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Edxl
3 years
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sizeism and fatphobia as a classist issue
It has become so very much a class issue. And that has such complex interactions with size acceptance and body positivity, because even people who might not give a fig if someone is fat or not may...
sizeism and fatphobia as a classist issue
It has become so very much a class issue. And that has such complex interactions with size acceptance and body positivity, because even people who might not give a fig if someone is fat or not may...
Edxl
3 years
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how do you deal when you feel unattractive to the general population?
I think there are two parts to wanting to be seen as attractive.
-One is pragmatic, people tend to treat attractive people better. (from minor things like how helpful store staff are to chances ...
how do you deal when you feel unattractive to the general population?
I think there are two parts to wanting to be seen as attractive.
-One is pragmatic, people tend to treat attractive people better. (from minor things like how helpful store staff are to chances ...
Edxl
3 years
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likelihood of someone re-gaining weight back?
Most people gain the weight back eventually, but 'eventually' can be well down the road.
Generally changes in life that disrupt habits make it easier to slip back into a fatter life (it typica...
likelihood of someone re-gaining weight back?
Most people gain the weight back eventually, but 'eventually' can be well down the road.
Generally changes in life that disrupt habits make it easier to slip back into a fatter life (it typica...
Edxl
3 years
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my girlfriend started gaining weight during quarantin
Something I forgot -- if you can get ahold of those measurements, used the size charts on stores' sites to figure out her (theoretical) size at that store. I say theoretical because not everything ...
my girlfriend started gaining weight during quarantin
Something I forgot -- if you can get ahold of those measurements, used the size charts on stores' sites to figure out her (theoretical) size at that store. I say theoretical because not everything ...
Edxl
3 years
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anyone here into history?
I enjoy reading various bits of history in a non-academic context. Also well researched novels set in historical periods can help bring a time and place alive. I'm kind of scattershot, but roughl...
anyone here into history?
I enjoy reading various bits of history in a non-academic context. Also well researched novels set in historical periods can help bring a time and place alive. I'm kind of scattershot, but roughl...
Edxl
3 years
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heavy cream alternative?
You could look into canned coconut milk, it has a lot of the fat still in it. But:
- I don't know how healthy a fat it is
- I suspect part of heavy cream's near magical powers are due to its dai...
heavy cream alternative?
You could look into canned coconut milk, it has a lot of the fat still in it. But:
- I don't know how healthy a fat it is
- I suspect part of heavy cream's near magical powers are due to its dai...
Edxl
3 years
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tips on low sugar snacks
Cheese is good, if it is not convenient to be cutting it up you could pre-slice some, or buy Laughing Cow or Babybel.
Peanut butter works (you just need a spoon and grab a big spoonful of it). ...
tips on low sugar snacks
Cheese is good, if it is not convenient to be cutting it up you could pre-slice some, or buy Laughing Cow or Babybel.
Peanut butter works (you just need a spoon and grab a big spoonful of it). ...
Edxl
3 years
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my girlfriend started gaining weight during quarantin
I think getting her some bigger clothes is an excellent idea. Clothes not fitting can be a really strong reason to stop gaining/lose a bit, as it isn't comfortable and doesn't look good.
If you...
my girlfriend started gaining weight during quarantin
I think getting her some bigger clothes is an excellent idea. Clothes not fitting can be a really strong reason to stop gaining/lose a bit, as it isn't comfortable and doesn't look good.
If you...
Edxl
3 years
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10,000 calories/day
I did some web searching one time trying to find out how many calories we could process in a day, without getting any hard numbers. The closest I could find was that people can probably absorb up ...
10,000 calories/day
I did some web searching one time trying to find out how many calories we could process in a day, without getting any hard numbers. The closest I could find was that people can probably absorb up ...
Edxl
3 years
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ok to like my husband bigger?
