Makethatgirlfatter:
My partner is about 40 pounds heavier than me, and I think it's so fucking hot. When I told her I like fat people, she decided she didn't need to diet anymore.

Imtryingstuff:
Just curious to see/ hear why some people will go out to meet someone for a date but won't do it if it has this kink involved?

I've seen it constantly "i don't do meet ups" "I'll meet after we do some online stuff". Why go out on a date but not a date/ do something with this kink?

I personally don't do any online stuff because of scammers.

Eleanorrigby:
i would imagine it's pretty similar to not wanting to be physically intimate too soon. they probably want to form an emotional connection and see how you would work on that level before delving into the kink and any possible sexual relations

Munchies:
Got it in one. It's a form of screening. Always check the vibe before you engage in kink shenanigans. Sometimes, people are incompatible. Sometimes, people need to be on a watchlist.

I'm assuming you are talking about women. We have to be extremely cautious. The worst you are worried about is getting scammed. The worst we have to worry about is getting stalked, raped, and/or murdered.

Romy:
I am immobile and almost reaching 900 pounds.
In my conditions, no one can work and to reach this size you have to dedicate yourself to eating like a pig and avoiding any physical effort.
We are talking about people who do not lift a finger all day except to put food in their mouths.
Perhaps there are exceptional cases, but the truth is that you have to eat like a pig until you burst all day long.
My stomach is too stretched. I can eat 7 packages of Oreo cookies for breakfast at and then devour 7 family pizzas at noon.
There is no work outside of the PC that I can do and my lifestyle is basically supported by my husband.
We are not rich but feeding myself is very expensive and I consume the equivalent of a family of 5 people.
How do they gain weight? eating as much as possible. Is it expensive to gain weight this way for an obese person? yes and a lot. Do they maintain them or do they work? Maybe they work up to 650 pounds and then can no longer do it because of a disability and have to be supported.
Maybe some won't admit it, but in my case I'm this fat because I wanted to and of course my stomach stretches and I eat more and more.

MottiF:
In City Island (2006), Ezra Miller’a character is a feeder who likes big woman, and it’s not portrayed as a negative thing.

Chubbypup:
I just watched this, and not only is it not portrayed as a negative thing, it's actually the most benign of all the secrets. If it's even a secret.

Ex Jock:
About 40 lbs. it’s honestly surprising and a little concerning how much I don’t miss the old bod, and how much my “limit” or “wouldn’t mind looking like that” has increased. From ‘strictly feeder’ and never would gain, to a letting myself go a bit, go turning into legit gainer.

Chloe957:
You look way better, that's why haha