If you stare at a fat person, they will think you don't like it, and that you think they are a freak. You might be able to get away with looking, if you give a smile.

In a muumuu.

After meeting many many women throughout my long life who hated being BBWs, it's nice to see those who like being BBWs.

I don't think too many people will donate to men gaining weight. Just trying to get to 800 pounds with no plan on how you will earn money and who will take care of you is not a good idea. You need to get a good paying job, like an accountant. If you depend on a job that requires a lot of physical activity, you're not going to have an income. Most people looking for super large mates are looking for women.

I am using it. My barely 38B breasts didn't get any larger yet, but they are definitely more femininely shaped. My doctor has me on Anti-Androgen for blood pressure.

I live near Philly, but I am married (to a non-feedee BBW) and am 71 years old. So, even though I like it, in person meetings are not an option.

There are straight men who like having breasts. Some got them accidentally, some took hormones, and some had implants. Since some men get breasts without trying, having breasts does not mean you have to explain why you have them. Some men, accidentally or otherwise need to wear bras. Others wear bras only because they want to.

You not only need estrogen, but you need something to reduce or stop the testosterone that your body is producing.

I would also like to say that moobs are fat deposits on men that look like breasts. If anyone goes the estrogen route or are successful with herbals, you'll be getting real breasts, not moobs.

In order for males to grow breasts, they need to take female hormones, and even that is not a guarantee they'll grow very much. You'll also face some health risks, and you won't be able to get hard any more. Body shape is hereditary.