Ah legend, thank you very much.

Hello people,

I struggle to engage with the site and don't know how to meet people here. I log in from time to time and notice I have numerous profile views from what appears to be a deleted account located in Fiji. Every week or so, I will have a view from this deleted account and has been going on for about a year now (or longer).

Is this a bot or admins?

Do any of you nice people have the same?

Thanks for all the input.

Sorry about the late reply, work tends to take me away at times.

I think the next step would be to go along to a meet up. Even if it is just a drink and say hello, I think the experience would be very worthwhile to be at a dedicated event.

From what I observe, the UK does not have as much of a meet up scene than in the US. Could be wrong but what have others experienced?

Thanks for the replies and suggestions.

I find these things deeply fascinating and agree, over time I guess my fantasies/fetishes have matured.

Just trying to find a link like how some say finding some women with wide hips attractive means good birthing genes. Then, I would say loving a large person means they know where the good food is at?

Maybe that is what it is? FAs are just subconsciously looking for a decent food source. Gaining is about stocking up for the winter?

I wonder if anyone of an academic background or those who have done their own research can tell me why are we into feederism and fat appreciation? Where does that fetish come from?

I find big, curvaceous women and gaining very erotic. Its my jam. But where has this come from? Why do I not pursue cake farts or sportswear models?

These things are deeply fascinating, I love finding out how things work etc. So any enlightenment would be appreciated

Hey everyone, been on here for many years but never maintained a serious presence. Looking to fat chat and meet like minded people. To help express thoughts and feelings.

At present I've not found it appropriate to talk about things in the staff room. So would be cool to do so here.

I kinda agree that there is an element of the community that is just using it as a cash grab and to be fair there are plenty of simps that will pay for it. You can tell they are not really into gaining and just do pretend stuffing. However, some are genuine about it.

I dont think it is becoming mainstream but over the last few years friends and colleagues have started to acknowledge their love of the "dad bod" or plump men.

I doubt the the whole feeder/feedee thing will become mainstream. Certainly not in my neck of the woods

Huge SSBBW feeder for sure. At least you know the methods have been tried and tested.

Thanks for the reply. Certainly things to consider.

What would you recommend to help form and maintain shape? Another thing i have been very curious when seeing other people do padding, is heat. Any tips on how to displace this?

Finally, good point to raise is what if things get steamy and best way to tackle the old sideways shuffle.

Hey everyone.

Going to take the plunge and give this a go after Christmas. Ordered the largest sizes of leggings, top, and sports bra I could find. Also got some of those wubble bubbles to give the beasts some weight.

Any tips for starting out?

I've always been into exceptionally large women and this is a way to potentially act out a fantasy.