Belly Builder:
Since starting out, my belly has gotten WAY bigger…which is great, but I dream of having an overhang. I’ve gotten up to 255 from 200 and still it’s just a big ball. Any advice? Or do I just need to keep going and hope for the best?

ES-Draws:
I'd also recommend setting a smaller weight gain goal first, just so you can get a feel for how much your body is changing.

There's likely no long term risk to gaining with heavy cream over a short period of time. Short term diet changes are usually not harmful. But! You may find that your body will change, even once you've lost the weight.

Gaining weight, especially if you have always been thin, will come with the addition of new fat cells. Fat cells replicate and grow when you gain, but they only shrink when you lose - the will not go away. This might make you look plumper as compared to when you were at the same weight before, and it may also make it easier for you to gain weight again.

Morbidly A Beast:
My friends mother and his little sister fat shamed me, we go back to grade school lol said I threw away my body and that I used to be so handsome asking why I got so fat I mean granted the last time I saw them I was like 220 I’m now almost 400 I guess it’s kinda to be expected just wasn’t prepared for fat shaming first time I don’t know how people get off on fat shaming like this, I was just off put and embarrassed. I just kinda explained how I like food and stopped working out, she said clearly! He just pressed on not saying anything

Bigwideland:
If people are blunt with me I am blunt right back. If it was me I would say well that’s nice first time we have seen me in years and that’s what you focus on, not how am I or what have I have been doing, gee what a great person you have become…

Tentacles:
How many people do you think keep this within the realm of fantasy vs actually gain?

Munchies:
Depends on what you mean by reality vs fantasy. I used to gain, but I would fantasize about sizes I would never achieve.

Meanwhile, I am actively making my feedee very fat, but I've accepted he might be unable to reach some of the sizes (600 lbs - 700 lbs) that we've fantasized over.

Tentacles:
The issue I see with gaining is the lack of an endpoint isn't the process kinda the point rather than the end goal.

Reflection Of Perfection:
If you read enough profiles you'll see "serious feeders only" in quite a few of them with links to various paysites or cashapp/PayPal.

AndrogChubb:
The hardest part for me is wanting her so badly and knowing that even if we did reconnect, I’m very limited when it comes to sex and all that. I just feel like most women, her included, would be unhappy with me in the long term since I’m unable to please in that way anymore.

Jiggle Junkie:
Unless your life goal is to get with a whole wide swath of many women, it’s likely “most women” doesn’t apply to the situation. All it takes is one (or two or a few or whatever for us poly folks).

In 2019 i had life-saving prostate surgery with a side effect that eliminated my ability to ejaculate during orgasm. To a certain percentage of women who enjoy penis cum, this rendered me sexually dead/worthless (and i had to totally re-learn orgasms, but that’s a digression). Had to look on the bright side and do a little re-branding: All of the hardness, none of the mess! For some potential lovers, that might be a feature rather than a bug. Focus on what you still have and any advantages, rather than losses.

Further, there’s sooooooo much more to sex and sensuality than genitals! You may get with someone so excited by your fat/other aspects of your body/you that the genital situation won’t matter, or will be a very minor consideration.