I see this post is 6 months old so.. any more weight?

My gf did the same to me. I'm sure she didn't mean to, she just want to cook me nice dinners and bake something good. I was the one eating with gusto and complimenting her for her skills.. which she loved and she felt motivated to keep up.

When I told her I had gained 20 pounds she laughed and said "OMG honey are you serious, that's a lot!" I told her I thought she was just too good a cook and she immediately was pleased and proud. She kinda forgot I was getting fatter and she didn't cook or bake any less.. if I overate and ended up with a bloated belly on the sofa she would just giggle and say something like "oh it looks like you've enjoyed dinner! I'm glad you did!"

The fact is that she's not a feeder or a fat admirer. She's just very "nurturing" and I don't think she loves the extra pounds I've put on (30+) per se, she loves it because it's a proof of my appreciation for her being so good to me.

Does it make sense?

I've been thin and athletic till in my 30s..

Then the pandemic hit and my gf had much more time to cook and bake. When I went back to work a couple of colleagues asked "if" I had put on weight, but I could tell they were just asking how much.

I told my gf expecting her to say it was time to cook less, instead she found it amusing, she even said she was happy my colleagues noticed she was looking after me well. If anything, that motivated her to bake more.

She liked to tease me for having developed a sweet tooth, even though she played a big role in that (you know, she would hug me and thank me whenever I was showing appreciation for her baking, which meant eating a good portion, or accepting a second slice).

I didn't gain that much according to some standards, from 155 to 185 lbs. But that meant going from 6 pack to soft belly and love handles.

My girl? Unaffected for a couple of years, but she eventually joined in the eating and relaxing and her waist blossomed.

She's gone from a size XS/S to an L/XL this days, mostly driven by her belly!

Hey Annamk.. time to update this? 😊

Wow, you have been so lucky! And your wife is truly beautiful, at any weight. You must be delighted by where the weight has gone though.. who wouldn't love that! She seems very happy too!!

Do you think she is still gaining?

Yeah I'm also a fan of a sitting belly "problem". When my girlfriend started to put on weight the first time she could still pass for a slim girl when standing, but when sitting her new belly fat would bunch up and give her a single juicy round belly roll! I could see quite a few of her friends taken aback when they saw her sitting and suddenly realised she wasn't the slim girl they remembered, and not even the slim girl they where just talking to as they were standing..

Belly hung when standing is the next level up.. maybe you'll get there!

My girlfriend was quite ripped just a couple of years ago, the she slowly started to pile on the pounds and lockdown hasn't helped..

It is mainly going to her belly. I used to be more a fan of boobs and hips gain, but I have to say it's pretty funny to see it all going to her midsection instead. Her legs are still slim and her hips pretty narrow but she has already lost her waistline and her tummy now bulges out a bit. Great to see how smaller her boobs seem since they haven't grown much in comparison.

I like it's going all in one place for her!

Yes that's cute! From what I get he is often trying to stuff you up so it's just fair if it rubs on him too!

How much do you two weigh if I can ask.. and have you gained much during your relationship?

\my ex girlfriend went from a skinny 110 lbs to a lean 130 with no big differences, a part from looking generally better and less bony.

I would say some real difference was noticeable when she approached 140, when a lower belly roll appeared. From there any pounds seemed to have an impact. What was a little roll at 140 was a juicy roll at 150, and a spare tyre at 160, just growing fuller, wider and going all around her waist now at 175.

Wow, you're very tall, I bet 15 pounds are not so significant on you.

My ex girlfriend was 5'7" and 110-115 pounds. A combination of a sedentary work and me being very pampering brought her to 125. People commented pretty quickly but it was nearly all "oh it really suits you, you were too skinny before."

It changed when she reache 135-140, it was there when her lower belly started to protrude a bit for the first time and to make a roll when she was sitting. From there up to 150 she got a ton of comments, from friends, family and colleagues. Most of them just amused to see a skinny girl growing not just curves but a little belly. All the classics.. from "are you pregnant?" to "better watch out, it's easy to grow a bitt too comfortable in a relationship", including curious friends patting her tummy or oinching her new little roll saying "oh, I never thought you would plump up, it's so funny."

Comment became a bit more concerned around 160, especially her family was saying she was fat and had to diet.

