Hello everyone, hope you all had a great festive time.

I am trying to be more open and honest with my partner about my feeder fetishism as well as attraction to BBWs and SSBBWs. I tend to keep it hidden out of fear of rejection based on a negative experience with a previous partner where I was mocked and ridiculed openly for it.

She has been great, really supportive of being honest with each other about our needs and wants.

She is of average build and has no desire to gain any weight. Which I am completely cool about as it's their body.

However, she still wants to do stuff like maybe wearing a fat suit/padding, writing fat stories etc. To try to meet me somewhere on our journey together.

Has anyone had any similar experiences and how did they find a happy medium to express weight gain/bbw fetishism with someone?

Hello,

Looking to help someone gain about 30kgs (67lbs) from a starting weight of approx 86kgs (190lbs), 167cm tall, female.

They are a a little weary due to the stereotype of just sitting on the sofa eating cheeseburgers all day. Even though that is a method and I do like the slob way. I feel in reality a more practical and healthier would benefit both of us.

It will clearly involve surpassing their standard calorie intake. Though I have heard about 'cleaner' fats to consume. They love their veggies but have a weakness for ice cream. I want to keep their diet and other activities such as yoga and walking relatively similar to ensure it is a positive experience for both.

Any helpful tips and recipes on healthy gaining would be warmly appreciated.

Ah legend, thank you very much.

Hello people,

I struggle to engage with the site and don't know how to meet people here. I log in from time to time and notice I have numerous profile views from what appears to be a deleted account located in Fiji. Every week or so, I will have a view from this deleted account and has been going on for about a year now (or longer).

Is this a bot or admins?

Do any of you nice people have the same?

Thanks for all the input.

Sorry about the late reply, work tends to take me away at times.

I think the next step would be to go along to a meet up. Even if it is just a drink and say hello, I think the experience would be very worthwhile to be at a dedicated event.

From what I observe, the UK does not have as much of a meet up scene than in the US. Could be wrong but what have others experienced?

Thanks for the replies and suggestions.

I find these things deeply fascinating and agree, over time I guess my fantasies/fetishes have matured.

Just trying to find a link like how some say finding some women with wide hips attractive means good birthing genes. Then, I would say loving a large person means they know where the good food is at?

Maybe that is what it is? FAs are just subconsciously looking for a decent food source. Gaining is about stocking up for the winter?

I wonder if anyone of an academic background or those who have done their own research can tell me why are we into feederism and fat appreciation? Where does that fetish come from?

I find big, curvaceous women and gaining very erotic. Its my jam. But where has this come from? Why do I not pursue cake farts or sportswear models?

These things are deeply fascinating, I love finding out how things work etc. So any enlightenment would be appreciated

Hey everyone, been on here for many years but never maintained a serious presence. Looking to fat chat and meet like minded people. To help express thoughts and feelings.

At present I've not found it appropriate to talk about things in the staff room. So would be cool to do so here.

I kinda agree that there is an element of the community that is just using it as a cash grab and to be fair there are plenty of simps that will pay for it. You can tell they are not really into gaining and just do pretend stuffing. However, some are genuine about it.

I dont think it is becoming mainstream but over the last few years friends and colleagues have started to acknowledge their love of the "dad bod" or plump men.

I doubt the the whole feeder/feedee thing will become mainstream. Certainly not in my neck of the woods

Huge SSBBW feeder for sure. At least you know the methods have been tried and tested.