deltajim:
I've always wondered this for myself.
I think in many ways, I'd be better off. I would probably live longer, be more satisfied having my body where it's at (instead of pursuing a goal that's 50, 100+ lbs in the future), able to have normal relationships, and be more focused on my other interests.
But part of me would feel weird---it would feel like a part of who I am is missing. I think a part of me would still like bellies, even if I had an off switch, it feels like a part of who I am.
I think if there was an off switch, something would fill the vacuum. What if it were a weirder kink? Or something just as distracting?
What if there was a switch to make people be able to relate with this fetish? Men would be expected to have bellies, women would be expected to have curves. Perhaps the reason this fetish seems so rare is not because there are few people who have it, but instead the way our culture treats fat.
Getting fat seems to be a natural part of getting older, so why is it so villainized? The majority of Americans (and much of the rest of the world) are overweight... The average male american has a 40 inch waist. I would think people's tastes would be shaped by the people they see around them, not so distracted by what they see on tv.
If I had a switch, would I flip it? It depends on the day.
same... it depends on the day.
sometimes i wish i flipped the switch back when i was 250, sometimes i feel like i really need to switch it now... mostly when i am doing something that reminds me how much more difficult things are compared to when i was thin. whether it's walking, or stairs, or just getting up off the floor, lol!
but other times, particularly when i am gorging myself, getting stuffed, and i start feeling aroused, i just want to feel that much bigger...
4 years
666Dust777:
The fatter I get, the more I feel embarrassed. I feel so embarrassed that my belly sticks out, and everybody at the store can see how fat I am. And when my family comment on how I'm getting fatter, I get so embarrassed, my face turns red.
What's weird, is that something strange happens - when I get embarrassed about my weight, I get turned on, too. Every time someone comments that they noticed I'm getting bigger, I get really embarrassed, and then my dick starts getting hard.
Some of my best orgasms have been when I'm embarrassed about being fat. I think the shame/embarrassment of getting fat is part of the fetish. The fact that as I get bigger, the fat around my cock starts growing and makes my dick look smaller - and for some reason that turns me on.
i was surprised by this, too. as someone who spent most of his adult life thin & fit, the arousing thrill of being called out as a fatty, or teased for my growing gut was really a surprise.
i have felt the same way about the growth of my fupa around my penis.
this was all totally a surprise to me, i thought i was a born feeder/fa, and now i am experiencing something really new (and honestly exciting).
4 years
i am bisexual (pansexual perhaps?) and have had partners of various genders... my most recent partner was a fat woman - i was fit when we met and got fat myself while with her.
now i am back on my own, basically single for the first time as a fat man.
in my past with other men i was a very fit dom and feeder to submissive fat men. now, as a fatty myself, i really have a desire to be dominated by a fit, strong man - to basically have the tables turned on me.
4 years
i need to get a scale, i think i am probably up about 30 lbs since march... yikes! without even trying. this is mostly boredom eating.
4 years
fatrnfatr:
Are you still putting on weight?
yes, i have gained some more.
stuff has changed over the last few months... i have had to change cities for work, and my girlfriend was not able to move with me due to her work. we have tried to keep things going long-distance but it is tough. i don't think either of us are really happy with the situation.
work and moving (and basically ... life! lol) has kept me really busy. i remain sedentary, i am eating and drinking too much, and yeah, my clothes continue to shrink on me somehow.
i have reconnected with some old friends, fit ones from my previous life as a gym nut. they have been trying to encourage me to return to the gym now that it is open again, but to be honest, i don't want to. not only an i not interested because of the pandemic, but i just can't see myself there as a fat guy.
the thought of being there with a fit, strong guy (who i used to have the same physique as) to compare myself to, now that i am totally out of shape, is kind of arousing... the embarrassment and humiliation appeals as a fantasy, but i don't think i could bring myself to really do it...
4 years
my girlfriend is officially smaller than she was when we met about 2 years ago. she's still a good deal bigger than i am, and still a ssbbw, but i am proud of how she has been managing her diet and fitness.
by comparison, i am at my fattest and heaviest - ever!
she is back to swimming now that pools have opened up, which is good for her joints & mobility. i have not joined her yet at the pool yet, but i intend to.
a few weeks ago she started to work out with weights, nothing serious but she wants to protect her joints and mobility since she has a fairly physical job.
she asked if i wanted to join her, but to be honest, i just can't face it. i used to be such a gym rat, i was there 3-4 times a week. when i first started to gain weight, i panicked and tried to go back to the gym to lose it, and get back in shape... i just couldn't do it. i was winded so easily, and the amount i could lift had diminished so much - i know it was pride, or ego, but i just felt like such a weakling. i couldn't be there. it felt so embarrassing.
i am only fatter now (probably 50 lbs+) and more out of shape now... and while the idea of how humiliating it would be is kind of a turn on, i just don't think i could go thru with it.
5 years
when i started to gain, going from around 150 to maybe 200 lbs, the difficulties i started to face initially scared me a little. getting winded more easily, difficulty sitting up in bed, etc.
so about a year ago i went back to the gym to try to get more fit again... oh man, it was so hard! and my pride took a big hit, too. it was embarrassing being there, so out of shape, as a fatty - and so much weaker. after years of being really fit, doing beginner stuff really hit my ego! so i didn't keep it up. i tried a few times, but eventually gave up.
since then i have put on maybe another 70 lbs or so, have hardly been active at all, and the limitations have steadily become more pervasive. i am more accepting of them now, though, and spend more energy thinking of coping strategies to deal with them (like: how can i avoid the need to go back upstairs for the rest of the day? lol!)
5 years
Al_Belly:
Does anyone else get excited when fat starts forming above the pubic area? It is such a real sign that I am not just chunky but becoming obese! It makes me want to grow fatter and fatter, especially when touching that super soft fat that forms there.
boundandfeed:
Yes, I love the super soft fat, and its effects "down below".
My pubic area has gotten puffy and has started to consume my soon-to-be, even shorter memeber. Will it still function???
i was a little alarmed when it first started to plump up, it was one of those things that signaled to me that i wasn't chubby anymore, i was getting fat.
my member is average sized, and while hard i would say the fupa covers maybe a third. maybe 3/4 when soft? but the fupa flesh is so soft, when your are having sex it compresses easily. i think even if it were covered completely you could still press the flesh back enough to make good use of it.
would love to know if anyone else has had experience at very large sizes?
5 years
TheWhipHand:
Such a good little feedee. Good job.
yes ma'am. thank you ma'am.
5 years
i hope to be back in toronto by august/september time and would love to participate if someone is organizing something. hopefully the pandemic conditions will be lifted by then???
5 years