Interestingly, no one seemed to comment anymore by the time she reache 175.

I guess it was just the surprise at the beginning, especially because she used to be so skinny. Then over the years probably people just got used to her being just another chubby girl, and made no difference if she was 160 or 180.

Anyone else a similar experience?

She stepped on the scales and it read 136 lbs! We were both very surprised. This time it was mainly concern from her side, for me it was still quite amusing to see such a big number, but I did think it was enough, my girl had exceeded my fantasies and there was no need to go any further. She said "Enjoy it till it lasts because it has to go before summer!" I did enjoy it and interestingly by summer I was quite used to it and happy it was still there. That summer started with the scales at 139 lbs "Shit, nearly 140! I'm getting too fat!" That summer was always when she started to get comments from her friends and colleagues. They were mainly friendly "hey, you've put on a bit, haven't you?" It was amazing to see the surprise on her friends' faces, clearly she was the last person they expected to see putting on weight. Even some of my friends commented, and not always friendly "gosh, your girlfriend is letting herself go, isn't she!" Luckily from her friends it really was friendly and I saw her becoming more and more relaxed around that topic during the summer. She even had no problem replying to her curious friends "yeah, it was just a few pounds initially but then I don't know, something has changed and it's so easy to pile them on now. I go to holiday and I put on 5, I went for that work experience abroad and Bang, 10 pounds in 5 months! Oh it was so easy to stay skinny back in college".

Summer was over and I remember seeing her stepping on the scales one day and matter of factly saying "Go figure, 143. It just keep going up." That was the second big surprise for me (after seeing my skinny girl getting softer and softer). Her being passive in front of it. She didn't mind getting in the 120s because she still looked gorgeous, she panicked when she reached the 130s, and by the time she was well in the 140s she was just so fatalist, a bit disappointed but nothing else.

One night at the restaurant that autumn we sat down and she looked at me with a pout.. I asked what was wrong and she said "look at my belly, that roll is obscene!" She was wearing a tight white top and a pair of jeans. That outfit was accentuating her weakspot indeed, not really obscene but I guess that's what it seemed to the eyes of a girl that used to be skinny and toned all of her life. Regardless she ordered herself a quite substantial meal and enjoyed it all. Then she went for the dessert menu with a big grin. I was a bit confused, my girl was getting bigger than my dreams, she was aware, but she wasn't doing much about it. I asked if she was still hungry and she replied "oh I don't need to be, I just love their cakes!"

That Christmas we were at her family and she was pushing 150 lbs. When she sat at the table her brother nastily asked since when she had got that big sausage on her lap. To be fair her roll had grown substantially that winter and she was wearing the same unforgiving white clingy top as a few months before and yes, it was asking for comments or jokes. She told her brother he was an idiot and she kept eating very well throughout those holydays just to prove she didn-t care what he thought.

After a few weeks back at home she did say she had got fat enough and it was time to cut on food. I thought she was right. She was already 25 pounds above my initial ideal and I thought her belly roll had definitely reached that limit between arousing and just too much.

But then again, the more time passes the more you adapt and I got used to her softer version, and she grew more confortable in her new size too. Then it's easy to let her guard down from her side and to hope for another few more pounds for me.

Two years later we were sitting at the table of one old friend of hers from college. She had always been the chubby friend but she had managed to diet and she was telling us how she finally lost 20 pounds and got under 170 lbs. My girlfriend was sitting next to her and praising her for her achievement and telling her she looked much better now. At the same time my girl had just gone for a second helping of mashed potatoes and sausages. When reminded that there was also cake in the end she said jokingly "no worries, no cake is going to waste with me" and she patted her once little belly roll, by then full blown spare tire resting on her lap. I had never thought I would have found such a spare tire exciting on my girl but it definitely was. Moreover I knew she was up to 175 lbs by then, bigger than her once fat friend was at the moment. That detail hadn't escaped my girlfriend either. She was undressing in bed that night, her bare spare tire in view for me, as she reached behind her back to undo her bras and let her once perky boobs now heavy udders sag down towards her belly, she said "can you believe it, I'm fatter than Clohe now, that's crazy. She really looks good now though. Another few years and I could be heavier than she used to be!" Again, the surprise was how matter of factly she sounded.