Allgrownup


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Allgrownup 4 years
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help other feedees
I don't find that very nice of him.

I understand he likes to see other gain as well. But if he understands how this makes you feel and then says "that's all well and good if it makes you feel th...
Allgrownup 4 years
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limit to how fast you physically can gain?
From an article in the NYT:

"The researchers also examined past studies of overeating, in which people gorged on food to see how much weight they gained and how quickly, and found that most of t...
Allgrownup 4 years
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help other feedees
Maybe talk about it with him? Explain how it makes you feel.

If it seems to turn into a whole drama but you prefer staying with him you can turn it into a game; "how about every week/month/whate...
Allgrownup 4 years
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help other feedees
We come from two totally different angles. I'm a feeder/encourager who has worked hard at having his wife accept she's gained and is gaining weight.

One of the things I do to encourage that beh...
Allgrownup 4 years
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emotional eating
My wife eats all her emotions. Sad? Comfort with food. Happy? Celebrate with food. Nervous? Eat.

Of course I always have all needed goodies in the house. Whether she feels sad, happy, or whateve...
Allgrownup 4 years
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i found myself subtly encouraging a huge fatty i met today - and they gave in- it was so unexpec
I think you did a fun thing. It's fun for us feeder/enablers to do something like that, and for the person the feeling of "having it" isn't bad.

Encouraging, enticing, manipulating; all these ki...
Allgrownup 4 years
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any other people really into the idea of a world where obesity is normalized and encouraged?
I like it a lot when being overweight and even obese is becoming more normalized.

In Canada 28% of adults over 18 are overweight. Adding the overweight category, 64% are overweight to obese.

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Allgrownup 4 years
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gainer vs feedee
None of this is codified so take it as you wish...

A gainer is someone who wants to gain. Alone, together; the means aren't the main thing. Gaining is.

A feedee is someone who needs feeding, ...
Allgrownup 4 years
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playing with your significant other’s belly while they sleep?
I've been using behavior modification with my wife since I told her I prefer her with more weight on her. Part of that includes starting to let my hands wander from carressing her breasts to also h...
Allgrownup 4 years
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what tv shows have you watched recently?
House. MIndhunter.
Allgrownup 4 years
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do you find the physical limitations of weight gain a turn on or a turn off?
Before, I never really thought about it, probably would have found it a turn off or a "what?!"

Now that my wife is 220 lbs her life style has changed from being not really active to really not b...
Allgrownup 4 years
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are stretch marks sexy
Like a big fat double chin stretchmarks are another mark someone is really fat. For that reason I find them sexy
Allgrownup 4 years
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how to accept this fetish and guilt
Some kinks or sexual orientations can be problematic that way. Remember that just because you are this way doesn’t mean you have to act on in in real life.

In a loving relationship sex is onl...
Allgrownup 4 years
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got wife to (most probably) forego weight loss surgery
I appreciate the concern for her well being. No, I don’t force her. Yes she has lost a lot of weight herself before. No, she didn’t keep it off. Yes I told her I don’t want to be the food po...
Allgrownup 4 years
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caring for the immobile death feedee
At what point does moving become difficult and at what point does it move into immobility ?
Allgrownup 4 years
new topic in fattening others forum
got wife to (most probably) forego weight loss surgery
I've won smiley

While we were eating we discussed how we feel about our bodies. When it came to her I asked "now that you feel you fit better in your clothes is that weight loss surgery still on the...
Allgrownup 4 years
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you can eat & absorb 2.5x your calorie needs
Some quotes from the article:

- Our bodies seem to adjust to prolonged, repeated physical exertion and its energy demands by burning fewer — instead of more — calories over the course of the...
Allgrownup 4 years
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how to enjoy your fetish without paying 100$
Noodles are almost free calories. Soft drinks and chips are almost free.

Buy a big bag of flour. Make your own pizza dought (super simple). Have bags of shredded cheese, pepperoni, and crumbled ...
Allgrownup 4 years
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bmi. what's yours?
My feedee: 5'7", 34.5 BMI (Class 1 obesity ends at 34.9)
Allgrownup 4 years
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you can eat & absorb 2.5x your calorie needs
It pertains to the processing capacity. If you have a waste management facility that can process 100 lbs of waste per hour it doesn't mean you can't dump 200 lbs in it; it means it can still only p...
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