One reason the stalls are smaller, is because they have to have a large handicap stall, but are not making rest rooms any bigger. (And if they retrofit an existing bathroom, they have to take space from the other stalls for the large handicap one.)

People should not be assuming anyone is pregnant, or bring it up first. So, just act pregnant. Hold your belly like a pregnant woman. Then there should be no explaining to do. If someone mentions your "pregnancy," then tell them that you are fat. maybe they will learn not to bring up pregnancy then.

I ignore the profiles of people obviously looking for money. Now, I am getting messages on Feabie asking for money. I guess there are not enough people willing to pay money for all the people who want to collect money.

Some of the best are women who are underweight and say they need money for food to gain. They've been here for a year, and have not gained a pound. And there are rumors of men pretending to be women looking for money, hitting up men. It would be great if there was a separate section or even a separate website for women who enjoy gaining for the sake of gaining.

With her yoyoing, she'll probably be pretty big one day. But then the problem is that you would be with someone who doesn't like her size.

You don't need to tell people your intentions. They can see you gain. If they mention it, just tell them that you don't mind it.

Stick it out. Dieting slows the metabolism, so she will regain all of her weight, plus more.

People can have whatever goal they want. But I find that most of the people who claim they are over 700 have bigger imaginations than they do bodies. They rarely, if ever, have pictures.

Bras come in all sizes from flat chested to huge. You could wear one now if you want.

Someone asks how you can tell a crossdresser from a transsexual: A crossdresser can't wait to put a bra on, a transsexual can't wait to take it off.