EmilyMoon:
When choosing your weight or goal weight, the maximum option is 799 pounds. For most this wouldn't be a problem, but there are people here who are 800+, and my goal weight is 1000. Can it be updated to 1000 at the minimum? Ideally 1400 as that's the weight of the heaviest person to exist. Thanks

Nok:
omfg this stuff is amazing. How is this not more widely know?! Incredible

becomingoverweight:
Which stuff in particular?

becomingoverweight:
Well that's not good. It sounds like you've gained a lot of visceral fat. That's the kind of fat which makes your belly protrude. It also feels hard to the touch. If you have too much of it, you'll develop metabolic syndrome, which you have.

I would suggest you stop gaining for now until you reverse your metabolic syndrome. I know of a good diet for burning mainly visceral fat.

Here's some advice I've given before:

To lose primarily visceral fat, you could go on a hypo-caloric diet(eating less than your TDEE daily) and eat a significant amount of dairy and/or coconut butter/oil or you could add a significant amount of shea butter to your diet.

Here are some scientific studies you might find useful:

Weight-loss diet that includes consumption of medium-chain triacylglycerol oil leads to a greater rate of weight and fat mass loss than does olive oil

Medium chain fatty acids burn 3 times more visceral fat per subcutaneous fat area in the abdomen than olive oil does. Coconut butter/oil is a good source of medium chain fatty acids.

Weight-loss diet that includes consumption of medium-chain triacylglycerol oil leads to a greater rate of weight and fat mass loss than does olive oil

Calcium and Dairy Acceleration of Weight and Fat Loss during Energy Restriction in Obese Adults
Talks about how calcium and dairy products increase visceral fat loss.

Calcium and Dairy Acceleration of Weight and Fat Loss during Energy Restriction in Obese Adults

Shows isocaloric diets can redistribute fat from one fat deposit to another. The high carb diet increased visceral fat and decreased subcutaneous fat. The high fat diets of dairy or olive oil did the opposite. The dairy was more effective though at improving fat distribution.

Monounsaturated Fat-Rich Diet Prevents Central Body Fat Distribution and Decreases Postprandial Adiponectin Expression Induced by a Carbohydrate-Rich Diet in Insulin-Resistant Subjects

Stearic acid reduces visceral fat a lot. Shea butter contains large amounts of stearic acid. Cocoa butter does too but not as much(it also has a lot of Palmitic acid).

Dietary Stearic Acid Leads to a Reduction of Visceral Adipose Tissue in Athymic Nude Mice



I made a thread filled with loads of links to scientific studies on obesity and fat distribution:
Compendium of Fat Studies

I suggest you look at it if you want to learn more about fat and what it's doing to your body.

When you start gaining again, I recommend trying to only gain subcutaneous fat. It's pretty harmless even in large excesses. I can give you some advice regarding that if you want.

Rosycheeks:
Hi all!

I�ve been a lurker for a few years, my boyfriend actually got me into this fetish. I started at 120 and now am at 170. I am writing because I have started to get dark spots around my neck and after going to the doctor I have learned I have pre-diabetes.

I don�t know what to do. My boyfriend loves that I am gaining weight and I love it too but I also don�t want to become diabetic. He loves my new body, I�m scared to stop gaining weight.

Any tips on managing diabetes while also gaining weight would be a life saver. Thank you.

fatchance:
I understand about copyrights. That is why I was suggesting giving them the option to let stories remain. Lots of authors have shown up later looking for copies of their own stories a few years later.

I also get your point about storage capacity too ... although stories don't take up the kind of room that pictures do.

Influx:
I have to wholeheartedly disagree.

I haven't spent much money on content admittedly, but what I have I've been very pleased with. The difference is, especially with regards to the amateurs, I've spoken with these people prior to buying anything.

I've been around the community for a couple years, and have had the pleasure of talking to a handful of models - both pro and amateur. And plenty of them have been wonderful to talk with. And any of us who have taken the time to speak with models know the absolute bs they have to deal with on a regular basis. Yes, there are plenty of fakes and scammers out there. But for every fake model, there's a promise of money that isn't fulfilled on the other side. This is a two-way street, and needs to be presented as such. Scammers on *both sides* make everyone look bad, and make it difficult for people to connect and share.

Anyone who has actually been in a feedist relationship (strictly financial, or all the way to romantic), knows the costs of gaining. Food obviously, and of course clothing, but even things such as cars to accommodate a person's size. Now I'm not saying buy your favourite feedees new wheels, but I will say that if you're enjoying a specific person's content that it's ok to test the waters financially.

Yes, there's a chance you can get scammed as a buyer. Welcome to the internet. Hell, Sears in Canada owes me $150 for an order I never got, but they shut down operations on this side of the border. I'll never see that money again, and that was a massive company with a multi-decade reputation.

Buyer beware, always. But to say never even be a buyer, is putting the blame solely on one side of the discussion. And given the plenty of wonderful models, again *both* pro and amateur, I've talked to over the years, they do not deserve to be blanket-painted as unsafe.

Startnew:
Thank you for your post. I have been offered money more than once. It was from virtual friends with whom I had already established a connection. We discussed their fantasy and if I found it sexy enough then I would make the vid or pic. The fact that I got a financial compensation FIRST went without saying. Making a vid does require some work: you try clothes studying different possibilities and position, then try the moves again and again before you start filming, then you watch the vid and edit it. Regardless, I never expected to get a lot of money, also bc my face was never there and I know for some guys the face MUST be there, except it is too risky for me.
I really enjoyed that. I would never dream of not sending the vid: that would deprive me of half the fun! But a couple of times there were some guys who insisted they had sent the money and wanted me to send the vid and the money was not there of course. Some ppl are just sneaky! That proves that disonesty goes both ways. So far I am not on any website but mayb some day I will leave my job and just do that! The only problem is it always keep you horny so I will have to buy a vibrator too!