Let's be real, 48" waist is pretty huge. Also medical professionals would say that his BMI is in the 'morbidly obese' category, and his BMI would put him in the fattest 3 to 4% of men in the U...
ok to like my husband bigger?
Let's be real, 48" waist is pretty huge. Also medical professionals would say that his BMI is in the 'morbidly obese' category, and his BMI would put him in the fattest 3 to 4% of men in the U...
Edxl
3 years
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told my wife i'm a fa
I wasn't quite as direct, it was more like "I'm not a fan of thin. I like pretty much all other sizes, so don't worry that I'll ever think you are too fat for me. I want you happy and healthy abo...
told my wife i'm a fa
I wasn't quite as direct, it was more like "I'm not a fan of thin. I like pretty much all other sizes, so don't worry that I'll ever think you are too fat for me. I want you happy and healthy abo...
Edxl
3 years
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creating alluring pictures
Guys' pics generally get a lot less attention than women's pics. So I wouldn't say that nobody pays attention to pics, but as a guy you are only going to get so much attention.
I think that unl...
creating alluring pictures
Guys' pics generally get a lot less attention than women's pics. So I wouldn't say that nobody pays attention to pics, but as a guy you are only going to get so much attention.
I think that unl...
Edxl
3 years
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sweating as a bigger person.
I've come to appreciate sweating more, since we discovered that my son barely sweats, so very easily overheats and so has to avoid a lot of situations. I don't like dripping and being all glossy a...
sweating as a bigger person.
I've come to appreciate sweating more, since we discovered that my son barely sweats, so very easily overheats and so has to avoid a lot of situations. I don't like dripping and being all glossy a...
Edxl
3 years
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understanding my new fetish and looking for advice
Thing one to have very clear in your mind is that trying to change someone else's body without their consent is not ethical. So no tricking your bf into gaining weight, coercing him, etc.
If he...
understanding my new fetish and looking for advice
Thing one to have very clear in your mind is that trying to change someone else's body without their consent is not ethical. So no tricking your bf into gaining weight, coercing him, etc.
If he...
Edxl
3 years
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growing man tits
Be very careful messing around with hormones! From what I've read, sufficient doses and duration of female hormones to have a noticeable increase in male breast size can potentially cause perm...
growing man tits
Be very careful messing around with hormones! From what I've read, sufficient doses and duration of female hormones to have a noticeable increase in male breast size can potentially cause perm...
Edxl
3 years
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sweating as a bigger person.
One thought is if you can adjust what you are wearing? Breathable fabrics (or wicking fabrics), short--sleeves, etc. Keep a sweater handy for when you are just sitting around if you would get col...
sweating as a bigger person.
One thought is if you can adjust what you are wearing? Breathable fabrics (or wicking fabrics), short--sleeves, etc. Keep a sweater handy for when you are just sitting around if you would get col...
Edxl
3 years
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unsure of whether to gain or not
Like with most things in life, if you only want to do it when you are horny, it probably isn't the best idea. When you get to the point where you are still cool with it after nutting, then you are...
unsure of whether to gain or not
Like with most things in life, if you only want to do it when you are horny, it probably isn't the best idea. When you get to the point where you are still cool with it after nutting, then you are...
Edxl
3 years
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my sudden gaining is causing issues, please help.
There isn't a like button on posts in here, so I'm just responding to say that you offer the best and most practical advice. Always a treat to see your posts, and often educational too.
my sudden gaining is causing issues, please help.
There isn't a like button on posts in here, so I'm just responding to say that you offer the best and most practical advice. Always a treat to see your posts, and often educational too.
Edxl
3 years
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what is life like after a 100lbs gain?
It is going to depend a fair bit on how tall you are, how active you are (both for how strong you are to carry the weight, and for how soon you notice the difference in weight), and how you are bui...
what is life like after a 100lbs gain?
It is going to depend a fair bit on how tall you are, how active you are (both for how strong you are to carry the weight, and for how soon you notice the difference in weight), and how you are bui...
