That's actually not really small for a BBW. Larger sizes are actually pretty rare. The reason you see them on sites like this is many women who hit the genetic lottery with mega boobies can often make money from showing them off. Think of it like the news though. If the event was common, it wouldn't be newsworthy.

Many women hurt their boob display, however, by wearing ill-fitting or poorly sized bras. Have the ladies at a plus size womens store fit you to make sure you display what you have well.

Also, the key for any woman to come across as sexy, but especially important if you are a BBW, is confidence. Not being showy or skanky, but tasteful confidence in rocking your curves. If you act ashamed of your body people will pick up on that, but if you love your curves it is easier to garner respect and maybe turn a few heads you didn't even expect to.

One of these days I need to finish Chrono Trigger. I've started it several timew but always get sidetracked. Amazing soundtrack though.

That depends! I'll message you.

Your profile says you're poly and partnered. Is that still the case?

Of course you feel guilty about it. Society teaches us to conform, fall in line, follow the standard, and everyone else is a deviant or trouble maker. When you feel that pressure remember that you're a human, not a sheep, and you can make decisions for yourself. Don't get sucked into a life led by the old Japanese proverb that "the nail that stands out gets hammered down."

True, this fetish is not without health risks, but lots of people smoke, drink to excess, or drive recklessly all the time. Is this all that much more dangerous? Pick your poison, avoid other risks, and if you indulge a bit let it be for the one thing that really makes you happy. Just make sure there is trust and informed consent for everyone involved and there is no reason to feel guilty.

Sorry to see you're so far away, your belly looks like it deserves some good rubs.

That's a very worthy goal! Welcome.

A lot of weight gain is genetics, so it isn't always easy to control.

Sounds like he's still in the closet about his fetish. Not sure how you can get him out but he's not going to embrace it with you until he accepts it in himself.