In many cases, gaining weight is a choice, but remaining fat is not. Once you're fat, eating less will slow your metabolism and cause you to gain, and eating more will cause a gain. You look nice at your current weight, but I can understand that being over 600 pounds is not always easy.

I don't mind double chins, but one really big chin is kind of a turn off for me. Where the mouth ends up in the middle of the head, and the chin is the same size as the above the mouth.

From what I understand, people gain new fat cells, but only shrink them when they lose. So, all of your fat cells are just waiting to get back to normal size.

There is nothing to prevent a famous person from using a fake name.

A big band size is just as nice as a big cup size to us FA's.

That's just the way it goes. I know one woman who gained to 500 pounds, and is still an A cup. I also saw a picture of a woman who looked like she could be 600 pounds, and her picture looks like someone Photoshopped a picture of a thin 11 year old's boobs on her body.

Everyone needs to be careful if you are gaining. I know of one woman who was average size and thought it would be nice to gain 50 pounds or so. She is now closing in on 600 pounds, and is still gaining. She is not gaining on purpose. She just can't stop it.

If a man wants to grow real breasts, he needs two things: Estrogen and a testosterone blocker. The best thing is to see a doctor and get a prescription. You can buy Pueraria mirifica over the counter, but need a blocker along with it. There are some side effects of anything you take, including inability to have sex and blood clots, so be careful.

It also seems that you are hiding being a feeder, and she is hiding being a feedee. Talk to her, and let us know how it goes.

She might not have seen anything. 1) if a man likes fat ladies, it isn't unusual that he would like if a lady gained weight. 2) She might be testing you, to see what your limit is. She may want to really let go, but she is afraid she will get too big for you. You need to be totally honest about your limit. If you would prefer her at 400, but would still accept her at 500, be honest. If you would really have a hard time accepting her past 400, be honest. If a point is too big, but not measured by weight (not into immobility, for example), tell her that too. She just wants to know how big she can get. Good luck.