My fantasy: "converting" a big but shy woman to feederism. No tricks, no cheating, no unethical methods, just simply showing love, care, and adoration. She then turns from someone who hates herself for heir weight, to someone who accepts her weight, then slowly to someone who enjoys her weight. At the same time, she goes from trying (but failing) to control her huge appetite, to a phase of just letting herself go, and then graduating to a phase of deliberately overstuffing. Her goals would change from wanting to get thin at the beginning, then abandoning it and just wanting to drop a little bit of weight, then just wanting to maintain, then just wanting to live her life to the fullest not caring whether she keeps gaining weight, then finally to actually wanting to get even bigger.

Stay away from these malicious links, and help report the user. The more reports, the sooner he will be banned.

Isn't this counterproductive? The purpose of sweat is to evaporate and help you cool down. If you wipe it off, you will overheat faster. (of course there are situations when it's more useful to not look too wet, but still, on average you overheat faster if you are constantly wiping off sweat)

Does anyone else experience a regular fluctuation of preferences (as a FA) or goals (as a feedee)?

Weight is not the single most important factor for me. I can get attracted to girls who are stick thin and also to those who are just barely mobile (complete immobility is a turnoff).

But the "ideal" weight fluctuates slowly but regularly, between just barely big enough so that she can't hide she's overweight with clothing, posture or sucking the belly in, and the biggest weight she can still take care of herself with even if only with great difficulties.

You never even tried testing the waters to at least know if it's a sensitive topic for her or not?
Just a casual comment in the style that women don't all have to be skinny to look beautiful, or something similar, might provide an opportunity to gauge her stance on the topic, without being too intrusive.

To maintain what? To avoid losing weight, or to avoid gaining weight?

This question cannot be answered if you don't tell what you mean by "validation".

Is that people advertising their services need validations?

There are many people who are merely posting stories and don't want to show their faces. What about them? Will they be banned or discouraged?

Sorry to be so harsh, but this screamed like a scam right at the beginning.

And she's been likely doing it with dozens of other guys at the same time.

"She" might not even be a young women, or not even a woman, the pics and videos might have been downloaded from somewhere.

It happens a lot outside of this community as well.

en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Romance_scam

This reminds me, I observed that the percentage of people with non-traditional gender roles and other gender-related fetishes is significantly higher in the feederism community than elsewhere.

So much so that a few people even here on FF started regarding straight people as almost outcasts, and heteronormatives as outright Evil Incarnate.