Weight gain due to medication
I’m on a couple different psych meds. It’s in everyone’s best interest for me to take them as prescribed, and my life is far better without the extreme highs and lows of bipolar disorder. So ...
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Advice for new mattress shopping
The heavier you are, the softer a mattress feels, because you have more weight pushing down on it. You will also wear the mattress out faster, which is why models made for heavy sleepers tend to be...
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Outgrow seating
If a restaurant’s chairs don’t fit the first time I go there, I politely ask the server for a chair without arms. If they provide one without being rude, I’ll stay and eat there. If they ...
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Outgrow seating
Ugh, yes! Chairs with arms are the enemy. I am very pear-shaped with wide hips and huge thighs, so fitting in chairs can be difficult.
My favorite Korean BBQ restaurant has the most awful chai...
My favorite Korean BBQ restaurant has the most awful chai...
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Do you find the physical limitations of weight gain a turn on or a turn off?
It always surprises me that so many people don’t plan for the worst case scenario. Maybe it’s because I grew up in California, where fire and earthquake preparedness are something you learn...
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Itchy stretch marks
I can confirm that severe edema sometimes causes stretch marks. Years ago I had a terrible reaction to a medication that resulted in my lower legs and feet blowing up like balloons. That was pa...
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Itchy stretch marks
Anyone have any tips for dealing with the itch? I have a bunch of old, deep stretch marks on my belly between my rolls. Right where my waistband sits. Lately they’ve been itchy to the point where...
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30s+ bi/pan/lesbian women - wlw, sapphic, etc!
Hey, someone like me! I’m 41 and bisexual. I would love to chat with a feeder or FA. I prefer the softer side of feedism. Friends would be great too, you can never have too many friends. 

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Most controversial food opinions
Dill pickles aren’t my thing, unless they’re on a Cuban sandwich.
I will stand at the kitchen counter and eat pickled garlic out of the jar though. I love a good kimchi, and danmuji, and the...
I will stand at the kitchen counter and eat pickled garlic out of the jar though. I love a good kimchi, and danmuji, and the...
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Unhealthy?
[description=forum]Oh god, toasting the spices. Somehow I always either burn them or don’t cook them enough. One of these days I want to take an Indian cooking class and get the teacher to show me exactly how it
[description=forum]Oh god, toasting the spices. Somehow I always either burn them or don’t cook them enough. One of these days I want to take an Indian cooking class and get the teacher to show me exactly how it
Unhealthy?
Haha, right now I’m a much better baker than cook. I’m determined to learn though! I can do a lot of American dishes well, but I’m not familiar enough with the spices, herbs, and other flav...
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Unhealthy?
Can confirm, I dislike most fast food. Always have with a few exceptions. I enjoy eating out, but I would rather have a delicious curry with naan and pakoras, or barbecue brisket with tangy coles...
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Mattresses make a difference!
I was seriously considering the Big Fig, but I don’t have a lot of money. I went with the Titan Plus from Brooklyn Bedding instead. The online reviews were just as good and it was significantly...
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Mattresses make a difference!
I was sleeping on the same mattress and box spring for twenty years. Partly because I didn’t want to spend the money to replace it, partly because I don’t like change. Well, it got to the point...
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Pretty spring clothes
Ooh, send me her info? It’s so hard to find pretty dresses that fit and aren’t made of polyester. I have texture issues, polyester is a big no.
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Most controversial food opinions
I detest avocados. They’re like vegetable-flavored butter, and I am not the type of person who enjoys eating straight butter.
Ketchup and mayonnaise are not good condiments, they are ingredien...
Ketchup and mayonnaise are not good condiments, they are ingredien...
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Polite things people say
Ugh, yes. Did I ask about your diet? No? Then why do you think I want to hear about it as I fill my plate with appetizers?
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Question for those with low appetite
I love good food. The flavors, the textures, the aroma, it makes me so happy. But I do tend to lose my appetite under extreme stress. Some stress = a craving for comfort food, tons of stress = ew, ...
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What was your "i can't believe i ate the whole thing" moment?
A party size bag of Lays barbecue chips. I have zero chill around those things. If there aren’t any witnesses, one bag equals one serving, regardless of the size of the bag.
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Winter desires?
Same here. Between the holiday food and the cold weather making me crave warm hearty dishes, it's much easier to put on weight this time of year.
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