You’re both right as it relates to ladies who’ve carried a lot of weight for a long time. My wife is about 305 and has been that way for going on 15 years or so. Her belly is soft and cuddly and sags almost to mid-thigh. Her first two pregnancies years ago before we met coincided with having to rely on steroidal medications for asthma, resulting in a fairly hefty weight gain — I’d say a hundred extra pounds in just a few years time. She’s been as heavy as 350 but has come down slightly in the past coupla years. Her asthma is much more under control now, though, so it’s not too big an issue. Her legs have stayed fairly big as well. But we both love it and would have her no other way :-) We had our first child together last summer, and she didn’t really gain or lose all that much. Hovered right around the 300 mark.
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Nerdybiggirl:
Just curious if there is anyway to help target a specific area of your body you want to get bigger. Personally I'd love for my thighs to get much bigger and my hips wider. Anyway to do that or is it really just genetics?
That’s a worthy goal indeed, but I’m afraid a lot of it is genetics if you have otherwise decent health.
Your main profile pic is quite lovely, though, so you’re not exactly lacking in the beauty department :-)
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Both recent exes were already chubby and gained a bunch while we were together, plus I was into the chubby chicks in school anyway. My wife now is a confident 305-ish and quite happy in her own skin :-)
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I certainly enjoy feeling and cupping my stomach after a meal :-) And I enjoy doing the same with my wife, who has the cutest, fattest hips around :-)
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Ditzy:
There are quite a few trans people on here and I think thats great.
Fat is the reason we are all here right?
Indeed :-)
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Juliihs2:
I am letting myself go by my desire for a short time and I have gained weight very fast, I imagine myself with a belly and hips huge enough to have difficulty going through the doors, feeling tight and difficult to even accommodate my whole belly sitting on my legs. drive with my belly crushing the steering wheel and go to the nearest Junk food. I could talk more about different situations, but those are the main
Well on your way! :-) Gain is impressive so far.
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seven8the9:
I'm a fat girl and over the years, the fact that less people have hit on me in public has taken a toll on my confidence. Now that I'm older , I know better (most of the time) that there ARE people out there that prefer bigger, fatter bodies.
Why are you all so quiet about it in real life?!
I mean, of course there are the societal norms and pressures... but could someone explain it to me simply, laymen terms?
No closet here :-) I’ve enjoyed the company of gaining or fat ladies all my life. My wife is a proud 305 pounds and we couldn’t be happier :-)
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You’ll look luxurious, I’m sure :-) My other half is about 180 pounds heavier than her lightest weight in adulthood, which was more than 20 years ago :-) Combination of medication and three pregnancies, which will surely do it :-) She is roughly 310 pounds and damn confident in her own skin :-)
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Juliihs2:
Since childhood I fought a fight against my own will, I always puffed up my belly and liked it but I always did all the diet and gym to keep
myself with 140 lbs with the Lockdown the anxiety due to the work because I am part of the essential team and the lack of physical activities made me have fatter options and at the end of the first Lockdown I was there 170lbs yes, I gained 30 lbs for a few months and I am immensely proud of it.
It made me have a new perception of my body and break the barriers that I had my whole life. Today I look at myself in hope and each Tire makes me more proud, I understand every day what I like best and I can already say that seeing the numbers on the scale go up and my clothes getting tighter every time is what I want.
Short and chubby is the best way to be :-)
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Juliihs2:
I went to cut my hair and touch up the blonde, I spent hours in the salon in front of the Mirror, I was seeing my tight pants and a nice thick fat tire marking my OMG shirt as it turned me on .
In another moment I would die of shame and try to hide but today I am proud of every pound I carry and feeling bigger is so good.I was radiant but I confess that looking at myself in so many mirrors seeing me bigger was making me excited So I tried to think of something else. But when I got home I was admiring myself and squeezing every roll I saw all day
Always awesome to hear a lady be proud and confident of her new size :-)
Keep us all in the loop and food on your plate!
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