duplicating) them across two posts.

does it make more sense to reply to your first post, and continue it in the same thread?

here is a really good collection on soundcloud, "massively fattening:"

i have found through the course of my adult life that new things turn me on, on a whole bunch of occasions.

part of it is just getting exposed to new things and you learn, oh, i like that! but t...

we used to have several community meet-ups here every year here in toronto before the pandemic. since then there's been fewer, but i've been to two. i think for large cities they aren't uncommon.